Woman Does Research On Husband’s Genealogy And Regrets It After She Discovers That They Are Distant Cousins
It is a small world, maybe even too small.
One genealogy search was all it took to turn a normal marriage into a very awkward family discovery. A woman on Reddit said she started digging into her husband’s family history and found out they share a distant ancestor, which means their family trees cross in a way neither of them expected.
The couple has been married for over a year, and the connection goes back so far that it does not change their relationship today. Still, finding out that your spouse is also a distant cousin is the kind of thing that can make anyone stop and stare at the family records a little longer.
It is a strange reminder that family lines can circle back in surprising ways, and this one definitely did.
OP shared her discovery on Reddit:
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RedditHer husband found out that he has Seminole Indian roots
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So OP did some genealogy research and found out that their family trees met at some point in the distant past.
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And OP even found the woman who connects them.
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That family tree twist is doing a lot of work here.
Funny how that works.
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There's no going back now...
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OP is not disturbed, just shocked
Yeah, you can’t avoid it...
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In the first large-scale test of the "six degrees" theory, called the Small World project, researchers from Columbia University in New York had participants send e-mails to friends and acquaintances to reach one of the listed targets. Results showed the targets were reachable in five to seven steps.
However, the results were not conclusive because many chains were broken due to a lack of interest from some participants.
Wedding tension fans will recognize the OP who wanted to invite a second cousin against her parents’ wishes.
That is a pretty small world after all.
Just look at Iceland
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There is a dating app that enables people to avoid dating cousins. But that's just for fun.
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This is interesting:
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It is necessary in a country that has only 300K people
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Once at war, now in love...
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War and peace...
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Not that uncommon...
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Third cousins are safe
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My wife is my cousin. Great story for parties to freak people out.
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Everyone is...
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Even people born on different sides of the world can be related.
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The bottom line:
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It is a small world indeed. Imagine finding out that your parent is actually your very distant cousin.
What would you do? Would you end the relationship?
And what if it is a marriage with kids? These are some tough choices to make.
Luckily, in cases like OP’s, they are not needed. She and her husband had a common ancestor a hundred years ago.
They're safe.
That family mystery ends with a very harmless surprise.
Before you ask to skip a reunion, read about OP debating whether to cancel over a feud with their cousin.