A Young Girl's Sudden Career Change Sparks A Family Debate

Many young people form ideas about their future careers based on what they see in TV shows, movies, or online content. While entertainment can spark interest in certain professions, it often presents a highly dramatized or simplified version of reality.

This can lead to decisions that are more influenced by fiction than by a true understanding of the work involved. Choosing a career is a significant commitment, and it’s important to look beyond what is portrayed on screen to understand the real challenges, skills, and dedication required.

In one case, OP’s younger cousin, a senior in high school, shared her plan to attend medical school. This came as a surprise to OP because the cousin had shown no previous interest in science-related subjects, preferring Arts and History and even disliking biological sciences.

When asked about the sudden change, the cousin explained that she was inspired after binge-watching the medical drama Grey’s Anatomy. OP suggested that she research the realities of medical school and the medical profession, noting that television shows are not accurate reflections of a doctor’s life.

This was meant as friendly advice, but the cousin felt it implied she was naive or incapable of making her own decisions. The situation left OP wondering if offering this perspective was wrong, despite the intention being to help her make an informed choice.

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She doesn’t need OP's negativity in her life.

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OP is not doing her any favors.

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OP should be glad someone wants to try becoming a doctor, regardless of their reason.

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Telling her cousin she can’t be a doctor could hurt her more than help.

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The family should be supportive.

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She has time to find her passion in college.

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"The road to hell is paved with good intentions."

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"Let people like what they like."

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" YTA a little bit."

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People don’t like being called out for behavior they’ve gotten away with before

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Many people find inspiration for their careers through TV shows or films, including in medicine. While encouraging research into the realities of medical school isn’t inherently wrong, framing it as a doubt towards her sincerity or intelligence came across as discouraging.

The comments suggest that a high school senior is fully capable of distinguishing between fiction and reality and exploring her interests through college-level courses. In short, offering support and encouragement would serve her better than skepticism.