Things People Do That We Silently Judge Them For

Judging people is something we all do on a regular basis. We're continuously evaluating and interpreting the world around us, whether we're conscious of it or not.

In our minds, we're making comments on people and situations, examining how the world aligns with our idealized vision of things, and chastising anyone who does something wrong!

Humans have a tendency to judge others, both consciously and unconsciously, and there are a variety of reasons for this. As children, we are frequently reminded not to judge others, and stories are shared about how criticizing people might cause us to miss opportunities to discover what is actually going on behind our perceptions.

We sometimes evaluate others to feel superior to ourselves, pointing out flaws in others and feeling better about ourselves as a result. We use it to figure out where we belong, recognizing who we want to be, what we want to achieve, and who we don't want to be.

Sometimes, it's a reaction to our own weaknesses, and we blame others for what we don't like or don't see in ourselves. Other times, it's to fit into a larger group of people who judge something or someone, and we conform and act in accordance with their judgment.

The ones making an effort, regardless of the outcome, are truly hardworking people.

I immediately judge you if you make fun of someone who's trying. I saw someone mock an overweight classmate despite the fact that he was dieting, running, and exercising. He's putting in effort, and you have no right to belittle him.

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People should at least care about how others are affected.

People who have no awareness of their surroundings when they're out in public.

It doesn't cost anything to wait your turn in a queue, hold a door open for someone, turn on your indicators 10 seconds earlier than you just did, or not block the entire pavement because you want to hold hands with your husband or wife.

It's so selfish. It drives me mad just thinking about it.

Thank you for the gold, kind stranger.

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Please change this 'someone is paid to clean up after me' attitude.

Littering. It hurts to watch; I don't understand how people can litter.

Edit: Hey Cloin

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If they know they can't feed the kids, then why have them?

Having a ton of kids while being poor.

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It's so wrong to discriminate against someone based on their appearance.

Racism. In any form.

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Half-knowledge is dangerous, and people who do this should be embarrassed.

When they have no knowledge of the topic but still argue with someone who actually has the knowledge. I mean, seriously, if you don't know what you're talking about, then just be quiet.

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Keep your conversations to yourself, man.

People who talk really loudly on the phone in quiet public places.

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God blessed you with eyes; make use of them.

People walking toward you who don't put in equal effort to avoid a collision. I'll move a bit, but you should do the same. Do you expect me to walk around you?

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Especially those who believe their child can never do anything wrong.

Parents of unruly children.

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There are indicators in vehicles for a reason: to avoid accidents.

Not using a turn signal when driving. It's not that hard, and it's pretty arrogant not to use one.

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Right, clean the toilet after using it so the next person doesn't feel gross.

I can't stand people who urinate on the toilet seat and don't clean it.

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Like in a movie theater, clubs, and pubs. Let your child grow a bit before taking them along.

People who bring children to situations that are not appropriate for them.

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Take your time, but do it right.

Parking.

If you can't get within the lines the first time, it's okay to adjust.

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The kid must be screaming only because it needs something—maybe food, water, or attention.

Not paying attention to your screaming child. Like, not even trying.

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If you don't want to learn, it's okay! But DO NOT stop others.

I judge people who shut down those asking questions and trying to learn more.

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Everyone is independent and capable of making their own decisions.

There's nothing I dislike more than when a husband feels he has to act as his wife's authority while others are around. I hate gender roles in relationships.

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Such people should be thrown out of the theater.

People who have their phones out in a movie theater. We all paid the same price. I don't care if you don't want to get your money's worth; I do. I am going to yell at you, and if you don't stop, I'll throw popcorn at you until you do.

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Keep your political rants to yourself.

Constantly posting condescending political rants on Facebook.

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That reflects on someone's moral and ethical values.

Anyone who adopts a "whatever" attitude toward being late. I freak out when I'm late for something, and it absolutely blows my mind when people just don't care.

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These kinds of people are the ones who spoil society; even when a person wants to grow in life, these individuals pull them back. Be aware of such unbothered and negative people because they will ruin themselves and take you along.

Share this story with everyone and encourage them to be more responsible and live their lives with good moral and ethical values.