40 Moments That Prove "Nice Guys" Aren't Actually Nice At All
Oops, the true colors have shown! But if you ask enough women, they'll let you know those true colors always emerge when these "nice guys" don't immediately get their way.
If there's one thing that women should know in the dating scene, it's that self-proclaimed "nice" guys are probably not nice at all. There are actually two kinds of "nice guys" here: those who are genuinely nice, kind, and decent human beings, and those who insist they are nice and attribute that to their personalities, but in reality, they are actually douchebags who always seem to play the victim card whenever things don't go their way.
If you're a woman, you have probably encountered a guy saying or even just implying that "nice guys never win" either in person or online, trying to win you over with pity. However, they are unaware that they just appear pathetic and spineless when they do this. No offense to the actual nice guys, but the former type seems to be rampant in our society nowadays.
Most of them tend to turn off this kind of personality in real life and spend most of their time wallowing in the mud of being a "nice guy" online. They feel safe and hidden behind screens, and they feel unthreatened to play this card because they won't have to deal with in-person confrontations when they do it online instead.
They like to pursue women on different social media platforms, but we all know that most women today are not ones to back down whenever a man they aren't even close with starts acting up. Pseudo-nice guys are the ones with egos that easily get hurt when a woman puts them in their place.
There's even a place on Reddit for them called r/NiceGuys, where people come together to collect photos of so-called "nice guys" to raise awareness should anyone come across them in the vast world of the Internet. Take a look at some of the best posts in this subreddit below!
1. Actually, yes, with an attitude like that, you aren't worthy of a simple hello
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4. What's not clicking, Tony?
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5. When they are always getting friend-zoned and still think the problem is women
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6. No thanks, guacamole all the way
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7. Justice has been served
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8. Nice to know he has had character development
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9. Insult turned into a compliment
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10. Moby, the creepy old man who was probably just being "nice"
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11. The sheer audacity
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12. Guys kept ignoring context clues and played the victim
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13. How self-aware are you? Hopefully not the same as this guy.
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14. Let there be nice guys
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15. Messy dating moments
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16. "I (19F) broke up with my boyfriend (25M) of 2 months only to find out he was a 'nice guy.'"
Dodged a bullet right there!
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17. The Social Network keeping it real
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18. Actually...
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19. What a satirical take
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20. Being whiny is not "nice"
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21. Not all men
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22. Ask first
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23. They have an addiction to anger
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24. "Alpha" vs. Beta
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25. Did he honestly think this was going to work?
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26. Twisting things around
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27. Really?
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28. When they can't seem to comprehend that the world does not revolve around them
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29. It's the misogyny reeking
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30. "A Facebook friend had her boyfriend pass away recently, and she shared this experience from a 'nice guy'"
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31. "Here’s a fun guy who also texted my boyfriend about the matter (4). I made this account just to post this."
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32. Still playing the "nice guy" card
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33. They always do it...
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34. "This ‘nice guy’ claimed he'd never PMed a girl this way before and that he meant no offense, but his attitude changed dramatically after I forwarded a screenshot to his wife..."
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35. What do they owe you exactly?
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36. That quick mood shift rivals every woman's mood swings when they are on their period
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37. Still waiting for an apology
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38. They are getting creative with their ways
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39. "An old platonic friend randomly sent me a video of his ding-a-ling because he was trying to be nice... I think?"
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40. A "nice" stalker
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Some of these may or may not have triggered your fight or flight response, but either way, there's a common denominator with all these self-proclaimed nice guys: they are a bunch of douchebags. If you're a guy reading this, hopefully, you aren't one of them (or if you think you are, there's still room for character development).
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