A Guy Grades His Cheating Ex’s Apology Letter and Posts It on Twitter
“If there is no reason to lie, why isn’t the truth being told?”
If you’ve ever been on the bad side of a breakup, you have more chances to be petty. It doesn’t matter if the breakup was amicable; there’s going to be that small voice nagging you not to take the high road.
There are different ways to end a relationship, and there are also many ways to go about your life afterward. Some exes leave you for good, while others stick around to haunt you, making it difficult to move on from them.
Relationships that end with issues like cheating are more likely to amplify your petty side. There’s that lingering resentment that cancels out the polite thing to do if your ex tries to reconnect, such as when they write you a letter.
Twitter user Nick Lutz’s ex is an example of this; she chose to give him an apology letter. It consisted of multiple back-to-back pages of explanations and confessions about her lingering feelings for him.
In one part of the letter, Lutz’s ex stated that she knew he didn’t want anything to do with her, and frankly, she was right. Nick decided to read the whole thing, only to grade it like a school paper and correct the mistakes.
He then posted the letter along with the corrections made on Twitter and captioned it, “When your ex writes you an apology letter, so you grade it to send it back.” There’s no evidence that he actually sent it back, but people replied with various opinions.
This was how long the letter was
Nick LutzHe started off by pointing out the incorrect format the letter began with
Nick LutzThen he went on to correct the grammar mistakes in detail
Nick Lutz
Grammar wasn’t the only thing emphasized; OP asked her to elaborate on some sentences
Nick Lutz
In the end, OP’s ex scored 61/100, which is a D minus
Nick Lutz
Some tweets cropped out the pictures to comment on his words and agree with his statements
Sara
This tweet discussed her unusual attraction because of what OP did and gave him hope that she wouldn’t cheat like his ex
Caitlin Corsetti
He replied to the woman who was flirting with him
Nick Lutz
It continued on to become a potential date
Caitlin Corsetti
Then OP noticed it, both realizing that it might be their ‘How We Met’ story, and continued replying to the thread
Caitlin Corsetti
In a few words, OP is off to a good start in moving on
Nick Lutz
It looks like OP started the post with a still broken heart and ended it with a new blossoming romance
Caitlin Corsetti
Despite positive comments, there are still people who think that what OP did is debatable—whether it was good or bad to put his ex on blast. Although he didn’t reveal her identity, some of his followers might have an idea.
Additionally, the letter was personal, so it really was just a petty move for OP. But it might just be a small payback to give himself more reasons to move on.
Do you think there was no harm in what OP did? You can share your thoughts in the comments.