Coparent Is Asked To Rehome His Kittens Due To Son’s Severe Allergy, AITA To Expect It?

Domestic animals like cats and dogs can trigger severe allergic reactions in some people, even without direct contact. Pet dander, which consists of tiny skin particles, can become airborne and be inhaled, causing allergic symptoms.

This can lead to respiratory issues, skin rashes, and other reactions in sensitive individuals. In some cases, the allergen can even cling to clothing and surfaces, making it difficult to avoid exposure.

As a result, people with severe allergies often need to take precautions to minimize their exposure to these allergens. Navigating coparenting decisions can be incredibly challenging, especially when it involves the health and well-being of a child.

This leads us to OP’s story - she's a mom of two whose baby daddy has two kittens. Unfortunately, the pets are making things get out of hand in this situation.

OP's emotions run deep because her child has a severe allergy, which can turn everyday situations into potentially life-threatening events. The stress and worry that come with this can be all-consuming.

The thought of a child experiencing a severe allergic reaction is just one of every parent's worst nightmares, but OP's baby daddy doesn't seem to care. His lifestyle and pet choice are directly impacting his child's safety, yet he refuses to give up his kittens.

Walk with us as we dive into OP's story in full detail.

The OP writes...

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The OP has full custody

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He has completely gone distant

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OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the AH:

1. Expecting my coparent to rehome his pets due to our sons severe allergy

2. I’m not sympathetic to pets, people get really weird and emotional about their pets. So maybe I’m the AH for thinking rehoming is a easy solution

Let's head into the comments section and find out what other Redditors have to say about the story

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The OP should bring the case back to court

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The biological dad is putting them in legitimate danger

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The little child might react to cat dander

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The OP left this in the comments...

Luckily the new parenting plan says Reunification center for visits. Previous plan was for “visits in home of the children”, so my home. I was being generous to allow skipping that due to affordability of those centers. 2 in home visits and we discovered the allergy. Court to approve that plan is in Nov and I’m open to alternatives. We shall see what the judge wants to do. I have been convincing myself this week I’m being heartless to the pets. It was a no brainer to return our puppy, I was like is it me that I don’t understand the significance of an “emotional support animal” as he stated they are.

And the comments continues...

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He's endangering his son's life

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He'll have ro make a move if he wants to keep his cats

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He doesn't value his child's life

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It's heartbreaking to see a child suffer from a severe allergy, and OP's concerns are understandable given the life-threatening reaction. The fact that the child ended up in the ER after just 45 minutes at the father's home with the cats is a stark reminder of the risks involved.

It's clear that OP is not just worried about the child's health but also feeling frustrated and helpless. The decision to return the puppy to the rescue must have been difficult, and now OP is left navigating a difficult situation with the baby daddy.

As advised, the OP is taking the case back to court, so her child can be safe whenever they're around their dad... or not.