Delusional Man Storms Ex-Wife's Office Demanding Child Support For Kid His Mistress Gave Birth To, Ends Up Getting Himself And His Mistress Fired

A 28-year-old woman is dealing with the kind of ex-husband chaos that sounds fake until you read the details. Her ex didn’t just move on, he moved in, with his mistress, and they’re raising a kid together that was conceived while he was still married to her.

So when she thought the divorce process was already messy enough, he decided to show up at her ex-wife’s office in full “this is my child support” mode. The demand was for a baby he claims is his, even though the whole situation is tied directly to his affair, the court drama, and his repeated insistence that he “still loves her” and “should have communicated better.”

What makes it extra wild is that the fallout wasn’t just personal, it hit his job too, and now everyone’s acting like she overreacted.

The OP writes

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OP's ex lives with his mistress, and they have a child together that was conceived when they were still together

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They believe OP's ex getting fired and losing the only source of income they have is too harsh

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That’s when the ex’s “we were together, but it’s fine” logic clashes hard with OP’s reality, especially since his mistress and their kid are already living in the same place.

Delusional behavior, particularly in the context of family dynamics, can stem from a variety of psychological issues. Individuals who display such behaviors often struggle with underlying mental health conditions that distort their perception of reality. This highlights the importance of understanding the motivations behind seemingly irrational actions.

Research in clinical psychology indicates that individuals experiencing delusions may not have insight into their condition, which complicates interventions.

The OP added an edit saying:

His family believes it's okay to have several partners and be responsible for children even if they are from an affair. However, then I "overreacted" and called it cheating, so he had to stay with her to support the child.It's the same as what he pulled in court when we were getting divorced alongside his "I still love her and should have communicated better" lies. So the court wouldn't grant a divorce as they believe he is trying to save the marriage and I'm being unreasonable.

And the comments from other Redditors roll in...

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OP's manager informed her that her ex was in the building

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This Redditor hopes the OP gets the divorce soon

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Then the office storming happens, and suddenly the ex isn’t just making claims, he’s dragging the whole affair into the workplace.

When individuals engage in delusional thinking, it can create significant distress and chaos within families. A study published in the Journal of Abnormal Psychology shows that family members often feel caught in a web of confusion and frustration, especially when the delusional beliefs lead to conflict.

That financial pressure and blame game feels like the siblings’ hidden debt situation, where refusing an equal split sparked a full-on family war.

This had better be a joke

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How did the whole thing even make sense to him?

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It is the consequences of his own actions

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Right after, OP gets the update that her ex was in the building, and the situation turns from courtroom drama into something her coworkers can literally see.

Reality testing is a crucial therapeutic technique used to help individuals with delusional beliefs gain insight into their thoughts and behaviors. This technique involves gently challenging the individual's beliefs through supportive dialogue and encouraging self-reflection. This can help individuals gradually recognize discrepancies between their beliefs and external realities, fostering healthier coping mechanisms.

Involving family members in these discussions can also provide support and understanding.

This Redditor would buy the receptionist some flowers

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This Redditor hopes the coming year is more peaceful for the OP

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They didn't care about certain things

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By the time he gets fired and his family starts calling OP the unreasonable one, the “child support” demand looks less like responsibility and more like revenge with paperwork.

For families dealing with a loved one exhibiting delusional behavior, seeking professional help is essential. Engaging a therapist who specializes in family dynamics can provide tools for managing stress and facilitating healthy communication.

The OP also added a second edit later on

Reddit/throwawayworkcheat65 "I'm just saving for a good lawyer to finally get it done and over with as I no longer have the patience to deal with his lies, and it's too tiring for me to prove them to the judge," the OP says.

Many Redditors hoped the OP would get the divorce soon enough, as they couldn't believe that someone could be that delusional. The OP was declared not the AH, and that's a wrap!

Support systems play a vital role in helping families navigate the complexities of delusional behavior.

The bizarre incident involving a man storming his ex-wife's office to demand child support for a child born to his mistress underscores the complexities of emotional and psychological turmoil that often accompany high-stakes divorces. Rather than addressing the fallout of their separation with maturity, this individual’s actions reflect a profound disconnect from reality, which can be a common thread in high-net-worth divorces where emotions run high and financial stakes are at their peak.

This situation illustrates the importance of emotional intelligence and healthy communication in navigating post-divorce relationships. Families impacted by such delusions can benefit from fostering an environment where open dialogue is encouraged, as well as seeking professional support to help them cope with the psychological challenges that arise. The consequences of neglecting these aspects can result not just in personal strife, but also in professional repercussions, as seen in the aftermath of this man’s misguided confrontation.

He wanted child support money, but he ended up burning the one job that could have paid for any of it.

For another explosive family mess, read about the AITA fight over a prenup that blew up trust, money, and the future.