Women Of Reddit Share Creepy Things Guys Do

"Why aren't you married?" Really?

Sometimes, the things you believe to be absolutely acceptable to say and do are actually far from acceptable. In fact, they may be in such spooky territory that people feel frightened and uneasy.

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Conventional thinking still advises men to approach women by going to bars and striking up a conversation. However, as noted by Dr. William Doherty, PhD, a family therapist, "Many men could benefit from understanding social cues and recognizing when their advances are unwelcome." This sentiment is echoed in various discussions, highlighting the need for men to practice reading the room and figuring out when to back off.

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You see, depending on the situation, something that might have been meant as a pleasant remark could actually be construed as something more sinister. We understand that nobody wants to appear unsettling, but sometimes that is the case.

The majority of people who give off the wrong impression seem to have tried flirting with someone before things went tragically wrong. Guys sometimes engage in strange behaviors that they may not even be aware of.

While it's evident that following someone home is weird, you might not recognize that when you approach a woman, you're obstructing her only way out, or that asking her if she lives alone makes her uneasy. According to Dr. Pat Love, a relationship therapist, "Many men are unaware of how their actions can be perceived, leading to discomfort in women." Women are revealing all the strange things that guys do that they are sure these men don't know.

More Info: Psychology Today

The Question Has Been Popped

The Question Has Been PoppedReddit
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1. The Fact About Respecting Women

1. The Fact About Respecting WomenReddit
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2. As a Stranger, You Shouldn't Ask If She Lives Alone

2. As a Stranger, You Shouldn't Ask If She Lives AloneReddit

3. Trapping Me for a While Means Danger

3. Trapping Me for a While Means DangerReddit

4. Do Not Send Pictures of Your Private Parts

4. Do Not Send Pictures of Your Private PartsReddit

5. Don't Follow Me Slowly in a Car While I'm Walking

5. Don't Follow Me Slowly in a Car While I'm WalkingReddit

6. It's a No, No, No... Don't Do That

6. It's a No, No, No... Don't Do ThatReddit

7. You Shouldn't Ask Someone Why They Aren't Married

7. You Shouldn't Ask Someone Why They Aren't MarriedReddit

8. Making Attempts to End the Conversation

8. Making Attempts to End the ConversationReddit

9. Then This and That Could Have Happened

9. Then This and That Could Have HappenedReddit

10. Do Not Touch Someone's Hair Unless You're Permitted to

10. Do Not Touch Someone's Hair Unless You're Permitted toReddit

11. Don't Try to Add Me Up Because You Saw My Credit Card Receipt

11. Don't Try to Add Me Up Because You Saw My Credit Card ReceiptReddit

12. Do Not Honk, Yell, or Catcall

12. Do Not Honk, Yell, or CatcallReddit

13. You Can't Just Spring Up on Someone and Massage Their Shoulders

13. You Can't Just Spring Up on Someone and Massage Their ShouldersReddit

14. Do Not Flirt in a Position Where the Person Can't Leave

14. Do Not Flirt in a Position Where the Person Can't LeaveReddit

15. Do Not Bother Someone Who Has a Boyfriend

15. Do Not Bother Someone Who Has a BoyfriendReddit

16. Do Random Favors for Someone Without Them Asking

16. Do Random Favors for Someone Without Them AskingReddit

17. Don't Block an Exit Because You Want to Have a Conversation

17. Don't Block an Exit Because You Want to Have a ConversationReddit

18. People Wanting to See the Full Tattoo on a Woman's Body

18. People Wanting to See the Full Tattoo on a Woman's BodyReddit

19. It's the Switch-Up for Me

19. It's the Switch-Up for MeReddit

20. Do Not Go Grabbing People's Wrists

20. Do Not Go Grabbing People's WristsReddit

21. Stop Wasting My Time, Thank You!

21. Stop Wasting My Time, Thank You!Reddit

There are numerous risks associated with toxic masculinity for males as well as for those around them, particularly women. The most typical way to express this is through the use of violence or the threat of violence.

The majority of these behaviors are signs of toxic masculinity, in which men adhere to a very specific, predefined set of rules regarding how men are "supposed to" act. This is definitely detrimental to everyone.

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