AITA - Dad Delays Helping Teenage Daughter After She Gets Stuck Doing Something She Was Warned Not To Do

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

One teenager thought she could ignore a warning and get away with it, but a roof, a stuck window, and a frustrated dad turned it into a family standoff.

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In this AITA story, a 17-year-old girl keeps climbing onto the roof from her bedroom window even though her dad has told her not to do it alone. When she gets stuck and calls for help, he tells her he will be home soon and expects her to wait it out, which only makes things worse once her mom gets involved.

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Now the whole family is arguing over whether this was a lesson in consequences or a dad dragging his feet when his daughter needed help. Read on.

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The story starts

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Daughter is stuck on the roof

Daughter is stuck on the roofu/reservedmarko

And finally...

And finally...u/reservedmarko

Some supported the OP's child, believing she would learn her lesson, while others criticized the OP for leaving his daughter out in the cold for so long. The top comments from the AITA community had this to say:

This comment section wasted no time picking sides.

A funny similar story

The family really emphasized the scenario by framing it... Lol

A funny similar storyLola_M1224

She disregarded the rules and faced the consequences

She disregarded the rules and faced the consequencesCasualBrowsing1996

A completely justifiable verdict

At least she will learn her lessons.

A completely justifiable verdictJessTheElmoBean

Information is needed and the OP supplied

Information is needed and the OP suppliedzinky30

You don't withhold help to prove a point

And the OP gave his reply...

You don't withhold help to prove a pointJWJulie

This is also like the OP who refused to let a cousin stay during a housing crisis, sparking family backlash.

She'll be fine for a little longer

She'll be fine for a little longerResponsibleEgg9931

She knew the risk involved but still went ahead

At 17, the girl should know better than to disregard the advice given to her.

She knew the risk involved but still went aheadLast-Construction295

Life-threatening cold situation

Life-threatening cold situationMithrander_Grey

Letting your stubborn teenage kids face a few natural consequences sometimes

Letting your stubborn teenage kids face a few natural consequences sometimesTCTX73

Lol... It's waiting and embarrassment time

Lol... It's waiting and embarrassment timedancing_chinese_kid

Understanding that actions have consequences

Understanding that actions have consequencesghostwall_

Not stupid enough to go out underprepared

Not stupid enough to go out underpreparedviceroykit

Someone wants to know where the OP was when his daughter called

Someone wants to know where the OP was when his daughter calledImpossibleHand5086

She was dressed for the weather

She was dressed for the weatherNoBodyCares2000

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes

Play stupid games, win stupid prizesEmbarrassed_Ad_2054

Dealing with the consequences until you return

Dealing with the consequences until you returnAndle_Randle

The kid is learning something

The kid is learning somethingKaykaylovesJesus

Two hours isn't referred to as "soon"

Two hours isn't referred to as "soon"MollykinsWoo

It's not your fault because you weren't close to home

It's not your fault because you weren't close to homeTorteTastey

Lol... Please do

Lol... Please doMaelstrom_Witch

And to wrap it up...

And to wrap it up...MusicMeister_

It can’t be that hard to listen to advice given for your own safety. When you fail to listen, and there’s no one else to call when in trouble, you might end up endangering yourself and those around you as well.

What is your take on this disobedience story today? You can drop your opinions in the comments section below.

That roof warning probably should have been taken more seriously.

For another AITA standoff, read about a dad refusing his daughter’s dog adoption after she neglected their cat.

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