Insensitive Husband Dives Into Meal, Ruining His Wife's Opportunity to Get Pictures for Her Professional Food Blog
Clicking pictures of food before eating it is often mocked, but what if someone is earning an income from their food blogging?
No marriage is ever completely blissful. Like all relationships, there are good times and bad times.
There's a great deal of work that goes into maintaining a "happily ever after," whether you've been married for a long time or just got hitched. A couple may agree on many things, but finding common ground is not always possible.
Marriage isn't always a cakewalk. Accepting each other with certain qualities and flaws is the go-to mantra.
The way of expressing feelings matters a lot in nurturing this beautiful union, but taking your partner for granted is even worse. Valuing the things partners do for each other truly counts.
Even when one partner decides to share their issues, a proper approach helps. However, it can go awry if one expresses it in an unexpected way.
Something similar happened in the marriage of this Reddit user, RoyalBeggers33, who literally started a dispute after getting annoyed by his wife's everyday ritual.
His wife did not take his actions well, which led to a significant fight. Read the whole story to find out what exactly happened to the OP when things escalated.
Capturing the Deliciousness
Charles DeluvioAn Everyday Ritual
As his wife is a food blogger, she has the habit of taking pictures until she gets that one perfect shot. It has to go on her Instagram account, whether it is lunch, dinner, or any other meal.
RoyalBeggers33The Longest Wait
The husband was really annoyed and fed up with his wife's habit. The wait felt like forever for him, as she kept rearranging the setup for the best capture.
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Until That Day
One day, the husband had had enough and decided to take action. By the time his wife finished following her routine, he wasn't hungry anymore.
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Just Not Yet
The wife had set the table for her next cooking project, and the whole setup looked as if she was done taking pictures. But to the husband's surprise, she was not finished yet.
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Not Waiting Any Longer
As soon as she went upstairs to fetch her camera, the husband wasted no time. He grabbed a bite from all the dishes, which ruined the presentation as well.
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Food Over Wife
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Coming Downstairs to the Damage
She was literally in tears upon seeing the condition of her cooking project. Her hours of work went down the drain because of her husband.
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Smashing the Success
His wife did not take it well at all. She exploded in anger, accusing him of intentionally destroying her hard work.
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Simply, It Was Hard to Wait
In response to his wife's accusation, the husband clarified that he couldn't wait until she got her shot. He was starving.
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The Unpleasant Clash
After a massive war of words, both went their separate ways. The crying wife went upstairs while the unbothered husband finished the food on his plate and went off to cool down.
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How Ungracious of Him
After the huge fallout, she threatened that he would never taste her cooking again. She would rather throw it away than serve it to someone so ungrateful.
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Switch Off the Night
He went and slept in the guest room after his wife became nasty. Ultimately, the husband turned off his phone because she vented her anger by continuously messaging him.
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The Finale
The next day, there was complete silence from the wife's side.
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Stock Yourself with Lunchables
Clearly, whatever the wife did was important to her. The husband definitely needs to keep juice boxes and snacks around in case he feels hungry and decides to act childish.
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Owe an Apology
The husband should be apologetic, as he must realize that his wife didn't get to take her pictures. Some waiting is not that big of a deal, and he probably should cook his own food if there's an issue.
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Worth the Wait
This Reddit user feels that his wife does all the work and gets to enjoy the meals in return. Waiting ten minutes is the least he or the OP can do.
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Follow the Options
Honestly, if his wife's habit annoyed him, he should consider cooking for himself. He can also have a sensible conversation with his wife about it.
not_cinderella
Fill Your Tummy on Your Own
No wife is obligated to work for her husband. Preparing a meal is not a small task, so next time you want to snack on something and lack patience, try cooking for yourself.
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The Support She Deserves
Taking away the effort, hard work, joy, and passion in this manner is unacceptable. The husband must support her hobby and the things she loves to do.
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Ripping Off the Dedication
The husband is definitely impatient, as he didn't wait and ruined her dishes. If he was that hungry, he should have grabbed something to eat instead.
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How About Apologizing and Helping?
Was it really impossible for the OP to wait? How could he possibly ruin her work?
He must be sorry for what he did and help his wife make another dish. Next time, just have water.
QueenoftheGrackles
Best If You Grow Up
Instead of acting like a child, the OP should have gone out to eat. He messed it up because he couldn't wait for just ten more minutes.
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Gratitude Is a Sign of Nobility
Having a loving wife who prepares meals is something to be grateful for. It's a significant gesture from his loving wife.
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It becomes natural to take our partners for granted at times and ignore the things they do for us. The usual and routine tasks are often dismissed as mere responsibilities.
Communication is one way to settle disputes during altercations, so think twice before expressing annoyance in a certain way. Share this post with other married couples so they know exactly what to avoid for a happy marriage.
