This Woman Was Shocked By The Awful Response Her Boyfriend Gave Her For Sending A Silly Picture Of Her Unshaven Legs
It is entirely up to you whether to shave or not, but this lady received a shocking reply regarding her temporary shaving decisions.
To a great extent, the beauty standards surrounding body hair have been consistently changing over the past couple of years, as numerous women cheerfully show off their natural hairy features. An increasing number of females are moving beyond body-hair shaming and are starting a mini revolution by not shaving and encouraging others to let their body hair grow. According to Dr. Esther Perel, a renowned couples therapist, "Our relationships are a mirror of our cultural values," highlighting how societal norms around beauty are evolving. However, when a TikTok user who goes by the username "bonedrymilkers" chose to embrace her body hair and sent an image of her unshaved legs to her boyfriend, things did not go as she had planned. What should have been a sweet and humorous moment turned bitter when her boyfriend remarked that it looked somewhat gross and unhygienic for a woman, which was a red flag staring her in the face. Her followers supported her perspective, as they all viewed her boyfriend's behavior as a total red flag. The video went viral in just a couple of days, garnering over 15 million views and almost 86K comments. To avoid keeping you waiting, scroll down to check out the full conversation between her and her boyfriend, along with the videos that the TikTok influencer has uploaded!
A TikTok user chose to accept her "winter coat" and sent a photograph of her unshaved legs to her boyfriend.
bonedrymilkersAnd the conversation starts...
bonedrymilkersSends the first bomb
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Embracing the winter coat
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The conversation went bad as her boyfriend said that it looked gross and unhygienic for a girl.
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You must be joking
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Oh, I'm serious
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Why?
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You can be annoying
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And he wraps it up
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Click here to watch the full video, which has more than 15 million views.
The second update!
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A joker
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And now he's asking why...
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And he's surprised how people are supporting her
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What a double standard!
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A really stupid opinion
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Like DONE!
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Interesting
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Where do I put myself first?
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Really?
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It's getting hot in here
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Who does that?
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We need to talk
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Really great
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After some time, the TikTok user posted another video with an update for her followers, and it appears that after exchanging a few more texts, the couple discussed everything and ultimately ended the relationship. In bonedrymilkers' caption, she wrote that it was clear she wasted her time being with him.
Later on, the lady posted another clip with a report on this entire situation.
The TikToker added this too...
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A majority of her followers were on her side, as many commented that the boyfriend's response was completely inappropriate, while others initiated a conversation in the comments about double standards. Here are some of the comments:
What her boyfriend said...
kattt.vargas
Find you a real man
behkirc
The last part though
shinelikeabyul
He is NOT the one
.earthtokadins
It's the same hair, y'all
evilcornflakes
On a personal basis
ryan.dek1
Like no way!
ellisroyal
There is no one perfect solution to this issue, as it is entirely up to you whether to shave or not. The main thing is that you have a strong sense of self-assurance and you are accepted as you are, even if you have a lot of body hair.
Nonetheless, we are surrounded by a slew of ridiculous beauty standards that can make one feel ashamed at times.