40 Tweets Getting Real About What It’s Like To Be A Parent In The Era Of Siri And Alexa

Raising children is never a simple task; as they say, it takes a village! But in today's age of technology, there is a whole new set of challenges that didn't necessarily apply to our parents or their parents before them.

This can be especially true if you use virtual assistants at home, such as Siri or Alexa. After all, you are essentially raising your kids in an environment where they can command someone to do pretty much anything for them.

Not only that, but young children can start to view these virtual friends as authority figures or extra parents. Often, their "virtual parents" know a lot more about everything than their actual parents, which can lead to some pretty hilarious conversations.

Parenting expert Dr. Shefali Tsabary emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries around technology use. She notes, "It's crucial for parents to be aware of how technology impacts their children's emotional and social development and to create a balanced environment that fosters healthy interactions." Dr. Tsabary also warns that excessive screen time can lead to behavioral issues, stating, "When children exhibit signs of irritability or boredom without screens, it's a clear signal that they may need a break from digital devices."

#1 Must say please.

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#2 Alexa, don't you dare!

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#3 A proud moment.

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#4 Set timer for 1 minute.

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#5 Poor Alexa.

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#6 She doesn't have eyes!

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#7 An accurate list.

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It's not all bad news, though. Parents still get to call the shots, so technology overuse can certainly be rectified.

"We get to decide how much and what kind of tech to allow in our homes," Molly said. "If the screen time status quo isn't working in your house, confidently make a change."

Molly says she has firm rules in place for her own children. "During the week, we only use digital entertainment after dinner, and we use it together," she said.

"We'll watch a family show or movie, but not every night. Other nights, we play board games, card games, or baseball or football outside."

"We have six kids, ages 12 and under," Molly said. "None of our kids have phones."

Molly acknowledges that her rules may not work for everyone, but she says they have improved her family's home life. "Certainly, this plan isn't ideal for every family, but eliminating daily video gaming and tablets has transformed the culture of our home in the best way."

#8 Alexa? Siri? Anyone?

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#9 Seriously, what now?

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#10 Alexa, play outside.

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#11 The answer is... never.

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#12 How can I help?

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#13 Hey Siri, do you know Santa?

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#14 An understandable mistake.

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#15 That's a funny joke!

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#16 Stop ignoring me!

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#17 Precisely!

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#18 Ask Miss Siri.

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There's no denying that technology has a place in our lives, and it's essential for children to learn how to use it. It can have a positive effect, but it can also have a very negative impact on kids.

"Our family loves technology, but too much of it was bringing out the worst in our kids," Molly said. "Putting tech in its proper place in your home will require a little trial and error."

"But allowing kids to develop skills and habits outside of the digital world will yield dividends for their mental, emotional, and social well-being," Molly explained. "Interestingly, many tech giants are some of the most screen-restrictive parents!"

So, what is the best way to regulate screen time? Molly says the easiest way is to "relegate it to specific days and windows of time."

"In our house, we don't isolate and consume digital entertainment," she said. "If the kids only get a half-hour or an hour of video games per week, and it's always on Sundays, they won't even ask for it on the other days."

If the kids already know the answer will be "no," chances are they won't waste their time asking. "It's not even an option," Molly said.

"Good parents can have different screen time plans that suit their unique family," Molly said. "But whatever that plan is, create firm boundaries."

"In the long term, you'll find that your kids turn their boredom into opportunity. We also need to ditch the idea that our job is to entertain our kids."

"We are not cruise ship directors; we are parents. Guide, help, love, nurture, cultivate, equip. Mentor? Yes. Entertain? No," Molly said.

#19 It was an accident.

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#20 We get it, Siri!

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#21 It's a concern.

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#22 She's not wrong.

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#23 Mute!

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#24 Hey Siri, where do babies come from?

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#25 Seems like a reasonable question.

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#26 Her real-life assistant.

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#27 She knows what I mean.

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Molly suggests trying a "tech fast" to get kids motivated to engage in other activities. "Invite them to sit with you and create a list of fun activities to try during the fast," she said.

"Go for a walk, ride bikes, play a board game, write a letter, write a story, or do a puzzle. Roll up your sleeves to get them started, then watch where they gravitate when they have free time."

"Feed those interests. Budding artist? Grab some new colored pencils and a fresh sketch pad. Potential bookworm? Head to the library. Building enthusiast? Grab some Legos."

Molly says encouraging a child's personal interests is very important. "Feed their interests and talents, and watch your amazing kids blossom!" she said.

#28 She deserved it.

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#29 Siri knows all.

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#30 Just another confused family member.

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#31 We don't have Alexa.

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#32 Thanks, Alexa!

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#33 Stop being mean to Alexa.

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#34 Part of the family.

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#35 A fair point.

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Dr. Michael Thompson, a renowned child psychologist and author, emphasizes that virtual assistants like Siri and Alexa can be beneficial for families. "When used appropriately, these tools can enhance learning and engagement," he states on his website, michaelthompson-phd.com. "They can help children explore their interests, like asking questions about their favorite characters or even telling jokes." He also notes that these devices can assist with homework, saying, "If kids have a question about science or need help with pronunciation, turning to a virtual assistant can be a great resource." While acknowledging concerns about screen time, Dr. Thompson adds, "AI assistants don’t have screens like phones, which can mitigate some of the issues related to excessive device use." He concludes, "The convenience they offer often outweighs the potential risks, provided parents set appropriate boundaries."

#36 You're welcome.

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#37 Don't listen to them.

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#38 Alexa, help a girl out.

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#39 Hey Aunt Siri!

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#40 Add to cart.

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So, what's your take on technology for kids? Do you think it's necessary to place strict boundaries on tech use, or do you think technology use (and overuse) is no big deal?

It's true, technology is indeed extremely valuable to a child's education, and it's essential for them to learn in today's tech-savvy era. However, it's also crucial for kids to learn about real life and how to communicate with real people in real situations.

It has been found that less screen time in the toddler years corresponds to lower rates of ADHD by the age of 7. Hands-on play and learning to read books are as important—if not more so—as learning to use technology.

It's something that each parent needs to determine for themselves and their children, but it's an inescapable problem in today's society. Technology is here to stay—and so are Siri and Alexa!