20 People Respond To Someone Who Asked Men What Their Fellow Men Should Stop Doing Immediately
Some guys can be aggressive jerks, and that’s not okay.
Some internet debates age badly, and the whole "alpha male" thing is one of them. The idea that men should act tough, loud, or careless to prove something has worn thin, especially when basic respect is what people notice first.
That is the backdrop for this Reddit thread, where someone asked men what their fellow men should stop doing immediately. The replies came fast, and they covered everything from creepy behavior to bad hygiene, emotional immaturity, and the kind of posturing that makes everyone else roll their eyes.
The answers are blunt, funny, and a little too relatable. Here is what people said men need to quit doing right now.
Exactly. The place, after you leave, stinks like a pack of raccoons farted.
u/lifesabystanderYeah, you should check out some underwear hanging out to dry. Cheetah marks all over.
u/lifesabystanderExactly. Respect everyone's boundaries.
u/lifesabystanderTrue man.
u/lifesabystanderWho doesn't? Ew.
u/lifesabystanderNope, it'll only leave you more bitter and resentful.
u/lifesabystanderYeah, this happens more often than you'd think.
u/lifesabystanderDon't be creepy. Period.
u/lifesabystanderThis also echoes a brother fighting to take the family dog after moving out.
This is intense, but true.
u/lifesabystanderYep, facts.
u/lifesabystanderYou're human, not AI. You can cry, and it won't make you less of a man.
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Only a gamer can long-distance pee. But seriously, don't.
u/lifesabystander
ROFL.
u/lifesabystander
Ew.
u/lifesabystander
To man up doesn't mean to not feel fear or sadness.
u/lifesabystander
Just don't. No one likes seeing other people's junk.
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That'd be really cool, honestly.
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Yeah, 100% they're so annoying.
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Now that's an alpha move.
u/lifesabystander
ROFL.
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So, do you see what other men want their fellow men to stop doing immediately? Those were just 20 of over 5,100 comments, so you can rest assured there are a lot of things men need to stop doing.
To summarize, an alpha male isn't one who acts carelessly because he thinks it's cool, but one who's careful, considerate, and responsible. It'll only be a matter of time before you repel people because you think you're too cool for everyone, you know?
Let's just step back and analyze this whole 'manhood' situation because 5,000 people can't be wrong! You're great the way you are, but what makes you a great person is when others think that too.
On to the next!
Wild family fallout, like when a brother damaged the home and begged to move back in.