Group Plans Hiking And Picnic Event That Wasn’t Wheelchair Accessible, AITA For Responding Rudely?

When planning events, it's essential to consider the diverse needs of attendees. However, finding a balance between inclusivity and flexibility can be challenging.

Some events may be more suited to specific groups or abilities, while others can be adapted to be more accessible. By acknowledging the limitations of certain events and providing alternatives or accommodations when possible, organizers can strive to create a more inclusive environment.

By also working together and understanding different perspectives, event organizers can create a positive experience for all attendees, even if every individual's needs can't be met. This story is about finding a balance that works for the group as a whole.

OP is part of a group that organizes social events for adults, aiming to help people reconnect after COVID. They've planned various activities, but one event in particular sparks controversy.

A last-minute question about the location of the invention sets off a heated debate, with some members feeling excluded and others arguing that not every event can be accessible to all. At that point, it was too late to change plans, and honestly, the answer was "no, the hike definitely wasn’t accessible."

OP's actions are called into question, as OP is left wondering if they're doing enough. What happens next? Read on to find out how this story plays out.

And here, we have the headline...

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They decided on a hiking and picnic day at a nearby national park

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Since the tables are first-come-first-serve, they couldn’t guarantee a flat easy to get to spot

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People were saying they should only plan events that are accessible to everyone

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"sorry I couldn't go out with my hammer and chisel the night before and make sure the rocky trails where smooth for everyone"

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Everyone who came had fun, and people are already asking when they will do another one

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The OP feels like no matter what they do, someone will be upset

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OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the AH:

Was making the event that wasn't wheelchair accessible an a-hole move and was my comment about in the group chat make me further of an asshole

As usual, the comments rolled in and you can check out some of the most upvoted ones below

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The OP didn't plan the event with accessibility in mind

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They are welcome to start their own group

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The OP shares more details in the comments saying...

I am a volunteer. I started the group a little after COVID restrictions 3ish years ago for some friends and then it got bigger with more people. Most of the time I'm losing money tbh because I bring food and stuff picnics for people or pay rental fees for small event spaces.

Did the OP think of potential bee stings?

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They can organise their own accessible event

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For this Redditor, it was a stupid question

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OP's intentions were genuine, aiming to provide a fun and different experience for regular attendees. The backlash over accessibility seems disproportionate, especially given the group's history of inclusive events.

OP's reaction is understandable, and their snarky response, while perhaps not ideal, stems from feeling attacked and frustrated. OP doesn't seem to be the AH neither are those dragging them... or are we wrong?

OP's willingness to engage and provide information demonstrates a commitment to inclusivity, even if it's not always possible to meet every individual's needs. Still, the story got an "everyone sucks" verdict.