Redditor Calls Out Germaphobe GF For Being A Hypocrite And Making Him Wash Hands Whenever He Touches Her Dog While Letting It Sleep In Their Bed At The Same Time

So, is she a germaphobe or not?

Damjan

• Published in Interesting
• March 25, 2023

Hygiene is an essential aspect of pet ownership, as it not only helps to keep pets healthy and happy but it also prevents the spread of diseases and parasites. Pets, especially dogs and cats, are known to carry germs and bacteria on their fur and paws, which can be easily transferred to their owners and other people.

And we have one story about hygiene today. OP had a disagreement with his significant other (28F) about hand-washing habits. Last night, his SO woke him up at 3 AM to tell him that he had thrown their dog off the bed while sleeping.

When OP went to the kitchen to grab a glass of water and use the restroom, his SO asked him to wash his hands. After some back and forth, OP decided to sleep in the guest room instead of their bed.

The next morning, OP woke up in a bad mood and asked his SO for an apology for waking him up in the middle of the night. However, his SO told him that it was his fault for not washing his hands and that he was overreacting.

This resulted in an argument, and OP expressed his frustration with his SO's behavior. OP acknowledges that he should have washed his hands after using the restroom, but he was annoyed that his SO wouldn't drop the issue.

He also mentioned that he tends to get angry quickly when sleep-deprived. Now, they are at a standstill, with OP feeling like he needs an apology and his SO feeling like he is being dramatic.

OP asks:

OP had a disagreement with his significant other (28F) about hand-washing habits. Last night, his SO woke him up at 3 AM to tell him that he had thrown their dog off the bed while sleeping.

When OP went to the kitchen to grab a glass of water and use the restroom, his SO asked him to wash his hands. After some back and forth, OP decided to sleep in the guest room instead of their bed.

The next morning, OP woke up in a bad mood and asked his SO for an apology for waking him up in the middle of the night. However, his SO told him that it was his fault for not washing his hands and that he was overreacting.

OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the a-hole:

Concerned about germs, and she lets the dog sleep on the bed?

No matter how much we love them, we have to admit that dogs are dirty

This Redditor has a different opinion:

A microbiologist says:

This Redditor believes that OP should learn to stand his ground.

The bottom line is - everyone is wrong here

OP's situation highlights the importance of effective communication and understanding each other's perspectives in relationships. It is possible that both parties may have valid points, and it is essential to find a solution that works for both of them.

What do you think?

Damjan