Husband Totally Perplexed That His Wife Is Upset He Upgraded Only His Flight Ticket To A Business Class For A 12-Hour Flight

His wife became upset after he upgraded just his flight ticket to a business one on their vacation, leaving her in economy for 12 hours alone.

Being in a marriage is a matter of community. You choose your life partner to be your everyday companion in the usual daily little things, as those make your life meaningful.

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You want to do everything together, like shopping, going to the grocery store, or taking a trip or vacation. However, it seems that women tend to feel the significance of those little things more than men.

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For women, being in a marriage means being in everything together. But men, oh, most of them just don't understand the importance of those daily nuances.

Recently, a Reddit user asked the community if he was wrong for not understanding these little daily matters. Here is his story.

He and his wife were supposed to go on vacation, so they booked tickets. While booking, the husband had the option to upgrade his seat using miles to a business class, but his wife's seat remained in economy.

He seized the opportunity because it was just a 12-hour flight, and he thought he was doing nothing wrong. It seemed meaningless to him; he didn't assume that his wife could be hurt by the choice he made.

However, his wife wanted them to sit next to each other on their trip, and you can imagine how she felt when she learned they wouldn't be sitting together. She was sad and thought he had chosen business class over her.

This misunderstanding didn't end here, but the husband genuinely tried to make things right and apologize to his wife properly. See their whole story below.

Husband has upgraded his flight ticket to business class and left his wife sitting separately from him in the economy.

Husband has upgraded his flight ticket to business class and left his wife sitting separately from him in the economy.Unsplash (not the actual photo)
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The husband's question.

The husband's question.djuejejnu
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He didn't think it was a huge deal.

He didn't think it was a huge deal.djuejejnu

But the wife thought it was very rude.

But the wife thought it was very rude.djuejejnu

His wife wanted him to change his seat back to economy class.

His wife wanted him to change his seat back to economy class.djuejejnu

But he didn't want to miss the opportunity to travel in business class.

But he didn't want to miss the opportunity to travel in business class.djuejejnu

Here is how the business class looks:

Here is how the business class looks:Wikimedia/ANA Business Class – THE Room

To him, it was a meaningless little thing.

To him, it was a meaningless little thing.djuejejnu

But he still asked for some advice.

But he still asked for some advice.djuejejnu

In the end, he realized it was important for his wife to sit next to him.

In the end, he realized it was important for his wife to sit next to him.djuejejnu

His response to a question he was asked, and below are comments from Reddit users.

His response to a question he was asked, and below are comments from Reddit users.djuejejnu

She has the right to be upset.

She has the right to be upset.Reddit

The OP should learn more about the essence of being married.

The OP should learn more about the essence of being married.Reddit

It wasn't acceptable at all.

It wasn't acceptable at all.Reddit

Both seats should be upgraded.

Both seats should be upgraded.Reddit

Well, if she cares, he should too.

Well, if she cares, he should too.Reddit

He should work on his behavior and commitment.

He should work on his behavior and commitment.Reddit

Possibly.

Possibly.Reddit

Something like that.

Something like that.Reddit

Their vacation started badly.

Their vacation started badly.Reddit

It's a good point.

It's a good point.Reddit

She just wanted their seats to be next to each other.

She just wanted their seats to be next to each other.Reddit

It really was selfish.

It really was selfish.Reddit

According to Reddit users, the husband's behavior was rude and selfish, so his wife has every right to be upset. Even though the OP wasn't sure why it was important for his wife to sit together during the flight, he did upgrade her ticket.

Hopefully, he will understand one day what true commitment is. Until then, he is at least a good listener and is able to accept good advice.

What do you think of this situation? Feel free to share your thoughts with us.

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