Women Talk About Things You Would Get Away With If You Were A Guy

Some stories make it painfully obvious how differently men and women are treated, and this Reddit thread is one of them. Women were asked to share the things they think they could get away with if they were guys, and the answers quickly turned into a long list of double standards.

The posts and screenshots below show everything from everyday annoyances to the kind of unfair treatment that gets under your skin. Some are funny in a bitter way, some are frustrating, and some are hard to read without thinking about how often these moments get brushed off.

By the end, the pattern is hard to miss, and that is exactly what makes the thread hit so hard.

Women expressed their views about the things that the guys don't get singled out for

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It's not a compulsion and it never was

It's about preference

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It seems like even the questions and suggestions have a masculine weight to them

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The discussion around the things women could get away with if they were men says a lot about societal expectations and gender norms.

The experiences women share here make the double standards pretty hard to ignore.

That frustration shows up fast in the comments and screenshots below.

It is a man's world, after all

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Even the blind can see the irony here

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Statutory warning: Women know what they are talking about

Don't take any chances

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Additionally, the psychological implications of these double standards can lead to internalized gender biases.

Recognizing these societal pressures is crucial for empowering women to challenge stereotypes and advocate for equality.

Societal expectations can significantly shape individual experiences, especially for women.

This can lead to a sense of disconnection and frustration when their experiences are not validated.

They're a human being, not a baby-making machine

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If you are nice, they are nice

As simple as that

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Their school of thought belongs to ancient times

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To address the disparities in gender expectations, it’s essential to engage in open discussions about societal norms.

Community support plays a critical role in empowering individuals to challenge societal norms.

By creating spaces for dialogue, communities can facilitate understanding and support among members.

It nowhere indicates a lack of commitment

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It's normal human emotions and not being "dramatic"

Weird, right?

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It's not their responsibility!

They seem to be friends in vain

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Moreover, promoting gender equality in various spheres of life can help dismantle harmful stereotypes.

Creating spaces for dialogue and education on gender issues can enable individuals to challenge biases and advocate for fairness.

This is similar to the AITAH fight where you refused Sarah’s sneaky unequal dinner tab proposal.

To promote empowerment among women, communities should consider organizing workshops or support groups that focus on shared experiences and dialogue.

Creating a supportive environment where women feel valued and heard can lead to greater empowerment and resilience.

Tbh, girls can pull off a better RBF than guys

Maybe they are jealous of that

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Some guys have fragile egos; they can't stand the thought of some girl beating them

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Hypocrisy at its best

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Education is a powerful tool for challenging and reshaping gender norms.

Programs that encourage discussions about gender roles can empower individuals to redefine societal expectations.

It's either genetics or efforts; nothing personal, dude

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The problem lies in the fundamentals here

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The expectation is unfair in itself

sillysandhouse have been through some unwanted busy days; press F

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Advocacy groups can play a pivotal role in driving educational initiatives that address gender norms.

Engaging communities in discussions about gender equality can help challenge stereotypes and empower individuals to advocate for change.

Mostly because they know about the intentions behind those compliments

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It's like taking away the basic right to live

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Opinions are opinions, bruh

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Ultimately, recognizing the unique challenges faced by women in society is crucial for fostering inclusivity and empowerment.

Encouraging dialogue and education around these issues is essential for fostering a more equitable society.

Don't know who wrote the rules

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Everyone is entitled to have their own opinions

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A whole other meaning to the term "existential crisis"

This one hit harder than it should

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The fundamental problem is that we, as a society, fail even to acknowledge these unhealthy disparities.

It's time to ask ourselves what we can do. Share this post and remind people to treat the women in their lives better because they deserve the world.

The thread makes its point without needing much help.

The women in this Reddit post made the double standards impossible to ignore.

That is what makes the whole thing stick with you.

Ever argued over a dinner tab after one person ordered extravagantly, like in this WIBTA? post about splitting a dinner bill unequally?