Man Discovers His Wife Has Been Cheating on Him with Multiple Men While Trying to Silence Her Phone Notifications
A marriage of six years may have just gone down the drain with this man's shocking discovery.
Learning that your spouse has been cheating can be heart-wrenching—it feels like getting hit in the face by a ton of bricks. Your marriage could be thrust into a state of crisis, with the potential to end in divorce.
The desire to understand why your partner cheated is reasonable; however, there is rarely a straightforward explanation for infidelity. It could stem from another issue in your marriage, something from your partner's history, or something completely unconnected to you or your relationship.
Whatever the reason, you'll be grappling with a lot of conflicting emotions and will have much to consider as you determine how to proceed from this point.
One Redditor found himself in a similar situation after discovering that his wife had been having affairs with multiple men. He shared his story on Reddit's "Today I Fucked Up" subreddit, where he explained how her notifications led him to this devastating discovery.
From the story, it was clear that he was enraged and confused about what to do next. In his words:
I’m sitting here, house quiet, nauseous and internally raging, drinking cheap beer, trying to figure out how we got here. I’d wake her up to confront her, but the kids are asleep, and I just don’t have the energy to fight tonight. There are six years down the fuckin' drain, bois.
Read on to learn more details and the aftermath of confronting his wife.
"TIFU by silencing my wife’s phone?"
u/get_probed2Out of curiosity, he took a deep dive into her phone activity and got the shock of his life.
u/get_probed2He discovered that his wife had been cheating on him with multiple men.
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The kind words he received from the community have been of great help for his mental health.
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The Redditor later confronted his wife, and she admitted what he already knew.
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Here's what members of the community had to say about the viral story
"I'm sorry you have to go through this."
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It seems it was posted in the wrong subreddit, but it went viral regardless.
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"Start looking into counseling for yourself and a lawyer."
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The Redditor feels hesitant to break the news to their mutual friends.
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"Lawyer up, hit the gym, delete your Facebook."
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This is leaning towards a divorce.
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"It's not the end of your life; your kids need you."
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"It seems she’s pissed away six years of marriage."
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Screenshots are necessary... a lot of them!
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"Six years down the drain."
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Move in silence...
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"At least you found out now and not later."
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This is going to hit hard.
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This user isn't joking around.
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"Keep yourself together, but feel free to cry."
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Three important steps the Redditor should consider.
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This is one story that resonates with many people who have been in similar situations. It's tough to deal with the discovery that your spouse has been cheating on you.
You're hurt, angry, and seeking answers. But it doesn't always make sense.
With the support of the community and a counselor, we're confident the Redditor will get through this difficult time.
