Woman Shares How She Went On A Date With A Supposed "Nice Guy" But Was Uncomfortable All Through
"I’ll surprise you. I know what you want."
The majority of women want to date someone who is polite, caring, and thoughtful. However, it's a well-known fact that some men who call themselves "nice guys" can actually be everything but nice.
For women who once considered them potential mates, these guys may behave so entitled, deceptive, or even abusive toward them. As relationship expert Dr. Alexandra Solomon states, “The term 'nice guy' can often mask deeper issues of entitlement and manipulation.”
She eventually went on a first date with a man who initially appeared to be "nice" but turned out to be quite a lot to handle. Mind you, this story doesn't have a great starting as the guy had a pretty rough beginning despite the tiktoker telling him that she doesn't like surprises. The entire meal was under his strict control, and Talisa finally decided to rant about the terrible date in the ladies' room. Eventually, they walked out of the eatery into a downpour. Once more, her date insisted on being a gentleman, and I'll just pause here and let you get the full story below.
Me: Thank you for taking me here. Him: You’re welcome. Waitress: All right, I’ll get those going and then I’ll come back and grab your order. Me: Thank you very much. Alright, so I liked what she had mentioned about the scallops. That sounded really good. I’m a big seafood fan, so I think I’m gonna do that. Him: Let me order for you. I’ll surprise you. I know what you want. Me: I hate surprises. You know this place better than me so… Not all dates will have a perfect ending, but this TikToker seems to have her date going wrong from the start. It's just so annoying to find out that Mr Nice Guy is just doing everything wrong. Have you encountered such a person before? How did you handle it? Leave your comments below and share this post as well.Even fantastic first dates occasionally end in awkwardness
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The guy practically controlled everything
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The tiktoker made it clear that she hates surprises
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Rib eye with mashed potatoes
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Oh okay
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Wine or no wine?
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So no wine then
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Adding calories to one's body
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A nice little date
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What are you looking for?
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Knowing what women like
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Here goes nothing
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A cut above the rest
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Having what I have
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Taking the soup too
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Can't even order
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He thinks he's nice
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Drinking in all awkwardness
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You will not embarrass me
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It goes on...
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Just don't make a scene
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A gentleman gets the door
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Getting there a lot faster
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Getting the door
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People's opinions on this guy are evident in the comments and here are some of them
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Way too many dudes like this
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So many red flags
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Pickup artist
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Society is devolving
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The red flag
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Calling an uber
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Toxic chivalry
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That is terrifying
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A cage in my basement
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Lasting longer than necessary
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Adding no calories
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Everything feels sociopathic
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Going on a date
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Run!
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My cue to leave
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Freaking comment
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Running the other way
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So women like less calories
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This commenter has encountered such men before
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Choosing her own food
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A short story
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Red flag after red flag
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Serial killer vibes
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Getting the rib eye
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Ignoring everything
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Hats off
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The red wine
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Talisa released a second (now-deleted) Tiktok video after the first one went viral to clarify that it was only a parody of a bad date she had
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