Redditors Support Lady Who Fired Back At Her Soon-To-Be BIL, Who Always Makes Fun Of Her Past Life

Everyone deserves a second chance. Just because you know something about someone’s past doesn’t mean you have the right to judge them.

Everyone makes mistakes, and as we grow older, we learn and reshape our lives for the better. In today’s post, the Redditor faced her past head-on, and she handled it in her own way.

She took her post to the AITA subreddit community to share her story. According to the 24-year-old lady, she was engaged to her now-fiancé, and it happened that his brother attended the same college as her.

There’s one thing the OP revealed, though—she slept around a lot in college and was pretty well-known for it. Her fiancé and his brother, Jacob, knew this, but the problem is that Jacob liked to bring it up very often at various gatherings.

When Jacob’s birthday dinner came, family and friends attended, including the OP and her fiancé. Then Jacob started making jokes that weren’t funny, including that he was surprised the OP never took the chance to sleep with him back in college.

The OP didn’t find this funny and gave him a reply that left him pissed and silent. The beautiful thing about this is that her fiancé had her back.

Do read the full story below.

Am I at fault for...

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I got engaged two months ago

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We went for Jacob's birthday dinner

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I replied to him, and he went silent

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I woke up to texts

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The post has been upvoted more than 18k times and has over a thousand comments. Here are some of the most upvoted comments by Redditors.

1. He's angry because he didn't get his way

nixiedust85

2. You're a sore loser because you don't want to sleep with him

PomeloPepper

3. Send him a kid's birthday card

PizzaInteraction

4. And this Redditor is having a good laugh

TetanicDawg

5. You did not do anything wrong since he made jokes you didn't like

magog12

6. It's creepy that he brought it up at a gathering

jabmwr

7. He bullied you and got smacked down

TheMobyDicks

8. He has himself to blame

dutchie1966

9. It shows a complete lack of respect

RoseGold-Bubbles1333

10. He's not involved in your sexual history

curious382

11. He's someone who can't stand being rejected

Old_Adhesive_556

12. They should do a better job of shutting him down

Sea-Mud5386

13. He and his friends are lame, and they should deal with it

tinny36

14. Your fiancé is okay with your past, and that's the important thing

FluffyMom2Z

15. You and your fiancé ought to handle this

MersWhaawhaa

16. How long were you supposed to endure that?

Teacher-Investor

17. He and his friends are immature

Professional_Tip6789

18. Someone wants to know the meaning of Jax...

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19. He clearly can't handle a dish served back to him

Knittingfairy09113

20. Kudos for standing up for yourself

AccomplishedBat2226

It’s not fair to keep reminding people of their past lives, especially when they are trying to move on. Many Redditors believed that the OP’s soon-to-be brother-in-law had it coming since he always made fun of her past.

But then, what are your thoughts about this story? Drop them in the comments section below.