Dude Spends $3,000 to Celebrate Christmas with Long-Distance GF Only to Realize She Wants Him to Leave
Apparently, she hates his autistic social tendencies.
One Redditor spent thousands of dollars, crossed the world, and sat through 10 days of quarantine just to spend Christmas with his long-distance girlfriend. Instead of a cozy reunion, he ended up feeling like his presence was making her uncomfortable.5 years before they started dating, and the relationship had mostly been online. They gamed together, hung out virtually, and seemed to be building toward moving in together, so he decided to surprise her with an early visit before she relocated to live with him.
That plan did not go the way he expected, and the fallout left him wondering where things went wrong.
Here's How It All Began...
Redditor / BedbugmakesadA Week Later, All Hell Broke Loose.
Redditor / BedbugmakesadShe Wanted Him to Leave...
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The World Responds...
OP was shocked because all this time he thought they were the happiest couple, and now his long-distance girlfriend wanted him gone.
Was it OP's fault, or was his girlfriend too overbearing? Here's what the world thinks.
That is where the story starts to get messy.
Maybe OP's Making Her Believe He's Less Confident.
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Yep, That Was the First Time They Met in Person.
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Here's Some Golden Advice.
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This Is Probably a Good Idea.
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Not Every Couple Who Clicks Online Works in Person...
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It gets messy in a similar way to an AITA where someone wants to move back home without telling their long-distance boyfriend.
Exactly.
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People Ask What OP Brings to the Table.
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You Can't Force Relationships.
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Showing Her This Post Isn't a Very Good Idea.
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You Don't Just Decide to Get Married After Long-Distance Dating.
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Take That Feeling and Kick It in the Butt.
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According to Some, OP Needs to Communicate His Feelings Better...
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Others Think the Primary Issue Is Something Else.
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Long-Distance Relationships Are Like a Game of Tamagotchi.
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OP Should Leave; It's the Adult Thing to Do, Says Funkyonion.
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Yep, This Is 100%.
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This Is Gold.
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Others Think This Is an Eastern-European Meetup Gone Wrong.
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The Curious Case of Internet Relationships.
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Then Someone Rightly Exploded.
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In Summary...
We're not sure what OP decided to do in the end because they never updated their post, but we have a feeling he most likely moved on.
There's no point in staying in a relationship where the only way you communicate effectively and efficiently is online. You essentially fall in love with each other's online versions.
A good and steady relationship is founded on great communication skills, but we're sure you know that already.
Well, here's to OP. Until next time.
Sometimes the trip says more than the relationship does.
After $3,000 Christmas plans blew up, see how a girlfriend “moves without me” sparked an AITA conflict. Read the girlfriend moves without him AITA story.
