Woman Gets Accused Of Trying To Outshine Bride By Losing Weight Before The Wedding
This bride thought her sister was trying to take the attention away from her.
If you have any experience with weddings, you know that everyone in the family will be super stressed out. Even the smallest details, like the color of a cupcake holder being wrong, are enough to cause a breakdown for the bride.
In this case, the trigger that launched everything into absolute chaos and the piece that didn't fit the puzzle was actually caused by one of the guests. The guest in question is none other than the bride's sister.
Apparently, the bride's sister lost a significant amount of weight in the year leading up to the wedding, which was not a happy sight for the bride. The sister mentioned that she had always been the "fat sister" and that this was actually the first time she was smaller than her sister, who had gained a bit of weight before the wedding.
The bride was less than pleased about this transformation and accused her sister of trying to upstage her and steal the attention at her own wedding. Strangely enough, the family seemed to stand by the bride and defend her.
Scroll down to read the full story of this unusual wedding drama and see what others had to say about this case.
A woman shares her story of how she was accused of upstaging the bride on her wedding day all because she lost weight.
Your wedding day is the day when everyone's eyes and attention will be on you. For most people, this will be the only day where they receive this much attention.
But what happens when the bride feels like she won't get the attention she believes she deserves? What if she feels like the attention she deserves is being directed toward somebody else?
Omar LopezThe woman shared her story and asked for others' opinions.
Late-Water-9669She didn't want to talk about her weight loss journey too much.
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She arrived early and shocked everyone.
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Bride is no longer the "skinnier sister."
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Most of the family decided to take the bride's side.
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Who's in the wrong here?
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This actually happens a lot more often than most people think. We aren't sure about most events, but we know brides can feel upstaged for a variety of strange reasons.
We've seen stories about women being accused of upstaging a wedding for various reasons, such as overdressing for a cocktail-themed wedding or a bride who was furious because the groom's cousin wanted to wear a traditional Indian outfit to the wedding.
To feel upstaged, one must believe that there is this big stage and that they are entitled to all of it. It's best to avoid believing these things if you want to prevent issues like these.
Blaming people for making significant changes in their lives or attacking them simply because they wanted to wear something special is not something you want to concern yourself with on your big day.
This is what people had to say about this whole drama.
True.
nonasuch
You have to stay away from toxicity.
glossyjikookbun
How dare she??
PurplePenguinPoops
Moving on can be the healthiest option.
Unit-Healthy
Health is the priority.
PoisonedCherry
This person might be onto something.
Leggoeggolas
Jealousy is scary.
AmethysstFire
This is not what family is about.
Mysterious_Damage708
Long-term growth vs. one day.
SchnootFarms
Some people don't want to see you grow.
Nikkiistar
MB1428
You have to take care of yourself first.
MaybeAWalrus
Makes sense why she lives so far away.
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Now that you've read the entire story and checked out what others had to say about this whole drama, you can form your opinion. Do you feel that the sister should have avoided losing weight because of the wedding, or do you think the bride is overstepping her boundaries?
Either way, this is definitely a pretty crazy story that really shows how things can get before a big wedding. The stress can truly bring out the worst in people, and we hope all this had a happy ending.