Women Of Reddit Confess The Intense Reasons Why They Regret Giving Birth

One of Reddit's most popular subs is r/AskWomen, which serves as a special place of sorts for women to answer questions, share experiences, and freely vent about their thoughts without much judgment.

As of writing, the sub has more than 3.2 million subscribers who read and listen to what women have to say. As you can expect, when the topic is about and for women, childbirth comes up every now and then.

It's fair to expect curious Reddit users to wonder about the mystery surrounding childbirth. It's normal to come across a question asking women what the worst or best part about giving birth was, but one unusual post asked about an unexplored area of giving birth: regret.

The bold Reddit user asked which of the women, if any, regretted giving birth and why they regretted it. The post received a lot of responses, and the moms were very candid about their reasons.

Before diving into their stories, remember that their confessions are not reasons to hate on them. They are simply human, shedding light on some of the most cumbersome parts of giving birth and the subsequent raising of children.

We're only hearing a part of their struggles, but from what we've read, their stance on childbirth is understandable. Their stories definitely raise awareness about motherhood and giving birth.

Here's the question that started it all:

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1. Raising a child with a disability is not the feel-good story you think it is.

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2. Surrogacy should be more accessible because women's bodies go through a lot during pregnancy and after it.

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3. Having children has a concrete impact on women's careers, whether the world would like to admit it or not.

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4. In some cases, women are no more than walking incubators, and their value is tied to their ability and choice to have a child or not.

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Pregnancy should not just be about the health of the baby; it should also be about the mom.

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5. Sometimes women regret their choice of partner to have children with.

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6. The long-term impacts of pregnancy and childbirth on a woman's body are horrifying.

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7. If you have a child with an abusive partner and the court deems them a suitable parent as well, then you are bound to them by law.

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8. Having a child in the current state of the world is kind of like fighting a losing battle for this mom.

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9. Science is still trying to decipher just how many things can go wrong in a woman's body decades after giving birth.

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10. More people, both men and women, should be made aware of how challenging a difficult pregnancy is.

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11. If your partner is unsupportive, you will have a terrible pregnancy experience, and after that, a terrible co-parenting experience.

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12. Although your kids may make the pain worth it, pregnancy is not at all kind to women, their hormones, and their bodies.

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13. This lady has consistent daily pain from her pregnancy years ago.

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14. Passing down mental illness to your children is no laughing matter, and this is why sex education is important.

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15. Being a teenage mom can sometimes mean growing up with a parent who is not ready for the responsibilities of parenthood.

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16. Simply put, it's just really painful.

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17. Your choice of hospital could also make your childbirth a nightmare.

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18. Postpartum depression is not a joking matter, and if left untreated, women and their children will suffer a lot.

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It's tough to be a woman in this society. Despite the strides we've made toward equality, we are still sometimes treated as baby factories; if you choose not to have a child, they will say you are selfish; if you do get pregnant, they dismiss your complaints and chalk them up to hormones.

We all should know better by now that pregnancy is not a decision anybody should take lightly. Women put their bodies through physical trauma that takes a really long time to recover from.

If you choose to have children, then good for you; it's an amazing thing to be a mom if you are truly ready for it. But please, do not pass judgment against women who decide that parenthood is not for them.