This Engaged Couple Is Butting Heads About The Bride's Unusual Family "Tradition" Between The Groom And His Soon-To-Be MIL
The globe is replete with truly odd wedding rituals, from plate-smashing to post-wedding toilet prohibitions or sobbing brides.
Some family traditions are sweet, some are strange, and some leave everyone wondering how they ever became normal. This story falls squarely into the last category, because one engaged couple is now arguing over a ritual that makes the groom deeply uncomfortable. What sounds like a simple disagreement quickly turns into a bigger fight about boundaries, pressure, and what counts as a tradition in the first place.
Now the groom is left questioning whether he is overreacting, and the wedding plans are suddenly a lot messier than expected.
The groom who was being forced into following a weird family tradition with which he was really uncomfortable.
throwratonypanHe even feels that he might be TA for refusing to follow this sinister-sounding family tradition.
throwratonypanFor some reason, this just feels like a trick by the bride to get her mother a fancy dinner and new clothes.
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We all are having a hard time believing that somewhere someone is actually following this ridiculous tradition.
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The bride seems to be really into making her future husband sleep with her mother; this is so twisted.
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Sleeping with the bride's mother is a way to kick off the wedding? The groom should kick her out of his life.
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What... The bride would not be upset if her to-be husband slept with her mother, and she insisted that the duo should actually get a hotel for a night.
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A fun tradition? It may sound fun to the bride and her family, but not to the rest of the world. It seems utterly disgusting!
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Also, this sounds like the dinner tradition clash when OP had to decide about her brother’s new girlfriend.
At least the mother-in-law was a little bit nice about this whole situation; it feels like she was also being forced into doing it.
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The mother-in-law seems like a nice person who is willing to go against the family tradition just to make the groom comfortable.
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No, dude, you are so not TA for refusing to cross the boundaries of your comfort and sleep with your mother-in-law.
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And what if the son-in-law doesn't agree and wishes to follow the family tradition and forces her to sleep with him? Hope she understands what the groom went through.
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Anyone and everyone would be upset with their partner for even suggesting that.
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Sometimes people con others into doing things and make them believe it's a family tradition or ritual. Do your research, lad.
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Right, this concept only creates the possibility of sleeping with their daughter's potential husband.
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As simple as that: if you are not comfortable doing something, that's the end of it!
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The whole situation sounds scandalous to me, but the MIL being supportive gives a ray of hope to the groom.
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Exactly; only if the bride had to sleep with the groom's father would the bride's family have turned the house upside down.
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If he really wishes to keep the tradition going, then take the mother out to dinner, buy her nightwear, and drop her home.
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Now that is a great trick to follow the tradition while maintaining your comfort level and privacy. A win-win situation.
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Exactly; no tradition should hinder the comfort level of the people.
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This family tradition seems obscure and indecent, and the bride from this generation should not give in to such traditions. She should have understood that the groom was uncomfortable and should not have forced him.
Share this with all your friends and family and tell them to be careful of such weird things people make us do in the name of tradition.
Wait, it gets worse at weddings too, like this secret spaghetti sauce recipe fight.
