During Family Movie Night, This Woman Tells Her Sister to Stop Describing Scenes to Her Blind Boyfriend
Wow. The nerve. Ableism rears its ugly head.
Family movie night was supposed to be easy, but one comment turned it into a full-blown argument. A woman says she snapped at her younger sister for quietly describing scenes to her blind boyfriend, and the whole room felt the tension right away.
The boyfriend lost his sight at 16 after a car accident, and the sister was trying to help him follow along. Instead of letting it go, the woman said the whispering ruined her immersion, which left her family stunned and her sister furious.
Now the internet has weighed in, and the backlash is not subtle. Read on.
Karen's sister has a heart of gold.
u/vatixa9485Watching a movie when you have a blind guest is definitely a great idea.
u/vatixa9485Oh wow.
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The world roasts her.
Naturally, when this post hit Reddit, it went viral like wildfire. People from all over the world and all walks of life commented on it, telling her she shouldn't have insulted her sister's blind boyfriend.
With over 4,000 comments and 14.5k upvotes, here are some top comments you need to read.
The comments did not hold back.
He has no right to be blind.
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That's rude.
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He was just having fun in his own way.
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That someone is your own sister and her boyfriend.
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Proud mama.
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More people piled on after that.
Exactly.
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OP needs to apologize.
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There's no scenario in which she isn't the bad guy.
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True.
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Exactly.
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Be compassionate, Karen.
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The thread kept getting sharper.
This “stop describing scenes” fight is similar to the debate over whether to cover vet bills after a sister’s dog attacked a beloved cat.
Let everyone enjoy the "family" movie night.
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Exactly.
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Yes, watch it alone next time.
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OP needs to apologize to her sister and her boyfriend.
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OP's comments would have definitely hurt the poor guy.
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Also, OP needs to grow up.
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True.
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I hope OP reads this.
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In Summary...
It's crazy how OP couldn't understand that her sister's boyfriend was only trying to enjoy the family movie night with them. This begs one question.
Why plan a movie night when you know one of your guests is visually impaired? It was a poor choice of activities, but if you did plan it, you should have accommodated your guests better.
It's not his fault he's blind, but you don't have to rub it in every chance you get. If her sister's whispering was bothering her, how about getting up and sitting somewhere else where she can be the princess she thinks she is?
Oh well. I personally feel it's wrong to make someone feel bad because of their disability.
What about you?
That movie night was never going to stay peaceful.
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