Caught Fare Evading: Students Bus Ride Turns Traumatic
"Student admits to regularly fare evading on buses, sparking intense debate on ethics and consequences - AITA for not paying my way?"
Getting on a bus in Australia is usually so routine it barely registers, nod to the driver, find a seat, and keep moving. But one student’s “normal” habit turned into a full-on nightmare in minutes.
OP says they’re under 18 and living outside the major city, so they don’t always have money to pay every ride. They usually board, acknowledge the driver, and it’s fine, but today the driver screamed at them, closed the doors, and demanded payment. OP tried to show a bus card that works only in a different state, offered to get off and call an Uber, and still got stuck with the doors closed like they were trapped.
It ended with OP finally getting released, but the real damage was the fear that followed them onto the next bus.
Original Post
I live in australia where in city’s busses are pretty f*****g good but I’m a student and don’t have the money to pay every time I need a bus so I normally just walk onto busses nod to the bus driver and sit and most of the time it goes fine but today when I tried to do this the bus driver screamed at me and closed the doors so I couldn’t leave and demanded I pay. I literally didn’t have any way to pay so I told him I could just get off and call an uber.
but he keeps the doors closed and traps me??? Since I’m under 18 and live technically outside of the major city I go to school in I have a bus card but it only works in a different state to the one I’m currently in.
I try showing it to the bus driver and eventually he lets me get off (no thanks to the card). But now I’m traumatised and don’t want to go on another bus again.
TLDR: I didn’t pay for a bus and was almost kidnapped by the driver
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OP claims this “nod and sit” routine works most days, until the moment the driver refuses to let them leave.
Once OP says they can call an Uber and get off, the driver’s decision to keep the doors shut is what flips the situation from awkward to scary.
The bus card mix-up, it working in a different state, makes OP’s explanation sound like an excuse instead of a real solution.
After the driver finally lets them out, OP’s trauma hits hard, because the next bus ride is suddenly off-limits.
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Nobody expects a fare dispute to turn into a “doors closed, you can’t leave” moment.
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