Struggling with a Vegan Christmas: AITA for Skipping Family Dinner?

In a world where family traditions often shape our holiday experiences, one Reddit user is grappling with a significant shift in their Christmas plans. The original poster (OP), a 28-year-old woman, finds herself caught between her love for her family and her attachment to the traditional meat-centric meals that have defined her festive celebrations.

Recently, her family has decided to adopt a vegan lifestyle, prompting them to plan a completely plant-based Christmas dinner this year. While OP respects their choice, she feels a deep sense of disappointment at the thought of a holiday without the familiar flavors of roasted meats and savory dishes.

As the OP navigates her feelings, she raises the question: Is she in the wrong for wanting to skip the vegan dinner? This dilemma resonates with many as it touches on the broader themes of tradition, family unity, and personal preferences.

In the comments, fellow Redditors offer a mix of perspectives, with some encouraging her to embrace the change and others sympathizing with her attachment to the past. This thread invites a discussion on the complexities surrounding holiday meals and the importance of balancing personal comfort with familial support.

How do we honor our traditions while also being open to new experiences? Join the conversation and share your thoughts on this heartfelt holiday conundrum.

Original Post

So I'm (28F) and my family has recently decided to go vegan for health and environmental reasons. For background, I come from a meat-loving family where holiday dinners always featured a big roast or turkey.

However, this year, my parents announced that they want to have a completely vegan Christmas dinner. While I respect their choice, I personally struggle with the idea of having a meat-free holiday meal.

I've always associated special occasions with traditional dishes that include meat. When my parents told me about the plan, I expressed my concerns about not feeling satisfied with a vegan dinner.

They insisted that I should be open-minded and respect their decision. The thought of a vegan Christmas just doesn't sit right with me.

I know it's important to support my family, but the idea of not having the usual holiday food feels disappointing to me. So, AITA for not wanting to attend my family's vegan Christmas dinner?

I honestly don't know if I'm wrong here or if it's okay to skip this one.

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