Boy Demands That His Girlfriend Needs To “Unlove” Her Past Boyfriends

Some relationship requests cross a line so fast that the person hearing them is left wondering if they misread the whole situation. In this case, a woman says her boyfriend, Mark, told her she needed to “unlove” her exes before she could truly love him.

The demand came with a bigger claim, too, that her past feelings somehow made her current relationship less real. That left her dealing with a partner who seemed to want emotional erasure, not honesty.

Now the story has people reacting strongly, and Mark’s logic is not landing well. Here’s the full story.

Don’t think that’s how love works.

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Sounds like a good start.

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How many people?

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Remaining friends

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This guy has problems

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How does one “unlove” someone?

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He is so out of line.

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TLDR version

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That demand did not sit well with anyone following along.

That “unlove” demand reminds us of the AITA fight over a boyfriend’s aggressive dog, Max.

Here’s what others had to say about this story

A few people were quick to call out the logic behind it.

Exactly

Others thought the whole thing sounded controlling from the start.

Without a doubt

And that was the general mood by the end of the thread.

That’s toxic as heck

Your thoughts!

What do you think of this request? What is something tough a significant other has asked of you?

For more relationship boundary drama, read about a girlfriend refusing her boyfriend’s dog adoption plea due to allergies.