Bride-to-Be Made Some Crazy Wedding Rules Which Inspired an Interesting and Passionate Discussion on TikTok

Some wedding plans are sweet, some are strict, and some turn into a full-blown conversation online. This bride-to-be landed squarely in the last category when she shared a list of 12 rules for her big day.

The TikTok post from user cruzjasmine824 lays out everything she does and does not want at her wedding, from kids and white dresses to garter traditions and guest behavior. A few of the rules feel playful, others feel very firm, and that mix is exactly why people could not stop talking about it.

By the time the comments started rolling in, the debate was already bigger than the wedding itself. Read on.

The List of Rules

As part of an ongoing TikTok trend, she made a list of 12 rules for her wedding.

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No Kids!

As much as you love them, kids running around and getting in the way can easily get on your nerves. This simple rule aims to do something other than the ordinary.

But the Rule Has Some Exceptions

Kids running around, causing a ruckus, and creating distractions can certainly kill the mood of an event as important as a wedding. So it is no wonder that the TikTok user listed this as a rule.

However, she made some exceptions for those who couldn't get a babysitter. The exceptions still had some conditions.

She Doesn't Want Anyone Wearing White

The rule clearly states: don't wear white, or else be prepared for a wine surprise. So avoid it at all costs.

Bridesmaids Are Free to Pick Their Outfit...But

Most of the time, bridesmaids wear matching outfits, but in Jasmine’s case, she wants them to feel free to wear whatever they want, according to some minimal guidelines, of course. Jasmine stated that this rule is very important to her.

Uninvited Guests Are Not Welcome

It's her wedding, and she decides the number of plus-ones you get. It may sound a bit controlling, but it's understandable.

Clearly No Garter!

Jasmine made it very clear that the garter will be a no-go! All eyes will be on her, and it's already hard; she doesn't want to make it worse.

Be Respectful to the Bridesmaids

She loved that a great coincidence shone over her wedding: all her bridesmaids are from the LGBTQ community. She wants people to appreciate that as well.

She Appointed the Best Superhero

Jasmine does not want anyone disturbing her, so she appointed the best possible person to manage everything: her mother! The superhero with full creative liberty will save the day.

There's an Open Bar, So Get Wasted

She wants everyone to have a great time at her wedding. Additionally, she made all the arrangements, so no drunk driving is allowed.

Vendors Will Be Guests on Their Break

Although these rules seem strict, they appear to provide the event with a certain type of freedom. For instance, treating vendors as guests who will, in a way, participate in the event should create a more lively atmosphere.

Don't Steal the Bride's Thunder

This humorous rule comes with a warning: no one is allowed to take away the attention from the couple of the day. She also mentioned that some of the bridesmaids are intimidating, so don't try to mess with them.

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The Comment Section Had a Lot to Say

A lot of people shared their thoughts on the wedding rules. While some supported her, others pointed out that this was a little too much.

The comment section was divided, and people made interesting remarks. Here are some of the comments.

Also, this sounds like the bride who bought bridesmaid dresses, then banned one friend from wearing it.

This is where the debate really took off.

It's Her Wedding Day; She Makes the Rules

Support and best wishes all the way. The vendor rule was actually a lovely gesture.

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Way to Go

People found nothing wrong with the rules, and most of them were reasonable.

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No Garter Rule Rules!

As she said, it is disturbing. And in front of family? No way!

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She Just Might Elope

This perspective suggested a great solution: it would save her all the hassle.

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Kids and Weddings Do Not Go Together

Do your kid a favor and don't take them to the next wedding. Most kids spend the whole time crying.

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Weapons of Bridesmaids

Some valuable additions to rule number two: water guns will make a great alternative.

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She Listed the Obvious

These rules were nothing to freak out about. Moreover, they will contribute to an enjoyable wedding day for everyone.

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Event Planners in Favor

A small brunch wedding sounds nice. It will be hassle-free, and you can save time and money.

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You Never Know Who's Gonna Cry

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Setting rules for the wedding is done to ensure a pleasant time for everyone attending. The rules listed by Jasmine included some expected and common courtesies that you don't say out loud, but she did.

Anyway, many people shared their thoughts on the wedding rules. What's your take on the matter? Share the post with your friends and discuss the rules you would make for your respective weddings.

That wedding guest list was never going to stay quiet.

For more wedding-rule fallout, see why banning her sister’s kids sparked family vs formal debate.