A Thread About The Best Presents Ever Received Goes Viral - Here Are The Top 50 Responses
Get your tissues ready, some are real tear-jerkers
Although Christmas has come and gone, and everyone has given and opened their presents by now, it’s likely there’s something you were gifted that really stuck with you. Whether it stuck with you for good reasons or not may be another story.
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But it’s the thought that counts - right? At least that’s how the proverb goes.
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Meaning that when giving someone a present or performing a favor for someone, the kindness behind the act is the most important part. The amount spent or quantity of things received shouldn’t play into the positives of getting, but the quality of how you feel.
It can be easy to lose sight of getting and giving meaningful gifts while living in the technology-driven capitalist world we’re in. So it was a refreshing change of pace when two similar r/AskReddit threads “What’s the best present you ever received?" and “What's the best Christmas present you've received?” ended up highlighting the deeply meaningful impact of quality time and seemingly simple gestures went viral.
Redditors shared their personal accounts, ranging from wholesome and heartwrenching, to silly and simple. We collected 50 of the highest voted, most interesting, and even some unexpected responses for your enjoyment.
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1. Embroidered pants with secret love notes
When I turned 16, my first boyfriend stitched a pair of pants for me. He used colored thread to stitch a candle, a heart, a sun, the year, and more. Pretty cool embroidery. When you turned the jeans inside out, he had written love notes all over the inner fabric. Dr. Helen Fisher, a biological anthropologist, notes that "personalized gifts can strengthen emotional bonds and create lasting memories," which perfectly captures how this thoughtful gesture made me melt.
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2. Getting to give their daughter a holiday and show
We are pretty poor and I’m disabled, but my daughter is obsessed with Hamilton the musical. She’s an amazing kid who really helps me a lot and never complains. I saved from the moment I heard the show was coming to London.So last Christmas, we bought tickets to see Hamilton in London for our daughter. I honestly thought she was going to pass out; she was so happy. We saved like crazy for the hotel and flights, as we are on the opposite side of the country. We made a mini holiday out of the trip. She had never had a holiday either.It was one of the best experiences ever. I love the show, but I couldn’t stop watching my daughter’s face. The best seats in the house cost a fortune but were definitely worth it. As Dr. Michele Gelfand, a cultural psychologist, states, “Experiences, especially shared ones, create lasting memories that enrich our lives.” It was my best Christmas present watching her face light up with joy.
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3. A kitten
"While giving pets as gifts can be controversial, the emotional bond formed can be incredibly rewarding," says Dr. Ramani Durvasula, a clinical psychologist and author. "Pets can bring immense joy and companionship, especially for children." A few days before Christmas, when I was nine, my mum gave me a little kitten. She was the last one left and was small, skinny with runny eyes and runny nose. I adored her, and for 12 years she was the light of my life.
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The Emotional Impact of Gift-Giving
Dr. George Loewenstein from Carnegie Mellon University highlights the profound psychological effects of gift-giving and receiving. Research indicates that gifts often serve as symbols of social connection and emotional support, activating feelings of gratitude and joy. When individuals share stories about their most cherished gifts, they often recount not just the physical item but the connections and memories associated with it.
This aligns with the concept of 'social capital,' which refers to the value that relationships provide in terms of emotional support and community. Studies show that gifting can strengthen social ties, fostering a sense of belonging and enhancing overall well-being.
The Emotional Impact of Gift-Giving
Dr. Elizabeth Dunn, a psychologist at the University of British Columbia, has conducted extensive research on the psychology of giving and receiving gifts. Her studies reveal that receiving gifts can evoke strong emotional responses, often linked to feelings of love and appreciation. The act of gift-giving not only strengthens social bonds but also triggers the release of oxytocin, a hormone associated with emotional bonding. This suggests that the most cherished gifts often come from deep personal connections rather than their material value.
4. A necklace
The Christmas before my father passed away he gave me a necklace, which was very unusual. He normally just gave me cash. The necklace was three hearts intertwined, and engraved on the back was, “My little girl yesterday, my friend today, my daughter forever.”He knew how sick he was but he never told anyone, and he died the following August. The pattern of that necklace is my first and only tattoo (I got it done a week after he died.). I plan on giving the necklace to my own daughter someday.
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5. A change in timing for celebrating Christmas
"Celebrating holidays at a time that works for everyone can enhance family connections," says Dr. Terri Orbuch, a relationship researcher and author. "When families prioritize time together over rigid traditions, they create lasting memories and strengthen their bonds." This sentiment resonates with many who, like my family, have opted to celebrate Christmas in January. By waiting for clearance sales and ensuring we can all be present, we stretch out the joy of the season and truly enjoy each other's company. It's been the best possible gift we could have given each other."
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6. A GameCube with Mario Sunshine
I was seven years old in ICU with pneumonia. It was horrible timing because Christmas was that week.The nurses brought in a massive television with a Nintendo GameCube hooked up to it. The only game I played was Mario sunshine the entire time I was in the hospital.I love that game so much! It was so colorful and just super exciting to play since I didn’t even know the game existed. It is still my favorite Mario game ever made but I’m biased.Well I made it out of the hospital just a few days before Christmas and on Christmas Day we went to my aunties house. We started opening gifts and they got me my very own GameCube but it didn’t appear I had any games for it. They tricked me and hid the other gift they bought. It was Mario Sunshine.I’ve never ever had tears of joy but when I opened these gifts I couldn’t help but cry. I was so surprised and so happy! I’ve still never experienced the same emotions I had in that day.
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The thread's emotional resonance suggests that people are wired for connection, as outlined in attachment theory by Dr. John Bowlby. When someone receives a gift, especially from a loved one, it can evoke feelings of security and acceptance. This is particularly relevant during challenging times, where the act of gifting can serve as a reminder that they are valued and remembered.
Moreover, the act of recalling heartfelt gifts can engage the brain's reward system, releasing dopamine, which enhances feelings of happiness and nostalgia. This dynamic illustrates the psychological benefits of remembering positive experiences and relationships.
Psychologists highlight that the stories behind gifts often reveal deeper psychological truths. For instance, a gift that symbolizes a shared memory can evoke nostalgia, which is linked to feelings of happiness and comfort. Research indicates that reminiscing about positive experiences can enhance our well-being, suggesting that the best gifts may be those that remind us of joyful times spent with loved ones. This underscores the idea that the emotional context of gifts often outweighs their physical presence.
7. A stethoscope
When I was really young, I thought I might want to be a scientist. My grandmother didn't really understand what scientists do and gave me a stethoscope. Some clinical scientists use stethoscopes, but for the most part, it wasn't really useful. I pretended to like it, and the stethoscope sat in my closet for years.I'm graduating from med school now and have used the same stethoscope across all these years. It's my good luck charm.Dr. Daniel Goleman, emotional intelligence expert states, "Emotional connections to objects can enhance their significance in our lives, making them cherished items." This sentiment resonates with many, as personal artifacts often hold deep sentimental value.
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8. A dragon pillow pet
One year my nieces got me a Pillow Pet. As a dude in my mid 30's, I'm not exactly the Pillow Pet demographic...Two years earlier, I had discovered Pillow Pets, and in a total win at Uncle-ing, I was on the craze way before it got big. They loved them, everyone at their school loved them, big win.So, a few years later, when they found a Dragon Pillow Pet, they insisted they get it for me. Their mother, my sister, was skeptical that I would want such a thing. I loved it, not because I needed or wanted it, but because they wanted me to have it because they loved their own so much. As Dr. John Gray, relationship author, states, "The best gifts are those that come from the heart and reflect the love we share with others" (marsvenus.com).I know I've received bigger gifts and others that were given with the same kind of love, but this one sticks out.
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9. Date night to the ballet
When I was a little girl (5 or 6) I was obsessed with ballerinas. My dad got me tickets to a professional performance of the Nutcracker. It was just him and me. I still remember feeling so grown up when we had dinner beforehand in a grown-up restaurant. The ballet was beautiful. It was just a wonderful day. As Dr. Susan David, an emotional agility expert, states, "Emotional experiences, like those we share with loved ones, shape our memories and contribute to our sense of identity" (susandavid.com).
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Gifts as Reflections of Personal Identity
Research published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology discusses how gifts often reflect the giver's understanding of the recipient's identity and values. This means that thoughtful gifts can symbolize deeper interpersonal connections, transcending mere materialism. They can convey messages of empathy and understanding, strengthening relational bonds.
In terms of psychological well-being, studies show that the emotional impact of receiving a gift can lead to increased self-esteem and feelings of being cared for. This emotional uplift can be particularly significant in times of personal crisis or emotional distress, reinforcing the idea that social support plays a critical role in mental health.
Cultural Variations in Gift Preferences
Interestingly, cultural factors also play a significant role in how gifts are perceived and valued. According to research published in the Journal of Cross-Cultural Psychology, different cultures have varying expectations regarding gift-giving etiquette. For instance, in collectivist cultures, gifts are often seen as a means to strengthen community ties, while in individualistic cultures, the focus may be on personal expression. Understanding these cultural nuances can enhance our appreciation for the gifts we receive and the relationships they signify.
10. A dog toy inside jello
I had major surgery my second year in college. I was hooked up with the nicest suite in the hospital due to my best friend's dad being a major figure there when all I really wanted was him to make sure I had a private room if one was available. My best friend was at school out of state and sent flowers, making sure that the florist didn't use anything pink (because I hated pink). Someone sent me a basket of my favorite snacks. My brother's boss, someone I had never met, stopped by with another coworker of his (another stranger) and gave me a plant. All of these were so thoughtful, but the absolute best gift came from the "funny guy" in our group of friends. He knew that I would not be able to eat real food, so he made me jello. A two gallon Tupperware tub of jello with a (sanitized by boiling and new) squeaking dog toy in the middle because it "looked too boring" otherwise and he was still trying to make up for accidentally scaring my dog the year before. The level of thought he put into that blew me away. The dog never got the toy, I kept it and still have it more than 15 years later.
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11. A voice control monster truck
I was probably 8 or 9 years old and I got this toy truck that would respond to voice commands. I played with that thing all the time because it was fun. It lit up, made noise and drove forward. Over time, it just stopped working, but my grandma wouldn't throw away any toys us kids had. After my grandma passed away in 2017, I was trying to keep busy and decided to clean up the toy box. I opened up the battery compartment and there was a note in my grandpa's handwriting saying "Mary-Lou, don't replace batteries, this thing is annoying. -Bill" I replaced the batteries and it still works. Knowing that my grandpa took the batteries out and there was nothing wrong with it made me smile. I miss my grandparents so much. As Dr. Helen Fisher, a biological anthropologist, states, "The bonds we form with our family members are some of the most profound connections we experience in life." You can learn more about her insights on relationships at helenfisher.com.
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12. A prosthetic leg
My prosthetic leg.I had a below the knee amputation the Saturday before Thanksgiving this year. Infection in my blood got into the bone and almost took my life. I've been on medical leave from work since. Today I saw the surgeon for a post-surgery visit. I was told I’m ahead of schedule healing and recovery-wise.While I won’t get my prosthetic for a while yet, being told I can start getting fitted for one is a pretty great early gift. As Dr. Ramani Durvasula, a clinical psychologist, states, "The journey of recovery can often be as significant as the physical healing itself," emphasizing the importance of mental resilience during such challenging times. For more insights, visit her website at Dr. Ramani Durvasula.
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The Role of Shared Experiences
Dr. Barbara Fredrickson's research on positive emotions emphasizes the importance of shared experiences in building lasting relationships. The act of giving or receiving gifts often creates shared memories that enhance relational satisfaction. This aligns with her 'broaden-and-build' theory, which posits that positive emotions broaden our thought-action repertoires, enabling us to build social resources.
When individuals recount stories of meaningful presents, they often highlight shared experiences that foster connection, illustrating the therapeutic value of reminiscing. Engaging in these narratives can promote resilience and emotional healing in individuals facing struggles.
From a developmental perspective, the significance of gifts evolves over time. Children often view gifts as tangible items, while adults may appreciate the thoughtfulness and intention behind them. Research by developmental psychologists indicates that as individuals mature, they tend to value experiences and emotional connections more than material possessions. This shift emphasizes the importance of meaningful gift-giving that fosters connections and reflects personal values.
13. Christmas with Mom
When I was a teenager, my mom and I lived in SoCal while the rest of our family lived in Oregon. My mom had me flown up to spend Christmas Eve with her sister and Christmas Day with my dad. My mom wanted to come badly but she has a huge fear of flying.I get to my aunts house on Christmas Eve and we’re doing our typical chit chat, hang out, snack and drink coffee while dinner is getting prepared. After checking on dinner, I come back from the kitchen to see my mom sitting on my aunt’s couch. I was stunned. Stopped dead in my tracks. Jaw on the floor. I was so happy. Christmas is her favorite holiday and we’d never spent one apart. She faced her fear of flying to spend Christmas Eve with us.I’ll never forget that Christmas. She passed away a couple years later on December 22nd. It’s a wonderful memory to have of the holidays when this time of year can be kind of depressing.
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14. A photobook
"Creating meaningful memories through shared experiences can be one of the most valuable gifts we can give," says Dr. Helen Fisher, a biological anthropologist and relationship expert at helenfisher.com. "The emotional connection built during projects like home renovations can strengthen relationships." In the spirit of this sentiment, one couple shared how they documented their journey of building a lake house together. "The Christmas after we got it done, she used all the progress pictures to make a book through an online service," they recounted. This thoughtful present was cherished not only for its creativity but also for the personal commentary and inside jokes that filled the pages, turning it into a treasure trove of happy memories.
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15. A slick surprise
My brother was starting a new fitness routine and wanted to make a competition out of who could improve their body dimensions. I wasn’t planning on working out but wanted to encourage him, so I said “screw it” and let him measure my upper body. It turns out it was for a custom-made Captain America leather motorcycle jacket. As motivational speaker Brian Tracy says, "Setting goals is the first step in turning the invisible into the visible." I screamed like a little girl on Christmas morning.Edit: I should mention the helmet too. They took my ski helmet, painted it up nice (silver wings on the side), and seamlessly affixed the “A.” It was beautifully done and part of the surprise.
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Practical Tips for Meaningful Gift-Giving
To enhance the impact of our gift-giving, experts recommend focusing on personalization. A recent study published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology found that personalized gifts—those tailored to the recipient's interests—are more likely to be appreciated and remembered. This can include gifts that reflect shared experiences or inside jokes, which can strengthen bonds and create lasting memories. Additionally, incorporating an element of surprise can further enhance the emotional response, as the unexpected nature of the gift can amplify feelings of joy.
16. A sick parent back to normal
Christmas 2015.In the September of that year my mum was taken to hospital with severe stomach pains. It was pancreatitis bought on by a rogue gall stone getting stuck in the pancreatic duct. She spent all night in agony & didn’t call an ambulance until 7am. She was ICU for a day or so, then HDU for around 3 weeks & then a normal ward for around a week. When she got back home I’d go round to help her out but she was really struggling to eat & couldn’t keep anything down. She was having tests done but nobody seemed to have a solution.All the time when mum was ill what I wanted more than anything was just to see her back to normal. One thing was seeing her driving around in her little red car looking all lovely (she always takes pride in looking nice & I know how much it was getting to her in hospital) & most of all her eating a full meal.So Christmas Day I’m over at my dads and look out the front window. Up pulls mums little red car & she gets out with her new coat on & her lipstick & make up & all. I was beyond happy! Then we sit down for dinner... she clears her plate! Then we have Christmas pudding & to top it off... she asks for seconds!That was the best present I could ever have received!
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17. An ornament
When I was a kid, my Mom went into the hospital in November, dying there on Christmas Eve. She hadn't Christmas shopped, obviously, except for one small package I'd found weeks earlier in her dresser. It was wrapped and had my name on it. Christmas morning, I soberly opened the package. It was a simple ornament, a happy dog with a frisbee in its mouth. The frisbee read "Merry Christmas." It didn't look anything like my own frisbee-crazed dog, but it didn't matter. Cue the waterworks.This isn't my best Christmas gift by any objective measure, but decades on, it's the one that still means the most.Edit: here's one just like it.
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18. A shadow box full of memories
My mom passed from cancer this year; she had been stage 4 for 11 years and passed at 55 years old, so pretty young.Last year Christmas was really emotional as things were taking a turn for the worse.My mom made me a large shadow box with ticket stubs she had saved from every concert we went to since I was a kid (both big fans of music). Mr. Dressup, Pearl Jam, White Stripes, etc. Not only had she saved these over the years, she went online and got postcards, buttons, and patches from the specific tour dates we attended to go with the stubs.The moment I unwrapped it and realized what it was, I burst into tears and cried for a good while. It was a very heavy moment and one of the best gifts I've ever been given. As Dr. Alexandra Solomon, a relationship therapist, states, "The gifts that hold emotional significance often create lasting memories and connections." You can find more about her insights on her website dralexandrasolomon.com.
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19. A Spice Girls poster
When I was younger I was obsessed with the Spice Girls and my grandma gave me a poster of them one year for Christmas. My parents are divorced and we moved a lot with my mom but no matter how many bedrooms I had, I always had my Spice Girls poster hanging up on my door. One of the last times we moved, my mom was packing up my room and was trying to get my poster down and she ripped it. Now not terrible, but then she threw it away without my knowing. I found out and cried and cried for days. Then with it being many years later, I couldn't ever find the same one for sale on eBay, Amazon, nothing. I told my MIL the story like one time and 2 years ago she found it and gifted it to me for Christmas. It's the first time I've ever cried over a present like that. I still need to frame it, but it's one of my prized things now.
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20. A months worth of meals
My aunt once put aside an extra portion of food every time she made supper for her family (for a month) and then delivered it to me. I was a starving college student and that was a very appreciated gift! As Dr. Helen Fisher, a biological anthropologist, states, "Generosity is a fundamental aspect of human relationships that fosters connection and well-being." Such acts of kindness can significantly impact our lives, especially during challenging times. You can learn more about the importance of generosity on her website: Dr. Helen Fisher.
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21. A handwritten cookbook
A cookbook that my mom made. She handwrote out each recipe of my favorite dishes growing up. The day that I moved out of the house, she gifted this to me. As Dr. Alexandra Solomon, a relationship therapist, notes, "Gifts that carry personal meaning can strengthen bonds and create lasting memories." Such thoughtful presents often reflect the love and care in our relationships, making them truly special. For more insights, visit Dr. Alexandra Solomon's website.
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22. A dog named Molly
Not witty or anything but my parents got me a dog when I was 9. I'm 22 now and she's 13. I had some tough times as a teenager and Molly really got me through. According to Dr. Michael Thompson, a child psychologist, "Pets can provide emotional support and companionship, which is especially crucial during challenging developmental stages." For more insights on the benefits of pets in children's lives, visit Dr. Michael Thompson's website.
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23. A jar of Nutella
A jar of Nutella.I had quit a job I was going nowhere in, applying and interviewing like crazy while supporting my then-gf while she was getting through college. I had burned through most of my savings...I was throwing parties every weekend so I could take the empty beer bottles that friends left at home to the grocery store (there’s refundable fees where I live) and buy food with the little amount I would get...I would barely eat breakfast, then feign interest in dinner so my gf could eat and succeed at school.One night, we went to the restaurant with my parents and one of their friends, who thought I had lost some weight...My dad slipped me some money before leaving, and when I called later that week, to borrow some more money for rent, he asked me if I was ok. I told him that things were tight, but that we managed. He told me « I don’t want you to sell your guitar... » I didn’t answer.Parents called back a few days later, saying that they would stop by, since they would be in town. I was in for a surprise.When I got the door, my mom was standing there with a box filled with groceries... « go help your dad » she said, « there’s more... »They had brought us three big boxes full of food, including homemade meals...While we were unpacking and putting stuff away, my mom took out a jar of Nutella from one of the boxes.« Sometimes, all you need is a little bit more than the bare minimum »she said.My eyes were wet...dad made me promise to never put my health in danger by being proud...
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24. Two full days of sledding
We didn't have a lot of money growing up, and one year my mom bought my brother and I those round sleds from the dollar store. We went to my grandma's house with them, (she had a lot of land,) and she took us sledding on the hills behind her house for literally the ENTIRE day. So much sledding that one of the sleds got a hole in it. She finally convinced us to go inside, as I'm sure she was freezing, and made us hot chocolate. My brother and I bet her that she wouldn't wake up at 4 am the next morning and take us sledding while the sun rose.....she did. I love her so much. According to Dr. Gary Chapman, a renowned marriage counselor, "The best gifts often come from the heart and create lasting memories." You can explore more about meaningful connections and relationships at 5lovelanguages.com.
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25. A children's book
I don't even know if it's the "best" present but just one of those I'll never forget.My dad and I have an extremely distant relationship. He was never an affectionate or emotional person. All birthdays, celebrations, events, etc went to my mom to organize. It was just simply not a task he was involved in. He didn't give gifts or engage in the theatrics of any of it and I can't blame him - he is an immigrant, lived a very hard life, and culturally speaking, this is just how it was for him. One Christmas, I was probably like 10 or 11, I noticed among all the other presents I had from my mom and other family, there was an actual present from my dad addressed to me. I opened it and it was like this child's picture book, not a baby book, but definitely aimed for about age 7-8 and way too young for me. It was just shocking to me that he would first of all, care about getting me a present at all and secondly, choose this child's book out of all the things he could gotten. I realized, at 10 years old, that my dad genuinely had no idea what to get me, but wanted to get me SOMETHING. He only knew that I loved to read and read books all day long, so he got me a book, even though he had no idea what level reading I was on.Maybe that is not a very good story or makes him seem bad, but it will always stick with me. He is such a non-sentimental and stoic person, I can't imagine him going to a bookstore, choosing this very cutesy, colorful book with me in mind, and actually giving it to me as a gift, but he did. He wanted to give me something, in his awkward way, and tried his best.
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26. A Christmas card
When I was 20, my dad was diagnosed with colon cancer right after my birthday in September, but it was very aggressive and he was eventually put on hospice in early December. He passed away the night before Christmas Eve, but he managed to write a Christmas card with help from my mom. Dr. Michael Thompson, a child psychologist, emphasizes the lasting impact of such heartfelt gestures, stating, "The emotional weight of a parent's love can transcend even the most difficult circumstances." Dr. Michael Thompson also notes that these memories can serve as powerful sources of comfort. The card had some cash in it (I don't remember how much), but he essentially wrote a long letter to me explaining how proud of me he was and how he'll always be looking over me. I pull that card out every Christmas for the past 7 years and anytime I need a little pick me up. Hands down, best Christmas gift ever.
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27. A real estate course
"The most meaningful gifts often come from a place of love and sacrifice," says Dr. Tara Brach, a renowned psychologist and meditation teacher. "These gifts can change lives, as they embody support and hope." A mother’s investment in her child's future, like purchasing a real estate course, can create a profound impact, leading to a cycle of giving back. As Dr. Brach emphasizes, "When we receive such gifts, it often inspires us to help others in return." This heartfelt gesture not only transformed the recipient's life but also allowed them to support their mother in crucial ways, demonstrating the powerful bond of family and gratitude.
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28. A copy of Ocarina of Time
I was in high school when "Ocarina of Time" was released in November, and I desperately wanted it for Christmas. On Christmas morning, I opened my gifts, and it wasn't there. Then my dad pointed out a small package he had hidden behind the tree under the tree skirt. When I opened it, there it was—"Ocarina of Time." My dad had gone to 6-7 different stores while traveling on business to find that game. According to Dr. Gary Chapman, a relationship expert, "The effort we put into gift-giving can strengthen our bonds with loved ones." I played it non-stop over break, and it makes me appreciate my dad even more every time I think about it.
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29. A trumpet
When I was in the eighth grade my band teacher called my mom and told her that I was talented, and that if I wanted to continue to play, my current instrument would hold me back. At the time, I played my dad's trumpet, and it was 30 years old. That Christmas/birthday/the next Christmas my gift was my trumpet. I had to agree to play all the way through high school, and it was difficult for my parents to afford it- I believe it cost about $700-800. It cost enough that we timed the purchase for the same time we were going to a neighboring state that had no sales tax just to save the hundred bucks. I still remember the rain in the parking lot as I walked to the car, clutching the blue case to my chest. It was the most expensive thing I owned, or would own for a long time.Band got me up in the morning, it made it so I went to school even when other kids sucked. It gave me something to work for, it gave me camaraderie and made me depend on others as others depended on me. It gave me pride, and showed me the correlation between hard work and reward. It kept me in college when I may have otherwise chickened out, given up and gone home. There is no rush like running onto a field with 30k people screaming in the stands, and music was the only thing that would ever give me that feeling.I'm 33 now, and I don't play that much anymore- but that trumpet, a music stand and a book of exercises still sits next to my desk. I hope to allow my son to play it someday. The trumpet, band, music in general changed my life, it made me a better person and it made me who I am today.I've posted this before, so if it looks familiar that's why. Also, since I posted this the first time I've joined my local community band and I'm playing again. It makes my heart happy.
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30. A Christmas card with a note of encouragement and $5 inside
$5 when I was first settled in the US in 1982 working part time at the YMCA as a janitor for $3.35/hr. He was just a non-descriptive person who worked out regularly at the Y. The $5 was in a Christmas card with one line “I believe in you.” I am now having a comfortable middle-class life with multiple houses all paid for and earning a six-figure income. Will never forget that $5 and “I believe in you” Christmas card. Thank you, stranger, for changing my life. As Dr. Susan David, an expert in emotional agility, states, "Small acts of kindness can have a profound impact on our lives and can inspire us to achieve our dreams" (susandavid.com).
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31. A stocking full
My family was abusive, and poor. Growing up I always kind of hated Christmas time, because it just sort of highlighted how difficult my own life was.Well one year after I moved away to college, I was scheduled to work Christmas day, since I was a Resident Advisor. A student who had been evicted from housing for selling hard drugs came after me and attacked me. The school told me I should leave campus until the police caught the kid. I didn't have anywhere to go, so I called my best friend. Her and her dad drove all the way to my school on Christmas eve to get me.When I woke up, I discovered that my friend's mom had somehow conjured up a full stocking and a couple small gifts. It was the most amazing gift, because I had never had a good Christmas, and then her mom just went so above and beyond to make me feel loved. As Dr. Susan David, an emotional agility expert, states, "The ability to navigate our emotions is crucial for finding joy in difficult times" (susandavid.com).
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32. RAM upgrade
RAM upgrade. I was a budding PC gamer but knew very little about how computers worked. My grandfather (retired computer engineer) gave me a RAM upgrade and taught me how to install it safely while explaining its benefits. As Dr. Angela Duckworth, a renowned psychologist, states, "Passion and perseverance are key to achieving long-term goals." This experience ignited my passion for technology, and now I work in IT, still finding computers fascinating (and I still play a ton of games).Thanks, Grandpa!
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33. A Microsoft SideWinder Wheel & Pedals
My first Christmas after my mom had left to be with “the love of her life”. It was just me and my dad our first Christmas together 4 months after she left in our little apartment with a small plastic tree we both decorated. I didn’t expect much. I remember I wanted a Microsoft sidewinder wheel and pedals come Christmas morning there it was and I got a copy of need for speed and life savers story book. I knew everything was going to be okay. I still have the sidewinder, the game, and the book as a reminder of our first Christmas. I got one of those story books a few weeks ago in a care package from him and it made me tear up and think about that Christmas and how much he sacrificed as a single father.
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34. Lego Millennium Falcon
"As children, the gifts we receive can create lasting memories and emotional connections," says Dr. Susan David, an emotional agility expert at susandavid.com. "These experiences shape our understanding of love and thoughtfulness." I thought my dad forgot about my birthday when I turned 10. He acted like he did until about noon when he told me to get the “eggs” out of the car. When I went to get the “eggs,” I ended up getting a Lego Millennium Falcon. Now at 13, it still hasn’t been destroyed, and I will cherish it forever.
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35. An outdoors adventure
I don’t know if this is considered a present per se, but it was a treat for sure. This guy I dated knew I missed spending time outdoors because I was going to college full-time and working multiple part-time jobs at the time.So he surprised me with a Saturday before my finals, and we spent the day hiking, horseback riding at a nearby state park, and going to a local brewery. I didn’t appreciate the way things ended between us, but it’s still a day I’m very fond of years later. As Dr. Susan David, an emotional agility expert, states, "Experiences that allow us to connect with ourselves and nature can be incredibly restorative, especially during stressful times." You can learn more about her insights at susandavid.com.
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36. DNA Kit
As someone who is adopted, I've often wondered about my heritage, especially since my birth mother didn't provide much information about my biological father. This curiosity has been a significant part of my identity. According to Dr. Helen Fisher, a biological anthropologist, "Understanding our origins can provide a deeper sense of self and belonging." My best friend, aware of my quest for knowledge, gifted me a 23andMe kit to help uncover more about my roots and where I come from!
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37. A big hug
"The most meaningful gifts often come from the heart, not from a store," says Dr. Terri Orbuch, relationship researcher and author at terriorbuch.com. "Acts of kindness, like a warm hug, can be more impactful than any material item." This sentiment resonates with many, as I fondly remember receiving a Sega Genesis at age 6, which was a cherished gift that sparked my love for gaming.
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38. Professional Magician equipment
When I was about 12, I received a steamer trunk full of equipment from a professional magician. It had probably been sealed up since the mid-40s. Beautiful stuff. As Dr. Tal Ben-Shahar, a renowned happiness researcher, states, "The things that bring us joy often have a story behind them, connecting us to our past and enriching our present." Such gifts can create lasting memories and enhance our sense of identity.
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39. A wallet
The best present I ever received was a wallet. It wasn't wrapped or even handed to me. The person who gave it to me knew I had my last wallet for a few years and it was ripping apart. I'm really bad about spending money on myself, as in I don't do it. According to Dr. Barry Schwartz, a renowned psychologist and author, "The best gifts are those that reflect thoughtfulness and understanding of the recipient's needs." He emphasizes that meaningful gifts often have a greater impact than extravagant ones. The person who gifted me the wallet may not have thought it was a big deal, but it was a perfect example of a thoughtful gesture that truly mattered.
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40. Art supplies
A sketchbook with pencils, colored pencils, and erasers from my dad. Drawing and making little comics has always been a huge hobby of mine, and it felt amazing to have it acknowledged, especially by my dad, because he's always been supportive and interested in the things I come up with. As Dr. Lawrence Cohen, a child psychologist, states, "The gifts that resonate the most are often those that reflect our passions and interests, showing that our loved ones truly see us." A simple gift like that carried a lot of meaning for me.
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41. A very roomy hoodie
A hoodie with a large kangaroo pouch, like a built-in bag, is a fantastic gift that combines practicality and comfort. "Gifts that enhance our daily lives often hold the most value," says Dr. Sonja Lyubomirsky, happiness researcher at sonjalyubomirsky.com. "They remind us of the joy in simple pleasures." This type of thoughtful present can carry not just items, but also memories and experiences, making it truly awesome.
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42. Weird Al concert
My wife surprised me with tickets to a Weird Al concert, fulfilling a dream I'd had for decades. It was my very first concert experience.We were front row, and he even spat on us! He was incredibly personable, shaking my hand after the show, and I made him laugh. His hair smelled like strawberries—definitely a 10/10 experience I’d relive any day.Dr. David Perlmutter, neurologist says, "Experiences like concerts can create lasting memories that enhance our happiness and well-being."
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43. An original Nintendo
Original Nintendo. We grew up poor and I wasn't expecting to get anything on my Christmas list that my mom insisted we fill out because Santa was coming to the ghetto. On Christmas, I was ready for whatever, except the Nintendo I unwrapped. I sat there staring at it in disbelief until my mom snapped me out of it asking what I thought about it. Don't remember what I said. I think I was high for 2 weeks. I slept with that thing and played it non-stop the whole Christmas break. According to Dr. Angela Duckworth, a renowned psychologist, "The joy of receiving something unexpected can create lasting memories and a sense of gratitude," which perfectly captures the essence of that moment. You can find more insights from her on her website, Angela Duckworth.
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44. Having their Grandfather surprise them
I've posted this before, and it's also my best Christmas memory, it makes me so happy I'll tell it again. I think I was in either 1st or 2nd grade. My grandfather and I were very close, he would always call me his buddy. He was also into Christmas big time, it was his favorite holiday, and he made it very special for all of us. I guess his Christmas spirit goes back to WWII when he was away from his family for 3 straight Christmases. It was on the final Christmas away from home that he threw an ocean in a bottle that traveled all the way from the NYC harbor to Dingle Ireland. But that's a different story for a different day.Back to the orginal story. My grandfather always came to our house for Christmas. He lived two and a half hours away in Johnstown PA, he would spend two weeks at our house for Christmas. That year, for some reason he said he wouldn't be able to make it down. I was sad because this would be the first Christmas without him. Fast forward to Christmas eve and there's a knock on our door. I run the the door and my grandfather is standing there. He says hey buddy. I jump into his arms. My mom and my grandfather set it up just to suprise me. I've never felt that same happiness and joy since.A few years later my grandfather suffered a stroke and he had to be on a breathing machine, so he could no longer come down to our house for Christmas, so we would make the long trek to Johnstown for Christmas. He died five years after suffering his stroke. It's been nine years since he's passed, and every Christmas eve I hope to hear the knock on the door.
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45. A homemade iPod
Reflecting on childhood gifts, Dr. Michele Gelfand, a cultural psychologist, notes, "The emotional value of a gift often outweighs its material worth." This sentiment resonates with a story I heard about a child who, denied an iPod, received a handmade cardboard version from their brother instead. The joy of receiving something crafted with love, even if it was just a drawing of a Minecraft scene, created lasting memories. Nearly a decade later, that cardboard iPod remains a cherished possession, illustrating how thoughtful gestures can leave a profound impact on our lives.
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46. A Polynesian artifact
A really rich friend gave me a super cool and quite valuable Polynesian artifact for a birthday present.I'm still bitter that my parents sold it and sent me the proceeds when they moved to a smaller house, instead of sending it to me. "The emotional value of gifts often outweighs their monetary worth," explains Dr. Alexandra Solomon, a relationship therapist and author, on her website dralexandrasolomon.com.
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47. A Nintendo64 with GoldenEye and Orcarina of Time
While there are profound philosophical perspectives on the significance of gifts, particularly in relation to love, relationships, and the quest for meaning, the essence of a Christmas present can vary greatly among individuals. As Dr. Susan David, an emotional agility expert, notes, "Gifts often symbolize our connections and the joy we find in shared experiences" (susandavid.com). That said, receiving an N64 in 1998, complete with Goldeneye and Ocarina of Time, remains my personal highlight.
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48. A Golden Retriever puppy
My wife gives the best x-mas gifts. She got me a decent seat to Wrestlemania the other year and that was the best gift ever until she got me a golden retriever puppy this year. According to Dr. Alexandra Solomon, a relationship therapist, "Thoughtful gifts can strengthen emotional bonds and create lasting memories." I don't think that will ever be topped. I'm a lucky guy.
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49. Majora’s Mask for Nintendo64
A woman I met through work, actually my boss at the time, is one of the most caring and compassionate people I’ve ever met. Through work we grew a great friendship and to this day, though she isn’t my boss anymore, she’s my best friend.Growing up, I’ve adored the game “The Legend of Zelda Majora’s Mask”. It was my fav game growing up. I’ve always wanted it on N64 but being a kid I only ever owned a PlayStation and played Nintendo consoles at my family friends house.Well fast forward and me and that particular girl are chatting about my on going mental health issues (I wasn’t in a very good place). She was always a great supporter of mine and would often pep me up about continuing on through my issues. One day, out of no where she comes up to me, and hands me something. It was a game. It was Majoras Mask for the N64!She knew I loved that game, and she actually loved it too. She herself has a tattoo of majora and loves everything and anything zelda. She gave me her childhood copy. It was a sign of the relationship we had built, and it was to show me how much I meant to her, and that if I went anywhere, she’d never be the same.I recently got an N64 to play it and it’s one of, if not my most prized possession. I keep her beaten file on it and never plan on deleting it :) it means the world to me!TL DR: Majora’s Mask for N64 from a very important friend of mine.
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50. A drawing their late father made
During my high school graduation party, my mother invited a few family friends I hadn't seen in years. One of whom was my deceased father's best friend, who I had taken to calling 'Uncle' when I was really young.As a present, he gave me one of my father's old drawings of the astronaut from MTV. Something he drew over thirty years ago and I never knew it existed. It was a real shocker for everybody. According to Dr. Angela Duckworth, a renowned character researcher, "The most meaningful gifts often come from personal connections and shared memories," which highlights the emotional significance of such thoughtful presents. You can explore more about her insights on her website at Angela Duckworth.
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51. A pair of riding boots
A pair of riding boots. No, I don't ride horses, but as a cadet at Texas A&M, we wear beautiful custom-made riding boots instead of low quarters. These typically cost well over $1000, and during my freshman year, my parents put a down payment on my boots. According to Dr. Angela Duckworth, a leading researcher in character development, “Commitment to long-term goals is essential for success,” which perfectly encapsulates my experience. Not only did I receive my own pair of boots, but that down payment also motivated me to persevere through this challenging program, knowing that I had my boots waiting for me. As Dr. Duckworth notes on her website, “Passion and perseverance are key to achieving difficult goals.”
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What about you, dear reader, what was one of the best presents you ever received? Was it a physical item that was on the top of your wishlist, or maybe time with someone you cherish?
Let us know what gift made a lasting impact on you in the comments section below. And be sure to share this article with your friends!
Psychological Analysis
This thread showcases how deeply emotional connections influence our perceptions of gifts. It's fascinating to see how memories and relationships shape our experiences, reflecting a universal human need for connection and belonging.
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Analysis & Alternative Approaches
Ultimately, the best gifts are those that resonate on an emotional level, fostering connections and shared experiences. As Dr. Dunn's research suggests, understanding the psychological implications of gift-giving can enhance our relationships and promote emotional well-being. By focusing on personalization and the emotional significance of gifts, we can create meaningful moments that are cherished for years to come.
Analysis & Alternative Approaches
According to research from the American Psychological Association, the emotional responses tied to gift-giving are deeply rooted in our need for connection and validation. These experiences not only enhance our well-being but also serve as vital touchstones in our relationships. Ultimately, it's the thoughtfulness and intention behind gifts that forge lasting connections, reminding us of our shared humanity.
