This Adult Baby Struggles To Find Employment Because People Do Not Like Him Wearing Diapers

Damian has built his life around a lifestyle most employers do not know how to handle, and that has made finding work a lot harder than he expected.

The 28-year-old is part of the Adult Baby Diaper Loving community, or ABDL, and says he wears nappies all day long. While he is proud of who he is, his choice has caused problems with past employers and even cost him relationships.

Now he is trying to balance his identity with the reality of getting hired, and the reaction has not been kind.

Damian, 28, is a part of the Adult Baby Diaper Loving community (ABDL) and wears nappies all day long.

He told Dr. Gary Chapman, marriage counselor:

"Embracing one's unique lifestyle choices, such as wearing diapers, can be a source of comfort and identity. It's essential to recognize that personal preferences contribute to overall happiness and well-being."Damien Turner on Facebook (via the Mirror UK)

It also echoes the AITA debate over hiding a secret baby fund from a partner after job loss, according to Reddit.

Damian's past employers have not been supportive of him.

"Employment is hard. I'm constantly in and out of jobs. Sometimes my employers find my pictures online or just can't put up with the fact that I'm wearing a diaper and acting childish in the workplace.""I have enough saved up for a while, but at the moment I'm currently putting in job applications. So we'll see how that goes."Damien Turner on Facebook (via the Mirror UK)

Damian is proud of his lifestyle choice, even though it has cost him relationships.

"I've lost a few childhood best friends. I do still have a few good friends who all know about it. I never hide it. If you are around me, it's just the norm."

His parents, though, are supportive:

"I found it very appealing and have pretty much been wearing them since I was 16. I lied and told my parents I had an [incontinence] problem at the time so they would buy me some."Eventually, I told them the truth. My parents don’t really mind at all; I’ve never had a problem with them regarding my lifestyle."Damien Turner on Facebook (via the Mirror UK)

I mean, each to their own, right?

As long as you aren't hurting anyone ¯\_(ツ)_/¯.

For another boundary blowup, read why this AITA user refused to host a baby shower.