73 Rooms That Had Their Owners Asking the Internet for Design Help

It started like most of these design disasters do, with someone posting a room photo and hoping the internet would be kind. Spoiler: the comments did not come with “nice vibes only.” They came with measurements, layout suggestions, and wildly specific “move this” energy.

In one thread, AdDirect634 looked at an awkward under-stair landing and basically said, “Put a small cot there,” then joked that the orphaned nephew should live under it, because eventually a large disheveled man will burst in and change everything. In another, Herredness16 zeroed in on the carpet and the window situation, calling out how the blinds do not work with the room and suggesting the rug choice that “works with everything” except the curtains and shades. And then Historical_Reward621 went full interior director mode, telling someone to pull the round table into the center, reposition the sofa for cozy viewing, and hang that mirror at eye level.

Here’s the part that makes it messy, the owners want design help, but the internet is also trying to write a whole plot.

How To Use Area Under Stair Landing

AdDirect634: I’d recommend a small cot, and your orphaned nephew live under there. He’s a little odd, but one day a large disheveled man is going to burst through the door and take him to a boarding schoolInfamous_Meal_1327

Is The Carpet Right For This Room? Or Should I Choose Another One?

Herredness16: As much as I like ur blinds they r not working with ur room. Can u use them elsewhere? The rug I like works with everything in your room except your curtains and shades.

Dunderberget

Style And Financially Challenged

Historical_Reward621: The round table should be pulled out in the center and used as your coffee table. Adding a little color with some toss pillows, and a throw. Mix it up, maybe a nice print.

An accent chair down the road to tilt towards the TV and next to the couch. Some textural like rattan or rope with wood, swivel, or faux leather if scale is correct.

Floor lamp on one side of sofa, table lamp for end table. Then curate art and things you love to hang on the walls.

Pull the sofa off the wall a bit, maybe even put a skinny console table behind it. It will be more cozy plus add another area to sit a drink or display a nice photo or something

Lastly, that mirror is too small and hung too high. Watch that going forward. Hang at eye level barring a gallery wall or arrangement.

MozzarellaMuenster

Why Online Design Help Matters

In a world where personal expression is often filtered through social media, the act of sharing one’s home can feel both brave and vulnerable. The article highlights how so many homeowners turn to online communities for help, revealing a deep desire for validation and guidance. The fact that these people are willing to expose their living spaces to the judgment of strangers shows just how meaningful home design is to our sense of identity.

Moreover, it underscores the growing trend of digital collaboration where people are not just consumers but active participants in shaping their surroundings. This participatory culture reflects a shift in how we view personal space, making it more communal and less solitary.

Ideas To Make Wall Less Boring

Ignore all the clutter from my baby and dog I have been wanting to put something on the wall for years but have been too indecisive to ever do it.

My main ideas are:

One long floating shelf above the tv in a similar color wood to the tv console.

Or 2 floating shelves on the wall to one side of the tv and a large framed print on one side.

seabreezeallday: I say let it be boring!

sklatnameht: OP, how do you manage having plants and a baby on the same floor space????? And the dog looks like he is judging me for asking this question!

Remalin

Ideas?

I bought a 1944 home and the layout is very strange in the living room. I have bought so many pieces of furniture so my house can be functional and not look so awkward but I’m not happy with the current layout. Any ideas? The tv is now where all of the pictures were because the tv mount fell out of the wall. And I’m standing where the entry way is

NoPay6387: I JUST got rid of that exact couch lol

lilyluvvvs

Bathroom Help

Which size rug should I go with for my bathroom? Will post second pic in comments since I don’t know how to do it here. I hate that it’s in front of the toilet either way. 😫 Also open to any other suggestions!

AdThis7046: You don't need a runner for the bathroom. You need a bath mat and if you have a preference for a sink mat, that's all you will need. A complete runner Is goofy and defeats the purpose of showing off your tile. You'll be covering nearly the entire bathroom with a runner. You might as well have just had it carpeted for that sake.

Get yourself a bath and sink mat and call it a day.

No_Cook9293

Conflict and Community

What’s fascinating about the various design requests is the clash of opinions that comes with them. One person might seek a minimalist aesthetic, while another might champion maximalism, sparking debates that can be surprisingly heated. This tug-of-war between differing tastes illustrates how subjective design really is and how strongly people feel about their choices.

In a way, these discussions become a microcosm of larger societal debates about identity and expression. When a homeowner asks for feedback, they’re not just seeking advice; they’re inviting others into a conversation about what home means to them and how that translates into physical space.

How Should I Re-Arrange This And What Size Pieces Should I Ad?

I put these framed prints up late last night (just moved in) and thought they looked great. Woke up this morning and they’re a tad… awkward in their placement? Maybe I’m just used to my wall being completely covered in posters and art… Looks odd to me. Any input?

blakeley: Too high and too close to lamp. Center over the center line of the couch and place right above the head of person sitting on couch.

throwaway_7919828

Help! Interior Design Skills Lacking? How To Be Better

I recently moved into a Brooklyn apartment with a small bedroom after living in an out-of-state apartment that was over 600 square feet. I used to have room for my surf gear, camping equipment, gym stuff, and more, but now I’ve had to downsize and fit everything into one small bedroom.

What can I do, from an interior design perspective, to make the space look better? Are there any tools, AI programs, prompts, or GitHub projects you use to help with design? When I ask AI directly, it usually gives me generic suggestions that wouldn’t necessarily look good in my actual space. Most of the furniture and decor I’d be buying would also come from Facebook Marketplace.

I have dressers about 30” tall that are going under a twin loft bed I’m getting this week.

My eye for space planning is decent but my eye for creating nice interior design is lacking. I make things too practical- I’ll optimize storage and hooks and stuff but then it’s just kinda ugly.

: Rotate the bed so the headboard is on the wall. Add side tables with lamps. Art over the headboard.

the color scheme for textiles: extra blankets & pillows to make the bed cozy. Add a large rug under the bed & floor length curtains.

Maroontan

I Made A Mistake

Light_Butterfly: Fireplace is the best thing in this room, I'd focus the entire design around incorporating. Seating needs to face towards the fireplace/back wall with the art, not away from it.Awkward_Chef_8631

The Personal vs. Practical

One interesting tension in this article is the dichotomy between personal style and practical advice. While some commenters offer well-intentioned suggestions, they often don’t take into account the homeowner’s lifestyle or needs. For example, a suggestion to swap out a family sofa might overlook the fact that it’s heavily used by children or pets.

This brings to light the complexity of design: it’s not just about aesthetics; it’s about how a space functions for those living within it. The challenge lies in finding a balance between wanting to impress others and creating a space that genuinely feels like home.

Bathroom Help

I don’t want to change the tile, but I also don’t like feeling like I’m walking into a gender reveal party every time I use the bathroom. This is one mock up I’ve done. Any advice?? My style is post modern/mcm

deloittious: That green goes horribly with the blue, how about cream?

AlgonuevoCR: What about warm up the pinkish tone ceramic with a terra cotta wall paint? It can help tone down the pinkish color

idontgiveahootok

Shelf Reshuffle Help

I’m not happy with how the open shelving looks. Can you help me reshuffle to create a curated look using the things I already have

Icy_Place1621: I think the top shovels are too short, is taking out that shelf level an option (even on one side?)

bougieisthenewblack: In the center area, remove the TV, th Ske the top middle shelf off and alight it with the lower side shelves. Remount the TV on the wall and higher up. Take the low flat items from the top of both sides and move to the new middle area, remove both side upper shelves, and put some taller items there

kittycatkemp

Which Layout And Why?

circajusturna: B is best so you can have a nightstand

egorre: A. your monitor is visible from the living room

C. your pc will get glare from the window

D. your monitor is visible right at the door and have the least privacy as people have direct sight to your bed from the living room

B. you'd have to enter the room to see what's on your monitor or have full view of your bed

PhotoshopRescue

That under-stair landing comment from AdDirect634 is funny, but it also sets the tone for how ruthless these room check-ins get.

This article exemplifies how social media shapes our perceptions of home decor. The online platforms where these homeowners seek advice are rife with curated images that can set unrealistic standards. When someone posts a picture asking for feedback, they’re often doing so against a backdrop of influencer culture that promotes specific trends as the ‘must-haves’ of the moment.

This raises an important question: Are these homeowners truly expressing their tastes, or are they subconsciously influenced by what they see online? The article captures this tension beautifully, showing how social media can both inspire and pressure individuals in their design choices.

What Can I Do Better? Please Help!

Moved in a month ago and this is the progress I have made yet. It's a pretty small bedroom the bed takes up most of the floor, with a desk/dresser setup in the corner.

Things things I'm stuck on:

Rug: floors feel bare but the bed eats most of the room. Do I get a runner along the open side of the bed, something partially under the bed, or skip it entirely?

The floor lamp: I have my doubts, should I replace it with something else?

Plants: What kind of plants and what size!

Any other suggestions/advice are welcome. Your help is appreciated! Thanks!

topshelfperverts: The lamps are okay, if not a little dorm-like. A warmer bulb will make them feel more cozy if you don’t want to prioritize upgrading them.

A rug will also make the area more soft and comfy. And plants always improve a space.

The biggest thing that stands out to me are the bare walls/ not having anything in the top ~60% of the space. Plenty of options to fix that, artwork can be found in thrifts for cheap, floating shelves have endless styling options and could hold some plants. Plant could also be hung from the ceiling to draw the eye up.

peachicedchai

Help With Chair/Ottoman

Does this white corduroy recliner go with this room? I say no, wife says yes. I just feel like something’s off. Maybe it’s not the recliner but the blue ottoman? Any suggestions for what color ottoman or chair you think would look better? Thanks.

Nonomomomo2: It works. The blue ottoman doesn’t.

Here’s why: the white chair picks up and goes with several other colors in the room, mainly the warm / off white of the windows and blinds (which due to their size are one of the room’s dominant colors) but also the ceiling, the trim on the wall next to it, the pillows on the couch and even the cream colored flowers on the carpet.

The other dominant color of the room is warm brown ( thanks to the floor) which the crimson couch and dark carpet pick up.

What doesn’t fit and isn’t part of any other color in the room? The blue ottoman.

other words, the white chair and the crimson couch all work together in a complimentary way with the other colors and details in the room.

The blue ottoman does not.

If I was redecorating from scratch however, I’d get rid of both the blue ottoman and the crimson couch and get something that more closely matches the white of the chair OR get rid of the white chair and match it to the dark crimson couch.

I would not, however, do anything other than get rid of the blue.

goonerinky

Am I Crazy For Wanting An All Black Kitchen???

This is an version of the layout that I want but in black. I'm kinda into it but not sure if I'm crazy...

antizana: Profile Badge for the Achievement Top 1% Commenter Top 1% Commenter

Yes, you’re crazy, unless you have the architecture and natural lighting to support it.

Live4Design72

Diverse Voices in Design

A particularly noteworthy aspect of the article is the diversity of voices contributing to the design advice.

Help With This Room

I'm struggling with this room and could use some fresh ideas. I need a coffee table, but I'm also looking for suggestions on how to make the space feel more cohesive, brighter, and a little more stylish. This is both angles

This is a converted garage, so the layout is long and awkward. I don't have a lot of space, and there are two bedroom doors along the left wall that limit furniture placement.

QueenK59: I love the gray and blue decor. Nice space. My first thought is about the sofa. Why so far back? I realize you have a walk path for the doors, but pull the sofa forward several feet and pull the rug forward also. You have a lot empty area. You may want to turn the table 90 degrees and utilize the are behind the sofa. Round 2: have you considered flipping the TV and console with the abstract art and console? The sofa would face the TV. The table could go in the former TV area. Better traffic flow.

Important_One_1951

Got Into A New House, Ideas?

Hi everyone! I’m moving into this apartment and I’d love to get your advice on how to furnish and decorate it.

Keep in mind that I’m planning to add a sofa cover, replace the rug, possibly swap out the coffee table as well, and add some nice decorative accessories here and there.

Any suggestions?

VCULadybug_2008: No suggestions. SCREAMING! I love the floors!

TeamOk8318: Definitely a bigger rug and swap out the coffee table because they’re both out of scale. Also add more throw pillows that are bigger and consider a tall floor lamp that lights upward.

brivido99

Would Love Advice On How To Use This Space!

Moved into this apartment about 6 months ago, and this room feels a bit stale since we don’t have a window in here. The bike needs to stay (but can be stored differently!) but not precious about anything else. It’s right next to our kitchen, but we never spend and time in here! Feeling stuck on how to make this room homey and somewhere we want to spend time. Any advice appreciated!

CatBird2023: My first thought was "what space?" As in, it looks like you're already doing a great job of maximizing the usefulness of a small space so I'm not sure what more you could add. I do like the furniture, and the practical bike storage. What do you want/need to use this room for? Do you eat at the table? Or someplace else?

SaltySummerSunsets

Criticism and Sensitivity

One of the more delicate aspects of asking for design help online is navigating criticism.

2 Couches?

Does this look ok with these 2 curved couches? Or would 1 and a chair be better?

vulgarvinyasa2: IMO this room is the wrong way around. Big couch and TV swap. Little couch facing new TV spot and the walk space is now by those windows/doors. New rug too.

ZeldaF: turn the 2nd sofa so that they are facing each other. And ditch the rug for a cooler one with a pattern.

Lambo918

Need Fresh Eyes - Home Office

Feeling a bit stuck on my home office and looking for some fresh ideas.

Open to suggestions - layout, rug, furniture, lighting, plants, artwork.. whatever comes to mind. The only potential constraint is that the desk isn’t reversible, as the low side cabinet is fixed on the right-hand side. I generally enjoy a minimal, while still comfy, look and feel, but would love to hear what y’all would do!

Striking-Emu-3588: Always have yr back to a wall, good feng shui

NumerousDepth1563: It’s bad Feng shui to place your desk with your back to the door - put a nice rug in and turn the desk either 90 degrees or 180 degrees. Put some art up too.

FBen980

Help Decluttering The Collection In My Room

Hello I'm 19 year old male and I've been collecting an assortment of things for a very long time. But recently I've been wanting to declutter and clean up this wall and in return make everything easier to look and to make my room feel cozier while still making it my own. I understand I'll probably have to remove some stuff but I would like some tips on how to make this look nicer. Thank you to everyone who comments with help in advance! :)

CrustieTwinky: Attach doors to the shelves.

bellemrt: Maybe 1/2 doors on the far left and right shelves? You have great stuff! But not everything has to be out. Maybe get a few sturdy boxes (I like clear shoe boxes) and start "editing." You're not "purging," (I hate that term!) -- you're giving things a rest. Even museums rotate exhibits. The center shelves are a focal point, so pick and choose what goes there, and try for some balance on the other sides. If you're the guitarist/musician, you understand balance/rhythm. Eyes need a rest just like music. A little open space makes a big difference sometimes.

Jazzlike-Range-741

Underneath the Aesthetics

What’s often overlooked in discussions about home design is the underlying emotional context. For many homeowners, their spaces are tied to memories, aspirations, or even struggles. When someone asks for help, they might be revealing vulnerabilities that go beyond aesthetics.

The article subtly encourages readers to consider the stories behind the spaces. This adds depth to the conversation, reminding us that every design choice can carry significant emotional weight and that the advice given should be sensitive to those narratives.

Help Me Revamp My Oxford Room!

Hi all! This is my ‘lovely’ room at Oxford for the coming year. I like a warm home - warm lamps, oriental rugs, dark plants, sophisticated decor. How do I do this with this brutal blue carpet? My administrator told me that the room looks way less blue in person, but the carpet is blue nonetheless. IDEAS

Nonomomomo2: You don’t, really. Your best bet is potted plants, change the sheets, add warm lamp lighting, and maybe some mirrors or posters if you’re allowed to hang things on the wall. Dorm rooms are not the place for redecorating, sadly, but try we must!

lszubert: Work with the bold colour scheme so go like modern bold interior, so a green rug. Then a pop of orange red poster art work with some abstract art work. A dark wooden plant pot holder, big blue pot and a big green plant in it to tie it in. Then red orange bed sheets to match the complimentary art work on the wall

Wrong_Pineapple_2294

Balcony Reno

Hi all,

How can I make it nicer? When bought it was only concrete floor. So deck floor, chair, plants and the bar are new.

I am thinking about bar stools, lights and something for shade but I really don’t want to put holes on the walls etc. because of VvE.

pinchupanda7: I thought this was the renovated one

Historical_Reward621: You can’t do all that. It’s just too much for such a small balcony. It looks great as it is though I’d group those plants in three at the bottom left step (looking at photo) by the bench.

I’d focus on adding a little color. Painting or buying new plant pots. Weather resistant bench pad with a pillow. If you can do the same on the other side with the same style of bench, do that, or a cute bistro set similar in style to your bench.

This is really a “standing” balcony. Sorry, I’d probably buy all the things you mentioned but then I’d start removing them once I realized I went overboard. Good luck

Anonymous

Transform This Space

Any suggestions on how I can utilize/transform this space. This is a kitchen off of the master and not the main kitchen. I am leaning in on more of a coffee/liquor bar but am lost with how I can do it without having seating facing a wall. (Btw I will be losing the microwave and air fryer)

Double-Scale4505: I’d get rid of the table. Only put bar and drink things in. Pretty bar glasses and alcohol and bar supplies, coffee mugs and coffee maker stuff, tea cups and tea stuff. Even blender and smoothie supplies if that’s your thing. Anything drink related basically is what I’d do. If you really wanted seating, I’d go wish a small bistro table and two chairs.

No-Swordfish-883

Then Herredness16 drops the blinds-and-carpet callout, and suddenly it’s not just “style,” it’s compatibility.

A Quest for Community

In many ways, this article reveals a quest for community among homeowners. When they share their design dilemmas online, they’re not just seeking tips—they’re looking for connection. The act of inviting strangers into one’s home, even virtually, is a way to bridge gaps and find common ground.

This desire for community is particularly salient in today’s digital age, where physical barriers can make it hard to forge relationships. Homeowners are seeking validation and camaraderie in their design journeys, making the online interactions all the more meaningful.

Easy Ideas For The Back Of This Cabinet?

Currently renovating this kitchen. We have a large space on the back of the cabinet. Tried staining a piece of finish ply to match the cabinets but I can’t seem to find a stain that will match. Looking for easy, low cost ideas to make this look better.

UndecidedQBit: Magnet board!

Diligent-Current-230: Maybe a wallpaper that compliments the rest of the styling?

holydiver129496069

What Carpet (Size And Color) And Coffee Table (Shape And Material) Should I Put In This Living Room?

Jon_Charnley: Analyse your colours? What are your primary; secondary; and accent colours? Looks to me that you have beige/brown walls; sofa; and floor. You could probably bring in two more colours. Take two colours from your artwork and pick them up in the rug, cushions, more artwork, throw blanket, lampshades and any decor items? Your floor is light with a warm tone, I’d be inclined to pick that up if you choose a wooden coffee table.

Repulsive_Analyst_81

Ideas For Decorating Back Half Of Living Room

This is the back half of the living room, the front half has a couch and a TV.

We're not sure how to decorate this space. One idea is to turn it into a reading nook with a fireplace and some plants.

Some things we are also considering: bookshelf, floating shelves, paintings/framed photos etc

Blue-zebra-10: I'd make it a little reading nook! A smaller bookshelf, a comfy armchair, and a small table with a lamp on it for when it's dark

hicklypups

The Power of Visual Feedback

The visual nature of design discussions is another compelling element of the article. Homeowners share images not just to describe their spaces but to invite visual dialogue. This aspect of design is unique in that it encourages immediate, visceral reactions that can be both inspiring and polarizing.

When someone posts a photo of their room, they’re not just asking for advice—they’re creating a canvas for interaction. The comments that follow can reveal a lot about community dynamics and collective tastes, showcasing how visual feedback can shape personal choices.

This DIY vibe matches people turning useless junk into surprisingly clever solutions instead of starting from scratch.

What Could I Do With This Space Around The Brick Column?

I feel like the space would be wasted. Any ideas?

Siamswift: Clean it up and declutter.

mary2chat2: Instead of a conglomeration of mismatched bookcases, have custom cabinetry created to highlight the space. Do a mix of open and closed shelving. Upgrade the lighting so your many pieces can be seen and appreciated.

No-Organization5452

How Would You Design This Living Room?

I’m at a loss of how to set up my apartment living room. The kitchen is tiny so ideally i’d have a small table set up in here as well and it would double as a dining room. I’m open to any furniture suggestions! Another photo angle in the comments

QueenK59: That is a lovely large area! I see 3 doors in the area. Main entrance, hallway and restroom…or is that the kitchen door on the right side of bottom photo?

I agree with hanging the TV on the paneled wall. The sofa floats in front of it, making a natural break/division from the rest room/kitchen door. If you would like an L- shape sofa, the short side is in front of the windows, just not against them.

Don’t forget a rug to define the sofa area.

You also have an area to put a small dining table… on the painted wall between the doors.

Have fun!

Appropriate-Quit-998

Ideas For Large Patio Door Replacement And Window Covering

We have a large patio door that we’d like to replace, but feeling overwhelmed with the size of the doorway. 12’ x 78” are the dimensions. It’s an older home overlooking a lake in the upper Midwest (long cold winters). We love the view but the doors are hardly functional anymore (one screen and door no longer open). Including a picture of the draperies as we’re hoping for ideas on what to replace them with (pic in comments). Thanks for any ideas ( we are simply hopeless with design)!

Particular-Peanut-64: Before replacing check the tracks and rollers on the door. Usually dirt and debris clog up the track and rollers on the bottom of the door. The track prbly needs to be vacuumed and clean. The doors removed and the rollers inspected, cleaned or replaced. Recommend hanging the curtain rods past the windows so when open you get the full view. Double rods to hang sheers if you want privacy and the heavier rod to hangs thick, insulated curtains to prevent the cold from radiating inside

Stunning-Brain6058

The article touches on the complicated expectations tied to home design. Homeowners may hope for a flood of positive feedback, but they also open themselves up to critique, which can be a double-edged sword. This often creates a scenario where the person asking for help feels caught between wanting to please others and staying true to themselves.

It raises the question of how much weight people give to online opinions. At what point does feedback become pressure? This internal conflict can make the design process feel even more daunting, illustrating just how personal the act of decorating can be.

Need Some Help With My Room!

i just feel like everything is kind of clobbered together. my room (shared with my brother) genuinely feels like i have no space. i’ve been thinking about getting rid of my closet doors bc our dresser is in there and it doesn’t even open all the way bc of them. any help would be appreciated and the AC unit is only for the summer just fyi

kittiesandyarn: Ok I have no idea how you share this space with another human but here’s my best guess on how to make this more usable.

Push the bed all the way to the left against the wall. Then maybe you’ll have space for the desk in the corner next to the window so it isn’t blocking the closet. Then put the mini fridge where the desk was.

I agree with getting rid of the closet doors and maybe get some shelving or artwork on the walls. Actually a bunk bed or loft bed might be a lot better here. I’d just put it right up against the back wall.

Spirited_Macaroon113

Any Suggestions To Upgrade My College Dorm Room For Next Semester?

Sorry for the mediocre picture, I currently have 3 framed posters and 2 diffused LED strips that I usually set to a warm white light that are not pictured

Conscious_Skin_6578: Rug and a plant or two. Glad to hear your wall art is framed. And yeah warm lamps are way better than the overhead lights.

ThwartMercury4

Help With Laundry Room!

I hate my laundry room so l'm finally hiring contractors to fix it! I have a few ideas, but I'm interested in hearing what you would do if this was your space?

We ordered new machines on pedestals so the new ones will be much taller, but I'm otherwise open to changing just about anything (color scheme, floor, layout).

Key_Bedroom_1516: Like college laundry room, maybe swap out that dark, linoleum for a bright patterned tile. Replace those floating white boxes with open floating wood shelves or cabinets that go all the way to the ceiling

Small-Monitor5376: Put together a list of functions that you want - drying racks, folding table, hampers, storage for cleaning supplies, mops, brooms, ironing station…is it also a mudroom? Could have lockers and hooks…. At that point take your list to a cabinet shop or ikea and have them put together a layout that serves those needs.

bene_x_bene

This article showcases how trends can complicate individual design choices. While many commenters may suggest trending styles, they might not consider whether those trends align with the homeowner’s personal taste or lifestyle. This creates a conflict between following what’s ‘in’ and what truly feels right.

The prevalence of trends can pressure homeowners to conform, leading to a design that feels more like a performance than a genuine reflection of self. This tension between personal expression and societal expectations is a recurring theme in many design discussions, making the article particularly relevant.

Need Help Filling This Wall

This empty wall in my room really bugs me, it’s 9ft wide and 4ft tall from the top of the round lamp. Any ideas on what to fill it with?

kuppajoy: The shelf you have right now looks quite cluttered, you could put up some floating shelves and move some things onto those

Street-Ad-6401

Help With First Living Space As A Bachelor

I recently moved into my first home and don't really know a lot about interior decoration, I want my living room to feel really cozy and don't know where to start. I know I want to get a ottoman and a big area rug for the carpet. Any examples or opinions would help immensely. Thanks!

mary2chat2: Move your TV and bookcase to the wall opposite where it is now, bookcase to left of the door on that wall. Move short gray sofa where TV is currently and brown plaid sofa where gray sofa is currently. Definitely get a rug, end tables and table lamps with warm light lightbulbs . Get some easy care plants, like snake plant, for near the window. Drapes can add a cozy feel also.

VastSad1074

Craving A Change In My Bedroom - Any Ideas?

fourth wall is fully covered by wardrobe and there’s a door where I’m standing. Windows are closed with blinds in the photo in front of my desk. There’s a tv next to the door (very left of the photo). I feel very stuck with this arrangement but I’m craving a change cuz it’s the only change I can make in my life rn lol

mary2chat2: You could put bookcases where cubbie shelf/tv is. Slide bed to left and center under window. Cubbies move under other window or orient other direction and place to right of bed.

You could also just move bed to left wall and put cubbies either next to desk or where the bed was.

Emergency_Purple3686

Feedback Fatigue

Another layer to this story is the potential for feedback fatigue. Homeowners might receive an overwhelming amount of advice, which can lead to confusion rather than clarity. Instead of feeling uplifted by the community, they might find themselves paralyzed by too many options, especially if those options clash.

This phenomenon speaks to a larger issue in our information-saturated society: the more choices we have, the harder it can be to make a decision. The article highlights this struggle, reminding us that sometimes less is more in design and beyond.

What Would You Do With This Empty Wall?

I moved into my house about a year ago and still can’t decide what to do with this wall.

It’s a transition wall between the kitchen and living room, facing the stairs going both upstairs and downstairs.

I’ve considered a bookcase, a large sideboard/buffet with art above it, a console table, a bench, etc. but I can’t commit to anything. I’ve asked AI for ideas, but I’m still undecided…

Everyone who’s come over has also been unsure what would work here, so I’d love some opinions/ideas! What would you put in this space?

Open to completely different suggestions too!

Mom_is_watching: Hutch or bookcase

PittyPat4778: I think you might have room for a cabinet and a bench and a plant, with art above bench, or if not art then some type of shelf. With hooks to hang things.

No-Profession-775

Help Reimagining A Corner Of My Living Room

I have a corner of my living room that I just... do not love. But I don't have any inspiration for what to do with it. Any fun ideas of how to redo the fireplace space, what to put instead of the two wall shelves, etc? Open to all ideas! Our home leans Scandinavian and modern.

NumerousDepth1563: Desperately needing plants

ExpensiveAd4496: Just needs a small table beside the chair. Round.

Either-Artichoke-890

Still Incomplete -> Tips Needed

We moved in few days ago and still have lots of things to buy. For this living room, this is planned to be added asap:

• proper size (wider, longer) curtains - in the colour of the darker one

• a big painting or 3-set beige wall art.

• sofa cushions (unsure of number, material and exact colour ..)

This colour palette is not my cup of tea, so not sure of what I could change/improve, with not way too much effort.

PhillippaAggie: I'd avoid beige art if I were you and would opt instead for framed b&w photos or some art with a little color. Try adding some big fluffy white or cream throw pillows and a folded throw on the ottoman or corner of the couch. Also some candles and books on the table. The little black chair seems out of place...move the plant there and put some sort of corner chair where the plant is now.

moonmelody28

After that, Historical_Reward621 starts reorganizing the entire living room, from the coffee table placement to the mirror height, like it’s a renovation checklist.

The Emotional Labor of Design

Designing a space is more than just arranging furniture; it’s an emotional labor that often goes unrecognized. The article illustrates how homeowners invest not only their time but also their feelings into creating a home. When they seek advice, they’re looking for validation of their hard work and emotional investment.

This emotional labor can make the feedback received feel even more impactful, whether it’s positive or negative. It’s a reminder that behind every design dilemma is a person who has poured their heart into their space, making the conversation all the more significant.

Dividing Wall Help?

Hi, all! I l live in a 1 bedroom apt with my partner and child. Many years ago we gave our child the bedroom and hired contractors to put up a dividing wall in our living room, to create a sleeping space for my partner and I while still preserving the living room. So far, it’s been working out just fine.

Recently, I have been wanting to do something with this dividing wall (sliding door with panels of frosted glass).

Ideally, I am hoping to preserve as much of the natural light that comes through from the frosted panels.

However I feel like there is a lot we can do with the space above the panels, to help extend our current goal esthetic (traditional/modern vintage).

Better-Necessary157: I think a vintage runner rug would look good hung there, if space allows. Something i did in my apartment which i know i’ll live in for years is hang artificial crown molding to give it a little more vintage charm- it adds a lot of intrigue and elevates the space without adding a ton of visual clutter.

Super_Duper_Nova

Lost My Whimsy And Ended Up With An Ugly Cheap Minimalist Nightmare Of A Couch

I moved 2 years ago in a condo apartment and I wanted to try a new style than my last which was a lot more eclectic and dark. I thought I’d try some neutral colors but now I deeply regretting it and the worst part is my couch. I got it from Nellis Auction and the listing showed an incorrect image. We ended up keeping it anyway but it’s soooooo ugly and cheap looking. I hate it but I don’t really want to spend money on a new one right now. Is there anything I can do to make this thing look better? I know it needs a good clean but the fabric is just falling off the bone.

Subject2Change: Decorative pillows, replace the boring ones. Gray on light gray is the issue, ya just need pops of color

welp-itscometothis

Wall Decor Ideas Needed!

Long time lurker, first time poster. Just bought our first house and working room by room with our bedroom up first! I love the furniture we landed on my struggling with wall art. I have ambder sconces I’d like to incorporate as bedside night lights. What would you do with these walls?

Winter_Dot_9393: It’s fine, but you could put a light on each of the night tables or on the wall above the bed. And art above the bed. It can just be a poster of a landscape or something, it doesn't need to be complicated or expensive. Or lights above the bed and a poster on the long wall on the right site in the picture

No-Fan733

The Influence of Culture

The cultural context of homeowners’ design choices adds yet another layer to this article.

Help!

i thought i had gotten green paint but its more teal, im trying to go for a boho/ cozy vibe. any colors that match? what would you guys add?

Such_Grand_9261: I think a medium-sized beige tapestry could be hung right in the middle above the sofa, or two layers of wooden suspended shelves could be installed to hold small green plants. Finally, the dark curtain should be replaced with a beige one.

MotherLetterhead3742

Feedback On Room Divider

I've decided to remodel my living room space a little, buying a smaller couch that opens up into a bed (better than a large normal couch like the one I have now for sleeping, and fits my space better since the one I have is way too wide and deep for the space I have) and turning the TV bench 90 degrees towards where I want to put the couch.

My question is now, how do I solve the TV "corner"? I was thinking of moving the IKEA's BESTÅ you can see in the picture behind the light grey TV bench to create a separation for when you enter the room, and put a wall slat divider between the TV bench and the cabinets, maybe 150/160cm tall (not to the ceiling), like these ones. This is to cover the back of the TV which would be exposed to people walking in into the living room.

Any feedback on this? Any suggestions? I'm open to every change, small or big, I'm trying to use what I have before buying new things. The only thing I'm afraid is that the cabinets I have will "push" the TV too close to the couch, or look weird once you enter the room because they will block the view, but honestly it's the only option I found to fit the new couch and have the TV in front of it.

Nonomomomo2: I don’t mean to be critical but that is a very difficult plan. Have you seen it in 3D? I don’t think it will work as well in real space as it does on plan.

Having your TV block off a huge chunk of your lounge like that is going to really feel cramped and annoying after a few days.

The good news is nothing you’re doing costs money or is irreversible, so just move things around to block it out for a couple of days and see how it feels!

masshuudojo

What To Put In This Space? We Tried These Photos But Don’t Think They Work

Candy_Lawn: family photos always work going upstairs. else a mix of prints, photos, hangings, paintings, sculptures etc.

DazzlingAd1778

Design as a Reflection of Identity

Ultimately, this article highlights how home design serves as a reflection of identity. When homeowners share their spaces online, they’re not just seeking help; they’re expressing who they are and what they value. This makes the feedback they receive all the more impactful, as it touches on core aspects of their lives.

This idea transcends mere aesthetics. It raises important questions about how our physical environments influence our mental and emotional well-being and how we can use design as a tool for self-expression.

How Would You Approach Renovating An Outdated Bathroom Like This In NYC?

I want to renovate my bathroom. I’d like to make it feel lighter and more modern, improve storage, and get rid of the bulky framed shower doors. Ideally, avoid moving the plumbing unless there’s a strong reason to.

For anyone who has renovated a similar bathroom in NYC:

- Do you have design recommendations?

– What should I specifically ask contractors about regarding waterproofing and ventilation?

– How did you choose between contractors beyond just price and online reviews? Is there anyone you’d recommend?

Also interested in hearing what timelines and unexpected issues people encountered in apartments.

Oxjrnine: That vintage tile is actually quite beautiful

If it’s in good shape, maybe refresh the grout

And then lean into modern interpretations of the accessories and fixtures that would go with that tilev

garciavittoria4

Help Please!

I am not sure how to decorate this living room for the life of me. There are only two walls where the TV and couch can go. There is a radiator on the window wall and no outlets.

I’m not trying to drop a ton of money but I’m willing to sell, replace, buy whatever I need to in order to make this cozy.

Once caveat is that I can only use command strips to hang, which is a pain. I cannot drill into the wall as far as I can tell because it’s brick behind it.

I typically like scandi, mid century type decor but I want it to feel relaxing and cozy but I’ll settle for put together at this point

DetentionSpan: This may be stooopid, but can you use command strips to hold metal conduit for a cutting rod? Put the command hook on the left wall and the right wall, with the conduit snug? Do they make tension rods that long???

Temporary wall paper behind the tv could be cute.

I like your space. There’s nothing wrong with minimalism!!! Everyone’s gonna say get a plant. :)

Initial-Passage-6410

Rug Ideas

AI suggested this rug for my living room but it seems a little too monochromatic. Any suggestions for a different rug or colour?

Daisy_Dreams0429: I’d go for something with a subtle pattern or a bit of color to break up the monochromatic look. Maybe a muted blue, green, or warm neutral could add some contrast while still keeping the room cohesive.

eclare230

The Balance of Personal Taste and Advice

A theme that arises throughout the article is the balance between personal taste and external advice. Homeowners often face the dilemma of whether to stick to their unique styles or adapt to suggestions from others. This struggle is particularly evident when advice feels like a departure from their original vision.

It’s a reflection of the broader challenge many face in their lives: navigating between self-identity and communal expectations. The article serves as a reminder that while feedback can be valuable, staying true to oneself should ultimately guide the design process.

Any Ideas On What To Do With This Foyer

It’s dark and I’d like a more modern look but I’m getting mixed reviews on painting it or leaving it the way it is

PittyPat4778: Painting doors more of a contrast like blue or green, then pick up that color in a small rug, hopefully easy to wash kind. Dont paint walls.

_The_Navyviper_

Our Living Room So Far

We went with a light color theme and added some small wooden furniture pieces to keep the room feeling clean and open.

The two sofas are from our old house. We don't wanna replace big furniture right now, so we brought them here. It also helps avoid some unnecessary spending.

For the lighting, we added a few different light sources. At night, the room feels much warmer and softer.

We skipped drilling holes in the wall and didn’t want a bulky tv cabinet. A movable tv stand works better since we can change things around later.

alicat777777: This layout is all wrong and the lamps are oddly placed as well.

One_Fold4822

Iso Rug Suggestions!

what color/style rug do you recommend to go with this blue couch? I like modern/ moody /cozy/ warm MCM vibe.

Wonderful-Teach8210: My couch is similar, and I have an oushak rug (cream base, main colors: faded red, orange, blue & olive). If that's too traditional, go for something with lots of texture and bold structure like these. I like the Xola Rug quite a bit FWIW.

Target: Levine Mid Century Modern Geometric Rug

All Modern: Jason Wu Hand-Woven Geometric Rug or Xola Multi Hand-Tufted Geometric Wool Rug

Otherwise-Donut-9410

By the time the furniture shifts and the “too small and hung too high” mirror gets mentioned, the owners are stuck wondering who’s judging their taste more, the strangers or the layout itself.

The Quest for Authenticity

This article implicitly raises the question of authenticity in design. When homeowners ask for help online, they’re often grappling with the desire to create a space that feels genuine and true to themselves while also considering others’ opinions. This quest for authenticity can create tension, especially when the feedback doesn’t resonate with their vision.

It’s an age-old struggle between individual expression and external validation. The article captures this nuance beautifully, prompting readers to reflect on how authenticity plays a role in their own design journeys.

How Would You Style This Living Room? It Feels A Bit Cold And Is Missing Something

I’m looking for ideas to make my living room feel warmer and cozier. Right now it feels a little empty and cold.

I’m already planning to:

- Make the curtains wider so they extend wall-to-wall.

- Add a dining table under the pendant light.

- Replace the square coffee table with something that fits the room better.

What else would you change? Rug, lighting, wall decor, plants, pillows, colors, etc.?

KawaakariMedaka: Just don't buy anything else beige grey or brown and you'll be fine

AccomplishedGur6680

I Don’t Even Know Where To Start

So stale. What do I do

Clarknt67: First order of business: Pick a color palette. Then figure out how to apply it.

Minimum-Bobcat8768: Colorful rug, curtains hung high up, wall art

Sufficient-Seat3899

Need Help Making This Room A Bit Better

It is a 10ft×10ft room

Additional-Dare7871: get a frame for the bed to raise it off ground, I would switch where bed is and where that desk thing is and have the feet of the bed pointed towards the closet, this would maximize space. from there you'll just need to decorate. get a nightstand, bookshelf or shelves, yk.

Aggressive-Iron7965

Help! I Literally Don't Know What To Do, Move, Change, Or Add?

Hi there, I have no idea what cushions to use, colours, number, sizes. Also no idea what rug to use and whether the furniture even makes sense. I have a young kid so need to leave his little table. But maybe I can add a big painting? Some plant in the corner behind the one seater? I normally don’t like a lot of colour and prefer less than more which makes it very hard to know what to do add. Heeelp!

Unlikely-Sleep2792: Add plants a rug and more artwork

Puzzleheaded-Lake947

Help Choose Bath Mat

Deciding which bath mat works best here. The bathroom is already pretty “busy” with turquoise/teal paint, small hexagon tiles (mostly white with black accents), and a flower pattern metal thing behind the mirror. The bath/shower itself is simple with white subway tiles.

BackgroundFresh457: Plain black

trixie102: Choose the thinnest floor mat, not a thick absorbent one.

I recently purchased new bath mats that were thick & cushy “hotel quality”. They were very absorbent and luxurious.

That was the issue. They held so much water, that when washing, they weighted a ton, and when the washing machine began the spin cycle, the weight knocked the washer drum off balance. We had the washer fixed. We tried washing the rug alone, it happened again. We ditched the rugs.

Illustrious_Win_9780

How To Liven Up Dark Furniture Room?

Hey guys, apologies for the odd pic my camera doesn’t have 0.5 but I have a pretty small bedroom (double size bed) and after decorating everything with ikea, kinda realized it looks really barren and dark and dim.

I don’t really want to replace anything except for the lamp and maybe the 4 cube table?? but I am desperate for opinions to add things to liven up the room without making it feel too small! I don’t get a lot of natural sunlight despite the window so I have to have the light on to ensure it stays bright enough.

The opposite wall is just a sliding mirror built in robes and a window

Currently I’m looking for a set of dried flowers and a sheepskin offcut to throw on top of the cube unit and a decent sized poster to hang on the wall of my bed.

What kind of colours can I add or rearrange furniture to optimise my living situation?

My ideal room is a mid century modern-esque bohemian style room with lots of warmth and contrasting but complementary colors and personality!

Charming_Amount_971: Honestly some brighter bedding with fun art and a coordinating rug would be great.

Neither-Screen-4932

Den/Sitting Area

Please give me your ideas for a furniture setup for this room. The challenge is that there are 4 points of entry in this room. 2 are exterior doors.

QueenK59: U-shaped seating area I front of the fireplace. Casual dining table in the foreground. 2 occasional chairs with table and lamp between them. (Or a pool table!)

Repulsive_Throat7794

How Would You Handle Window Treatments For This Wall?

(Unhung family photo blocked out). I HATE these blinds, so I’d like to cover them up. But I’m not sure how I could do curtains here because it’s the whole wall. I rent, so, while my landlord probably wouldn’t oppose me swapping them out for a more high end shade/blind option, I’d rather not spend the money.

downsideup9494: You can hang a rod that spans the whole wall and have 4 curtains, 2 that cover the door, one each for the windows. When open, they would all move to the spaces between the windows and the door. You would need rod supports halfway between the windows and the door, to keep the rod from sagging, but the problem I see is that it doesn't look like there's enough space between the window frames and the side walls for end supports.

egp2117

Suggestions For Privacy With Our New Door

We just got a new door installed and we love it. The outside has a tint so during the day you can’t see inside. But at night, if a light is on in the house, you can very clearly see inside. Looking for suggestions on ways to keep the door private at night but keep the view to the outside clear during the day.

skittlazy: Is it a metal door? If so, you can buy magnetic curtain rods and add sheer curtains or more opaque ones

SMKnightly: Curtains or blinds? Roman blind would look good. Also, it’d be very easy to break in with the window down so near the locks…

Milanaura

Opinions Needed/Valued! Picking New Rh Sofa

Hi, so we messed up years ago when we bought our sofa at new house and went with white which was obviously not wise given children growing up in our home. :) Looking to purchase a reclining sofa in leather for more durability and between two colors. The sofa we’re focused in on is the Restoration Hardware Blake 3 seater + a single reclining chair. Debating between Chestnut color and Cocoa color. Cocoa is what is shown online however when we received the swatch it is actually quite a bit more brown/darker than the website image - looks more milk chocolatey, if that makes sense. Leaning towards chestnut but what do you all think? Current space image is attached.

We’ll also be adding an area rug to break things up so it’s not so overly matchy but also did want some continuity given the living space is one wide open area. Fwiw, this is a beach home with a sliding glass door next to living area that fully retracts to the outdoor balcony living area that has synthetic grass and brown wood furniture with white cushions.

Sweetiepie9731: Buy the rug first!!! Follow color cues from rug. Are you sure you don't want to slip cover the current sofa if it is a good one?

DS_305

Looking For Advice On How To Finish Styling This!

I’m going to hide the cord, the jars are to put more wax in. I just don’t really have an eye for these things so I’m looking for advice!

haf2go: Other non melt wicked candles in an assortment of colors- even ones with texture or pattern.

Katie_Lynne123

Help Me Bring These To Life

I love mixing old with new, the quality of classic just brings a good feeling into the home. I have these 80’s Wambold dining chairs that I adore - but the orange finish in the oak is ruining my aesthetic, which is mostly a mix of mid-century modern and modern modern, w/ walnut and gold finishes. I’m trying to decide on a finish that would slim them down and pull them into the aesthetic of the rest of the house. Please make suggestions. I’ve dropped an image of my chairs, can’t drop the finishes I’ve considered, but maybe you can help.

Independent_Born: Can you strip the stain and refinish in a darker walnut stain? That would look really good.

True-Tea-Tree

Time to re-do the facade on my 1930s neo-Tudor home. Any advice on new lighting or mailbox? Where should I put the house number? I’m not keen to change the colour because there is a lot of other trim in this shade

PittyPat4778: You could get an update just by changing lanterns and mailbox to brass. House numbers I guess brass too, depending on how many numbers, would affect where I’d put them. You and can hold them up in different positions first, to see what looks best. Then some pots of bright red geraniums, or white if you prefer.

Professional_Split_9

New Home - Looking For Advice For Design/Paint/Furnishing Living Room

I have a terrible eye for interior design, wondering if anyone has any good ideas about design, style, colors etc. We'd like to paint the coffered ceiling. Also, I would like to have two couches and would love advice on placement, style, and whether they should be the same couch or different from each other. I know this is all subjective and that it would help if I described my sense of style, but I really don't have one.

The pictures I'm providing have staging furniture- none of it will stay with the home.

Evening-Row-2658: pull couch off wall and get couch table 12 inch depth

DefinitelyMaybeBeige

Please Help Me Decorate My Coffee Table 😭 I Have No Idea What I’m Doing

please help me with my coffee table!! i just moved out of my parents’ house so this is the first home i’ve ever actually had to decorate myself and i’m LOST. i bought these two coffee table books that have some meaning today but beyond that i genuinely have no idea what else to put on the table. i want to keep it fun and have some personality without it looking crazy or like i just threw a bunch of random things together lol.

i saw this idea on tiktok of putting pool table balls in a decorative bowl. i included the original inspo and then screenshots of my amazon cart with a bunch of different color/style bowls. if anyone can help me decide which one would look best with the dark wood i would seriously appreciate it. also which coasters would look better, the white or green? or would a completely different color, material, or texture look better?

i’m also thinking of adding a big diptyque candle but idk what color. i already have a light pink one in my bedroom so literally anything other than that lol. i was also thinking maybe some venus et fleur flowers, but again WHAT COLOR and what shape/container 😭😭 maybe some fun crystals too?? a marble tray from amazon?? basically i have 500 individual ideas and absolutely no idea how to make any of them look cohesive together. i’m losing my mind please help

Hummingbird11-11: A cool tray would be fun with some objects - A horizontal stack of coffee table books (3 or 5 always odd #) with a little succulent plant on top , a circular dish,, a pottery bowl ...

The trick is different materials in different shapes with a bit of height . I find a lot of Inspo on Pinterest

Fit-Ad985

Rug Help!

Trying to curate my living room a little bit more these days. Really love what I’ve done so far, but I feel like I need a new rug. Something a little bigger but after that I’m all out of ideas! Would love to hear all suggestions on colors, patterns, and textures.

Solid_Perception9572: I wouldn't worry about the rug. Your taste in art, though, is disgusting.

h0bbyh0arder

Banquette Ideas

Hi everyone!

Im looking for some design ideas for this dining area in the apartment im moving into in a few weeks. Im very conflicted on the colors and im not sure i want a back. Im thinking using the ikea smastad benches and contact paper for the wood look. Can’t decide on light wood or dark. Im thinking using velvet but im open to different material. What do you think?

Also forget about the curtains lol

InteriorEmerald222: Sounds like a very cute idea. If no back just make sure the benches are wide enough to sit with your feet up/cross legged, and put some chairs with backs on the side facing the view through the windows, so you have options

miraculous143

What To Do With This Space??

Such a random space and no idea what to do with it. This is on the staircase and no real easy way to access it. The stairs lead from the entryway hallway to the living room area

areless_Mango_7948: Pothos! Lives well in medium artificial light & needs water just once a month. It will vine down over time.

Snake plant behind it, they’re tall & also can survive well there.

Equivalent-Check-172

Styling My Coffee Table

Ignore the messy living room but I just got the beautiful brass coffee table in great condition. How can I make it blend in? Im thinking maybe white milk glass?? Not sure if a table runner or wood accents. Im so confused

Bananabean041: You need a rug. It anchors the room and it’s what makes the space feel like home (or whatever space you are dealing with) style the table after you’ve settled on which rug. That will absolutely make a difference in what you put on there

No_Butterscotch5775

Good home design rarely comes down to following one universal rule. The most interesting spaces usually reflect how the people living in them actually use and enjoy their homes.

Online advice can offer a fresh perspective, point out details an owner has stopped noticing, and introduce possibilities they may never have considered. In the end, though, the best suggestion is still the one that makes the room feel right to the person who has to live in it.

What It Comes Down To

In the end, this article serves as a rich tapestry of personal stories, cultural influences, and the emotional complexities tied to home design. It invites readers to consider the interplay between personal taste and community feedback while highlighting the vulnerabilities that come with sharing one’s space. As design enthusiasts engage in these discussions, it raises a compelling question: How do we balance our unique identities with the ever-evolving trends and opinions that surround us?

The room gets fixed, but the owner’s dignity is the real casualty.

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