Woman Does Research On Husband’s Genealogy And Regrets It After She Discovers That They Are Distant Cousins

It is a small world, maybe even too small.

One genealogy search was all it took to turn a normal marriage into a very awkward family discovery. A woman on Reddit said she started digging into her husband’s family history and found out they share a distant ancestor, which means their family trees cross in a way neither of them expected.

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The couple has been married for over a year, and the connection goes back so far that it does not change their relationship today. Still, finding out that your spouse is also a distant cousin is the kind of thing that can make anyone stop and stare at the family records a little longer.

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It is a strange reminder that family lines can circle back in surprising ways, and this one definitely did.

OP shared her discovery on Reddit:

OP shared her discovery on Reddit:Reddit
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She and her husband have been married for over a year

She and her husband have been married for over a yearReddit
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Her husband found out that he has Seminole Indian roots

Her husband found out that he has Seminole Indian rootsReddit

So OP did some genealogy research and found out that their family trees met at some point in the distant past.

So OP did some genealogy research and found out that their family trees met at some point in the distant past.Reddit

And OP even found the woman who connects them.

And OP even found the woman who connects them.Reddit

That family tree twist is doing a lot of work here.

Funny how that works.

Funny how that works.Reddit

There's no going back now...

There's no going back now...Reddit

OP is not disturbed, just shocked

OP is not disturbed, just shockedReddit

Yeah, you can’t avoid it...

Yeah, you can’t avoid it...Reddit

In the first large-scale test of the "six degrees" theory, called the Small World project, researchers from Columbia University in New York had participants send e-mails to friends and acquaintances to reach one of the listed targets. Results showed the targets were reachable in five to seven steps.

However, the results were not conclusive because many chains were broken due to a lack of interest from some participants.

Wedding tension fans will recognize the OP who wanted to invite a second cousin against her parents’ wishes.

That is a pretty small world after all.

Just look at Iceland

Just look at IcelandReddit

There is a dating app that enables people to avoid dating cousins. But that's just for fun.

There is a dating app that enables people to avoid dating cousins. But that's just for fun.Reddit

This is interesting:

This is interesting:Reddit

It is necessary in a country that has only 300K people

It is necessary in a country that has only 300K peopleReddit

Once at war, now in love...

Once at war, now in love...Reddit

War and peace...

War and peace...Reddit

Not that uncommon...

Not that uncommon...Reddit

Third cousins are safe

Third cousins are safeReddit

My wife is my cousin. Great story for parties to freak people out.

My wife is my cousin. Great story for parties to freak people out.Reddit

Everyone is...

Everyone is...Reddit

Even people born on different sides of the world can be related.

Even people born on different sides of the world can be related.Reddit

The bottom line:

The bottom line:Reddit

It is a small world indeed. Imagine finding out that your parent is actually your very distant cousin.

What would you do? Would you end the relationship?

And what if it is a marriage with kids? These are some tough choices to make.

Luckily, in cases like OP’s, they are not needed. She and her husband had a common ancestor a hundred years ago.

They're safe.

That family mystery ends with a very harmless surprise.

Before you ask to skip a reunion, read about OP debating whether to cancel over a feud with their cousin.

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