Woman Asks How Others Deal With "Not Being Pretty" And A Former Marine Responds In The Most Beautiful Way

Women often feel pressured to strive for the airbrushed features of the models they see on TV, leading them to assume that those are the types of women all men seek in a partner.

Beauty standards can be brutal, especially when they convince people that only one kind of face or body is worth loving. That pressure can make even confident people question how they look, and it can hit hardest when someone is already feeling low.

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That is exactly what happened when one woman posted in AskWomen about not feeling pretty. What she got back was not the usual empty reassurance, but a response from a former Marine who spoke from his own experience with body image and attraction.

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His reply struck a nerve for a reason, and the comments that followed made it even clearer why so many people connected with it.

Here's the original post.

Here's the original post.Reddit
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And here is the brilliant reply she received from an insightful former Marine.

And here is the brilliant reply she received from an insightful former Marine.
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The post hit a nerve right away.

Former Marine’s thoughtful reply screenshot, explaining love and attraction feelings

The man explained exactly how it feels for a man when he falls in love.

The man explained exactly how it feels for a man when he falls in love. Close-up of written post text, describing what a man thinks when attracted

He describes what goes through a man's mind when he realizes he's attracted to a woman.

He describes what goes through a man's mind when he realizes he's attracted to a woman. Social media comment reaction, “Awwww,” responding to the Marine’s message

This is similar to the AITA case where one partner wanted the other to skip a work event.

Awwww.

Inspirational quote text about seeing a loved woman as perfect, shared online Heartwarming comment reaction, “Awwww,” praising the former Marine’s words

The man explained that to the man who loves a woman, she is perfect.

The man explained that to the man who loves a woman, she is perfect. Elderly couple imagery, husband gazing lovingly at his wife as example

He says we only need to observe an elderly couple and the way the husband looks at his wife.

He says we only need to observe an elderly couple and the way the husband looks at his wife.

The man's words were both simple and beautiful.

The man's words were both simple and beautiful.Reddit

Here's how other men reacted to the former Marine's response.

Here's how other men reacted to the former Marine's response.Reddit

People in the comments were clearly feeling it too.

Group of men’s reactions collage, comments praising the Marine’s responseReddit Additional comment thread showing supportive reactions to the Marine’s replyReddit Scrolling comments and likes, men expressing agreement about love and beautyReddit Social media post reactions, men discussing attraction and loving someone beyond appearanceReddit Comment section highlights, emotional responses to the former Marine’s romantic adviceReddit

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