Woman Snaps At Boyfriend Who Accuses Her Of Gifting Him A Women's Hoodie When In Truth, It's Gender-Neutral

The hoodie's zipper was just on the wrong side.

A hoodie turned into a full-blown argument when a boyfriend decided the zipper on his gift meant something bigger than it did.

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In this story, a woman buys her boyfriend a hoodie he likes, but after his dad points out that the zipper is on the “wrong” side, the gift suddenly becomes a question of gender and masculinity. What started as a simple present turns awkward fast, especially once the boyfriend takes his father’s comment seriously.

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Reddit had plenty to say about that logic, and the reactions were not kind.

The hoodie was the woman's present to her boyfriend.

The hoodie was the woman's present to her boyfriend.Reddit
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He loved his gift but found something odd about the zipper.

He loved his gift but found something odd about the zipper.Reddit
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Things started going south after the remark by the guy's dad.

Things started going south after the remark by the guy's dad.Reddit

The couple argues.

The couple argues.Reddit

Is she the a**hole?

Is she the a**hole?Reddit

It's the dad who started it all.

It's the dad who started it all.Reddit

The button rule doesn't apply to zippers.

The button rule doesn't apply to zippers.Reddit

Even GQ says that zippered jackets have zippers on either side, regardless of whether they're for men or women.

Even GQ says that zippered jackets have zippers on either side, regardless of whether they're for men or women.Reddit

People aren't going to approach him and say that the zipper is wrong.

People aren't going to approach him and say that the zipper is wrong.Reddit

That’s when the zipper debate got a lot bigger than the hoodie itself.

Toxic misogyny at play

Toxic misogyny at playReddit

The brand of masculinity is "fragile."

The brand of masculinity is "fragile."Reddit

Also, if you’re drawing hard lines with your boyfriend, see the AITA where a woman refused to let her boyfriend’s aggressive dog move in.

The hoodie doesn't even look like women's wear.

The hoodie doesn't even look like women's wear.Reddit

It's really the dad's fault that the boyfriend acted this way.

It's really the dad's fault that the boyfriend acted this way.Reddit

Some people don't even notice the difference.

Some people don't even notice the difference.Reddit

The dad is applying the button rule to zippers.

The dad is applying the button rule to zippers.

The pocket argument

The pocket argumentReddit

How to use the pocket argument

How to use the pocket argumentReddit

The zipper rule confuses other Redditors too.

The zipper rule confuses other Redditors too.Reddit

What women's clothes would do to a man

What women's clothes would do to a manReddit

There isn't a booby space in the first place.

There isn't a booby space in the first place.Reddit

The guy's masculinity is being threatened by a zipper.

The guy's masculinity is being threatened by a zipper.Reddit

A zipper does not determine one's manliness.

A zipper does not determine one's manliness.Reddit

His reaction is so not 2021.

His reaction is so not 2021.Reddit

Others are criticizing the boyfriend's immaturity.

Others are criticizing the boyfriend's immaturity.Reddit

The best revenge for the boyfriend's irrationality.

The best revenge for the boyfriend's irrationality.Reddit

The original poster loved the suggestion.

The original poster loved the suggestion.Reddit

It's not about the hoodie.

It's not about the hoodie.Reddit

It's pointless to convince the guy.

It's pointless to convince the guy.Reddit

The bottom line is simple, the boyfriend let one zipper turn into a test of masculinity.

While it's true that the dad started it all, the boyfriend ultimately decided that the zipper on the wrong side of the hoodie would determine the level of his masculinity. It seems like he's not confident about who he is if he's being affected by a zipper.

After your boyfriend’s dad comments, this AITA about a roommate’s boyfriend overstaying may hit too close.

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