Grandma Caught This Boy's Sly Act Which Backfired on Him and His Girlfriend
This boy took a huge risk by switching the cookies and trying to please his grandma.
We all want our families to accept our loved ones, whether they are good at cooking or not. We try to cover their mistakes as much as possible so that our families think they are perfect.
It is okay not to know how to cook or manage household tasks to be considered a good girlfriend. However, it is definitely not suitable to fake something in front of parents or elders for them to accept the relationship.
It is deceiving them and making them believe something that person is not. It will definitely hurt them if they find out that their child has been lying to them about the qualities of their partner all this time.
We can work on ourselves and learn the little things our partner's parents expect from us, like basic cooking skills and keeping the house a little cleaner. Having these qualities is not a compulsion; however, parents are more accepting if their child's partner possesses such essential attributes.
In this article, a boy tries to please his girlfriend by telling her that the cookies she made were great, even though they weren't. Therefore, she insisted on gifting some to his grandma. The boy was stuck between not hurting his partner and pleasing his grandma, so he switched the homemade cookies with store-bought ones.
And the grandma, being very smart, caught him, and the whole situation backfired on the boy and his girlfriend. The girlfriend was innocent because she didn't know her partner had switched her cookies.
Buddy, you tried to handle the situation, but unfortunately, your grandma is way too smart.
starsonmyfac3The girlfriend made real efforts and genuinely tried quite hard to please the family.
starsonmyfac3The girl just wanted her efforts to be appreciated, especially when she made the cookies for grandma.
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The grandma should have spoken to the boy quietly, explaining the situation instead of doing it in front of everyone.
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At least now the air is cleared, and grandma appreciates the efforts the girlfriend made.
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Telling the girlfriend that the cookies were good but not good enough to gift would have been a better option.
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Sometimes we have to hurt the other person with honesty so they can improve themselves.
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Well, practice makes perfect, and it's a rare sight to see anyone ace it on the very first try.
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The grandma surely would have accepted that it was all her grandson's fault and that the girlfriend is innocent.
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It's sad that the girl had to go through this even after making so much effort to make everyone happy.
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If the boy had told her the cookies weren't nice, she would have tried harder and made better cookies.
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Maybe the girl would have felt bad that her cookies weren't turning out as expected, but that's better than being insulted in front of grandma.
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A successful relationship is one where there is communication about both good and bad qualities.
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I believe the boy is scared of her or maybe scared to hurt her with his honesty.
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If this is the case, then the boyfriend did the best he could so his girlfriend wouldn't have to face criticism.
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Not knowing how to cook is not a red flag, and a boyfriend covering up for his partner isn't a red flag either.
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Technically, the boy lied to both women here; he could have just told the truth to both of them.
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That would definitely have been a good option to tell the grandma secretly; she would have pretended to like the cookies.
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From the moment this boy started lying, we all knew he was going to land himself in deep trouble.
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Honesty is the best policy, whether in a relationship or otherwise. Everything would have been perfect with just one truth.
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We all hope that this boy has learned a lesson and will never lie again, starting to be honest with his partner and grandma.
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The boy just tried to please his partner by accepting the bad cookies; instead, he could have told her the truth so she could improve herself. Secondly, he tried to act smart, switch the cookies, and deceive his grandma.
This story is the perfect example of the saying, "Honesty is the best policy." Share this with all your friends and family and encourage them to be truthful at all times!
