Both of These Parents Are Fighting to Not Have Custody, and They Can't Decide Who Is in the Wrong
Join us in open-mouthed shock as we read about these parents who are fighting to avoid custody of their children.
Two parents, one child, and a custody arrangement that somehow turned into a fight over who should not have custody at all. That is the strange setup at the center of this Reddit story, and it has people arguing over where the real blame belongs.
The mother says she and her ex-boyfriend had an agreement in place, then explains what pushed her to step back from custody of their children.
Reddit had plenty to say, and the reactions were anything but simple.
Here's the start of her story.
kidthrowaway76That is where the custody dispute starts to get messy.
She goes on to explain more, but then we get a peek into an edit she made as well.
kidthrowaway76Clearly, the comments are divided.
overidentifymuch
The comments started rolling in, and people were split fast.
The comments started rolling in—some in her favor and some not.
No_Performance8733
Some people argue that the kidnapping accusation was enough for her to be justified in backing off.
Kittymamaxs3
That accusation changed how a lot of readers saw the situation.
Reddit comments about how the kids must be feeling during this process.
TheQuixoticTribble
The Reddit comments are relentless, with people expressing their feelings about how she handled the situation.
sylvanwhisper
Some believe she's NTA and that this is a typical case of the 'fun' dad versus the 'strict' mom.
DGinLDO
For a different custody fight, check a divorced couple arguing over dog custody and fair post-divorce arrangements.
EHS is what many are dubbing this situation due to the behavior of both parents.
sequinsmile
Honestly, who can imagine a life without their children? It would be anyone's worst nightmare.
Frequent_Inevitable
Exactly, because I would.
Spotzie27
People start sharing similar experiences they've had or witnessed.
wannabecersei
Another NTA comment points out that men do this all the time, but it's always a big deal when a woman does it.
Pand0ra30_
It's probably true that he didn't fully understand what it takes to be a parent and deal with the challenges she was facing.
Realistic-Animator-3
Another comment compares this situation to what would happen if a father were in her position.
louloutre75
It doesn't seem right to me either that she just handed them over to him and started a new life.
AccessibleBeige
Very true. The father is manipulating the kids and, consequently, their entire situation and agreement.
No_Performance8733
This Reddit user agrees with the mom, stating that the dad put her in this situation and left her no choice but to act that way.
Slumbering_Oaf
The father's manipulation of the kids is heartbreaking, and it makes me worry about their well-being.
Throwawaycarstore
This comment says it all.
No_Performance8733
Three important points in this story.
KSknitter
Here's some insight from an attorney who has seen situations like this before.
Zealousideal-Tap-201
OP didn't necessarily do anything wrong.
Automatic_Western_50
This is one of those Reddit stories that takes you on a wild ride, and the Reddit comments continue that journey. It's always interesting to see when the Reddit comments are divided and what their perspectives are.
What do you think about this story, and who do you believe is in the wrong here?
Was she wrong to put her foot down?
Before you pick sides, see who gets the rescue cat in this breakup custody debate: refusing full custody of a shared rescue cat.
