Bride’s Family Lashes Out On Her After She Refused To Sacrifice Her Wedding Date For Her Brother’s Emergency Wedding

Wedding planning is stressful enough without a family member trying to hijack the date. One Redditor says that is exactly what happened when her brother scheduled his own emergency wedding for the same day she had already chosen. The problem got worse because the siblings were already on bad terms, and their parents expected her to move everything for him.

Now the family is split, and the wedding date has turned into a full-blown feud.

Bride’s Family Turns Against Her After She Refuses To Give Up Her Wedding Date For Brother’s Shotgun Wedding

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Her parents went on to say that if she refuses to change the date, she should not expect them to attend her wedding. This prompted the OP to share her story, in which she asked the AITA subreddit community if she was wrong for not postponing her wedding after her brother chose the same date for his own wedding.

Here’s the story in full:

I uninvited my brother to my wedding

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We set a date for our wedding

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That is where the family tension really starts to show.

I got a call from my uncle

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You take care of it and get back to me

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He made a face and said...

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He said it's not his problem...

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I explained how much I would lose

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Tim chose the date to spite me

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I said this wasn't the case

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It's totally illogical

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Weddings are one of the few occasions when family members and friends can gather to celebrate.

Wedding date warfare got even messier in this AITA where someone refused to attend her brother’s wedding after betrayal and inheritance drama.

They are showing you your rank

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What the problem actually is...

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Spread the good word before the wedding

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It's about you and Adam only

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This will filter out your real family

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Cut them out of your life

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Keep your date and make it clear

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Weddings are an expensive way of filtering people

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Everyone's showing their true colors

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When planning a major event, it’s always difficult to find a perfect date that suits all of the important personalities. It is even more challenging when two siblings are trying to fix their wedding dates within the same time frame.

As we saw above, it can result in family issues, especially if the parents don’t play their neutral roles well. What are your thoughts on this pulsating story?

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Was she wrong to put her foot down?

For another brutal family ultimatum, see what happened when a brother demanded she attend without her girlfriend.