Silent Treatment Takes Over As Man Refuses To Pay His GF Back After Winning The Lottery

Yes, you read that right. Winning the lottery is one thing and paying your debts is another but what happens when the person you're owing is your partner?

Meet u/ThrowRAguilty, the original poster of the story you're about to read. OP has a girlfriend who saw that he was struggling with his bills and offered to pay a $3,000 personal loan.

She then told the OP that he can pay her back in his own time. The OP found that this wasn’t the best idea for him as he feels more pressured to pay her.

Before, the OP used to pay the bank $250 a month but now, he paysheis girlfriend $400 a month. For the OP, the main issue is that his girlfriend wouldn't let him purchase stuffs he likes without reminding him that he owes her.

The OP also stated that she pays for food and drives her everywhere but he has never asked for anything from her because he knows she would bring up the money he owed her. OP won $1,500 on the lottery and offered to pay her a little amount.

His reason is that he wants to put most of it in his emergency fund but his girlfriend wasn't having anything. The full story lies below and you can check it all out as you scroll down.

The OP writes...

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The OP agreed he would pay her in his own time

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If something ever happened to the OP, his GF would never help him because she’s greedy with her money

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Let's head into the comments section and find out what other Redditors have to say about the story

She loaned the OP the money at a no interest rate?

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Some key points need to be mentioned

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"I want to pay it back in my own time"

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The OP's taking advantage of his GF's generosity

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The OP replied to the above comment saying...

We agreed I was going to pay in my own terms. I pay her more than what I used to pay the bank each month.I’m not joking, she is always arguing with me about money. She never wants to spend her own money, it always has to be out of my pocket. Yes, she paid my loan, but that doesn’t mean that she pays for everything. I still spend a lot on top of my debt. At the end of the day, groceries, fuel and meals are still on me. I get out of work to drive her everywhere since she doesn’t have her license.Also, I disagree with you. You always have to have an emergency fund. You never know what happens.

And the comments continues...

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The OP dives more into the loan

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This doesn't sound like a relationship

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The OP has learned an important lesson here

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An emergency fund, which usually covers three to six months' worth of living expenses, is a vital financial safety net that may be used to pay for unforeseen expenses like medical bills, auto repairs, or job loss without the need for debt. It offers comfort, keeps long-term investments from being depleted, and guarantees financial stability in the event of unanticipated catastrophes.

But is this emergency fund worth the OP's relationship? Well, Redditors have declared the OP not the AH and you too can drop your own verdict in the comment section below.