Dude Spends $3,000 to Celebrate Christmas with Long-Distance GF Only to Realize She Wants Him to Leave
Apparently, she hates his autistic social tendencies.
Isn't it awesome to spend some physical time with your long-distance partner? It's an incredible feeling, especially when you've been apart for far too long.
That's what Redditor Bedbugmakesad thought when he traveled halfway across the world, spent $3,000, and endured 10 days in quarantine to be with his long-distance girlfriend for Christmas. Little did he know that his presence would make her so uncomfortable that she'd ask him to leave.
OP met her 2.5 years ago on a dating app, and they became fast friends. About six months ago, in June 2021, they started dating.
OP was head over heels in love with what he thought was the coolest human on the planet. Although they were long-distance, they played video games together, relaxed together, and did everything else together.
In short, OP believed they were the happiest couple on the planet. A couple of months later, they decided it would be a good idea to move in together.
But OP couldn't wait. Before she moved in with him, he booked a flight, spent 10 days in quarantine, and spent $3,000 just to be with her for Christmas.
He said, "She was planning on moving in to live with me a couple of months from now, so it seemed like a good idea to give her a trial of what it was like to live with me..."
It backfired. We'll let OP take over now.
Here's How It All Began...
Redditor / BedbugmakesadA Week Later, All Hell Broke Loose.
Redditor / BedbugmakesadShe Wanted Him to Leave...
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The World Responds...
OP was shocked because all this time he thought they were the happiest couple, and now his long-distance girlfriend wanted him gone.
Was it OP's fault, or was his girlfriend too overbearing? Here's what the world thinks.
Maybe OP's Making Her Believe He's Less Confident.
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Yep, That Was the First Time They Met in Person.
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Here's Some Golden Advice.
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This Is Probably a Good Idea.
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Not Every Couple Who Clicks Online Works in Person...
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Exactly.
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People Ask What OP Brings to the Table.
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You Can't Force Relationships.
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Showing Her This Post Isn't a Very Good Idea.
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You Don't Just Decide to Get Married After Long-Distance Dating.
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Take That Feeling and Kick It in the Butt.
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According to Some, OP Needs to Communicate His Feelings Better...
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Others Think the Primary Issue Is Something Else.
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Long-Distance Relationships Are Like a Game of Tamagotchi.
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OP Should Leave; It's the Adult Thing to Do, Says Funkyonion.
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Yep, This Is 100%.
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This Is Gold.
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Others Think This Is an Eastern-European Meetup Gone Wrong.
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The Curious Case of Internet Relationships.
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Then Someone Rightly Exploded.
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In Summary...
We're not sure what OP decided to do in the end because they never updated their post, but we have a feeling he most likely moved on.
There's no point in staying in a relationship where the only way you communicate effectively and efficiently is online. You essentially fall in love with each other's online versions.
A good and steady relationship is founded on great communication skills, but we're sure you know that already.
Well, here's to OP. Until next time.
