Redditors Support Woman Who Walked Out Of Her Sister’s Ceremony Because Of The Saddening Derogatory Comments Made At Her
It is always good to be kind with words
Kids are blessings to their parents, and it’s always a joy when a married couple is expecting. When the baby finally arrives to see the world, everyone is happy, and gifts are showered on the baby.
However, it can be quite a tough time for couples who are trying to have a baby, especially when one loses a child before he or she is born.
They deserve sympathy, especially from their families, because they need all the support they can get. But in today’s story, the reverse is actually the case.
A Redditor by the name of u/FutureeMacaronn took to the AITA subreddit community to share her story. According to the post, the OP had an elder sister who is slim and fit, while she was a little overweight.
OP’s elder sister was the favorite child and was married off in an arranged marriage to a wealthy man, with whom she has three kids. Meanwhile, the OP, who has been married for two years, has had problems conceiving. OP’s elder sister always told her that she “brought shame to my parents for marrying outside our culture and that I couldn't have a baby.”
Well, she later conceived but lost the baby at four months, which is incredibly sad. Did the OP’s family help matters?
Not at all. Keep scrolling to read the full story.
The question has been dropped...
u/FutureeMacaronnMe and my elder sister
u/FutureeMacaronnHer marriage was arranged...
u/FutureeMacaronn
Had a miscarriage at four months
u/FutureeMacaronn
She used it as a weapon against me
u/FutureeMacaronn
I had to walk out of the ceremony
u/FutureeMacaronn
The post received more than 18K upvotes with over 1K comments. Here is what some of the Redditors had to say:
1. Your family sounds like they suck
u/dahimi
2. Good for you to leave
u/RasRoyalty
3. Good second suggestion
u/AffectionateBite3827
4. You deserve to be free of her
u/subgirlygirl
5. Consider going low to no contact
u/Sea-Tea-4130
6. From the OP
u/FutureMacaron
7. You should decide to cut her off
u/linkusblue
8. The less they know, the better
u/mrsgip
9. She's shoving it in your face, and that's just awful
u/Intrepid-Owl710
10. So sorry for your loss
u/nubbz545
11. Minimize contact with her as soon as possible
u/Venetrix2
12. She is toxic, so there should be limited contact
u/birdingisfun
13. You're so much nicer than I would have been
u/Swimming-Low-6895
14. She should be out of your life
u/meowmixmotherfucker
15. An unkind family
u/Bubbyscranky
16. A toxic mess
u/XxTheBadgerXx
17. Another perspective to look at it from
u/Inner-Body-274
18. Your sister sounds terrible
u/jpeterson
19. Your hubby is there for you
u/aSuspiciousPanda
20. You made the right call
u/LAM_humor1156
21. Stop visiting her
u/Elaine_Benes-Lovr
22. Just block them
u/Cool-Clerk-9835
23. Escape from it
u/Oh_Wiseone
24. This is abuse
u/BrownDogEmoji
25. Wishing you a healthy pregnancy
u/megnificent12
It is always good to be kind with words. Just because you’re living the life that is dreamed of by many doesn’t give you the right to rub it in their faces.
You never know who will be in a position to help you tomorrow, so be compassionate. Tell us your thoughts about this post by dropping a comment below.
