Unhinged Mom Dangles Redditor’s Cat Two Stories High and Threatens to Drop It Unless She Gets a Cigarette Fix
“The incident broke my heart, and I can never forget that look of perverted triumph on her face.”
A 28-year-old Redditor thought they were dealing with a normal, if messy, family problem, then their mom escalated it into something straight out of a nightmare. The post is brutal, because it is not just scary, it is specific: a kitten, a two-story drop, and one demand that turns animal cruelty into leverage. It sounds unreal until you picture it, the begging, the panic, the way a tiny life becomes the bargaining chip in a fight over smoke. And then, after OP and everyone around them begged and cried, she returned the kitten, but the damage to the relationship was apparently permanent.
Here’s the full story, and it is the kind of moment that makes you wonder how anyone goes back to “normal” afterward.
The Story in Detail
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Reddit.comOP’s Mom Threatened to Throw Their Kitten Off a Two-Story Building Unless They Agreed to Buy Her Cigarettes
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OP’s mom didn’t just threaten the kitten, she dangled it two stories up like that was the only way to get her cigarette fix.
The actions of OP’s mother in this unsettling episode highlight how extreme stress and emotional instability can manifest in abusive behaviors. The incident, where she dangled a cat two stories high to demand a cigarette, underscores a disturbing attempt to exert control in a chaotic environment. This behavior is not isolated but rather indicative of deeper psychological issues that can arise in caregiving situations. Such acts not only inflict trauma on those involved but also reflect the caregiver's own struggles with emotional regulation. The chilling nature of this encounter serves as a stark reminder of the fragile balance between care and control in familial relationships.
OP’s Mom Returned the Poor Kitten After They Begged and Cried. Unfortunately, That One Act Damaged Their Relationship Permanently
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Here’s how the Reddit community reacted to the story:
“Cigars, Mother was a Monster for Threatening to End a Poor Animal's Life for a Pack of Cigars.”
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“Man, OP, that is scary. But I’m glad you got out of that situation.”
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After OP begged and cried, she returned the poor cat, but the whole situation left everyone walking on eggshells.
Studies published in the Journal of Abnormal Psychology reveal that caregivers often experience high rates of anxiety and depression, which can manifest in aggressive acts when they feel overwhelmed.
Understanding these patterns can help in developing more effective support mechanisms for caregivers.
“Sorry for the loss of your kitty. It wasn’t easy to give him/her up for you.”
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“Wow, you're pretty brave for doing this.”
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“I hope you were able to give the kitten to someone you knew really well and trusted.”
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The comments section basically lit up with people calling her a monster for using the kitten’s life to control the household.
Emotional regulation strategies are crucial for caregivers to manage stress effectively.
Techniques such as mindfulness and breathing exercises can provide immediate relief and improve overall emotional resilience.
Research indicates that implementing these practices can significantly reduce instances of aggressive behavior and promote healthier interactions.
“This was the best course of action. I am sorry that you had to give away your kitten.”
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“You were brave and saved the kitten's life. I’m proud of you and sorry you ever had to go through this.”
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“You never would’ve been the cause of a divorce, just so you know.”
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And once the cigarette demand turned into a near-tragedy, the relationship never really recovered, even with the kitten back on the ground.
Moreover, seeking support from mental health professionals can offer caregivers tools to navigate their emotional landscape more effectively.
Therapeutic interventions can help individuals process their feelings and develop healthier coping strategies, reducing the likelihood of aggressive outbursts.
The tale concludes with a heavy silence surrounding OP's decision to keep this trauma hidden from their father. OP was only a scared teen; they didn’t want to cause problems in their parents' marriage.
Now, as they reflect on the scenario, they’ve come to a realization—they aren’t responsible for the actions of others. If OP could go back, they’d definitely tell their dad.
What do you think about this story? Let us know in the comments.
The chilling episode recounted by the narrator highlights the urgent need to address aggressive behaviors in caregiving contexts.
Nobody should ever have to negotiate safety with a cigarette in the middle of it.
Before you judge OP’s cigarette ultimatum, see why they refused their friend’s cat on a road trip.