Man Calls Out His Family For Always Lying And Putting His Pregnant Wife At Risk

“Dear lord, please heal the sick kiddos and make them feel better…”

Preventing sickness requires a combination of good hygiene practices, a healthy lifestyle, and awareness of potential risks. Frequent handwashing with soap and water is crucial, especially during cold and flu season.

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Avoiding close contact with people who are sick can also help reduce the risk of transmission. A healthy diet rich in fruits, vegetables, and whole grains can help boost the immune system, making it easier to fight off infections.

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Staying hydrated by drinking plenty of water is also essential. Getting enough sleep and managing stress can also contribute to overall health and well-being.

By taking these steps, individuals can significantly reduce their risk of getting sick and protect their health, especially during critical periods like pregnancy.

OP and his wife are eagerly awaiting the arrival of their first baby, but a looming concern threatens to disrupt their joy. With his wife 30 days away from giving birth, OP's family gatherings have become a source of stress rather than celebration.

OP's sister and her family are often plagued by illnesses, and despite repeated requests to stay away when sick, they seem to find ways to expose OP's pregnant wife. Pregnant women are advised to take extra precautions to minimize their risk of illness.

OP was only being careful but the latest incident at an early Christmas gathering with extended family has left him and his wife feeling frustrated and betrayed. Keep scrolling to read the full story below.

The OP kicks off his story...

The OP kicks off his story...Reddit
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“Dear lord, please heal the sick kiddos and make them feel better…”

“Dear lord, please heal the sick kiddos and make them feel better…”Reddit
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If they stop telling them things they need to know, they will start putting up boundaries

If they stop telling them things they need to know, they will start putting up boundariesReddit

OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the AH:

I want to be judged for confronting my family about this issue of potentially getting my wife and baby sick. I need to know if I’m the AH by making this a big deal.

As usual, the comments rolled in and below are a bunch of the topmost ones

As usual, the comments rolled in and below are a bunch of the topmost onesReddit

The OP keeps meeting up with them despite knowing they're inconsiderate

The OP keeps meeting up with them despite knowing they're inconsiderateReddit

They lied and they are the AHs

They lied and they are the AHsReddit

There's a chance they aren't always sick

There's a chance they aren't always sickReddit

Somewhere in the comments, the OP had this to add...

We did not ask if they were sick, however I also see that as irrelevant, since we have already said we don’t want to be around them when they are sick.It’s like asking someone “hey you have gas in your car right?” every time you go to drive their car. At some point, it just gets ridiculous. I shouldn’t have to ask, you should just tell me you don’t have gas.

And the comments continues...

And the comments continues...Reddit

The OP has a boundary about the sick kids

The OP has a boundary about the sick kidsReddit

The relatives are careless and selfish

The relatives are careless and selfishReddit

This Redditor Shares a similar experience that happened to them

This Redditor Shares a similar experience that happened to themReddit

OP's frustration and concern for his pregnant wife's health are understandable, given the circumstances. The family's lack of consideration and dishonesty have put them in a difficult situation.

OP's decision to have a heart-to-heart conversation is a step in the right direction. By setting clear limits, OP hopes to protect his wife and unborn baby from future exposure to illnesses.

It's essential for OP's family to understand the importance of prioritizing his wife's health during this critical period.

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