Questionable Messages In Disney Movies–31 Fans Share Their Honest Critiques

Some people love Mrs. Doubtfire for the laughs, but one fan said the movie’s “fun dad” energy hides a whole pile of messy, questionable choices.

In this story, the husband keeps escalating, throwing a massive birthday party that gets cops involved, wrecking boundaries with his wife, and then acting shocked when she is done cleaning up the chaos. He quits jobs, lives in limbo, and still expects joint custody, while she is trying to hold the kids together and keep their lives steady.

And then he goes from irresponsible to downright unhinged with the disguise plan, sabotaging her dating life like revenge is the same thing as love.

"I love the movie, but Mrs. Doubtfire"

"The dad is unhinged for no reason other than to play the pity party. He throws a huge birthday bash that gets the cops called, causes property damage, and breaks a boundary with his wife.

Apparently, he has a history of doing that, so his wife is rightfully fed up with all of it AND having to clean up the mess and keep it together financially (because he quit another job due to his "morals"). Then he gets upset when he finds out his wife is completely serious about divorcing him.

He becomes more upset when he doesn't get joint custody (even though at the time, he had no job or decent place to live). He is motivated to get a place but doesn't bother cleaning it up for his children (you could argue the Chinese dinner scene is right after moving, but it is still messy by the time the social worker comes).

He concocts an absolutely insane scheme of dressing up as a woman and lying to get close to them, then sabotaging her dates with a nice man so he... can... win her back?? Exact revenge?

Meanwhile, the wife is trying to keep it together and take care of her kids (who are turned against her because Dad is so fun and cool while she is the rule enforcer). SHE buys the clothes.

SHE buys the food and entertainment. SHE sets the school expectations, but she is labeled a b***h for parenting??

For finding a guy who has his life together like an adult?? Then the kids find out and are on Dad's side because "Dad is so fun and he does this insane stuff because he loves us!!!"

But at no point does anyone say to him, "Why don't you... I don't know... work on your issues and clean your damn place??? Go to work and take on some responsibility beyond partying?"

He does get promoted (by luck) and gets caught. The judge rightfully condemns him.

Dude is crazy. He was a step away from harming those kids and himself - that whole speech in the courtroom screams, "I am mentally unstable."

The mom feels bad (yeah, she made rude comments out of anger, but she DID HER PARENTING RIGHT) and gives him what he wants.

Moral of the story: act unhinged towards everyone, and everyone will understand that you are right to be unhinged and will give you stuff."

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"Any movie which pushes marrying someone you just met"

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"I have a running joke with my wife that Aladdin is about a young man who lies to and gaslights a woman"

"But she doesn't care because he has a cool car"

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The analysis of Disney's storytelling reveals a significant impact on the emotional and social development of its young viewers. While these films are designed to entertain, they often weave in intricate moral dilemmas that can leave children bewildered. For instance, the narratives surrounding sacrifice, love, and bravery present scenarios that are not always easy for young audiences to grasp fully.

Given the complexities inherent in these stories, it becomes essential for parents to engage in meaningful discussions with their children post-viewing. This dialogue can help kids navigate the sometimes confusing messages and encourage critical thinking about the themes presented in the films.

"All Disney heroes had American accents and villains had foreign accents"

"Not sure if it still holds, but for the longest time, all Disney heroes had American accents and villains had foreign accents, even when they were from the same culture.

Remember kids - foreigners are scary."

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"No more hard work, you just have to be born special"

"Live Action Mulan: Be born special and just be better than everyone else by default. That's the only way you can succeed as a woman.

Someone correct me if I am wrong, but didn't the 2020 Mulan remake ruin the original message that a woman can be the same as a man with the same training by making her naturally gifted with Chi?"

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"For me it's The Little Mermaid. Change everything about yourself for a guy? No thanks."

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That’s when the birthday bash, the property damage, and the wife’s “fed up” attitude start to feel less like comedy and more like a pattern.

Disney movies frequently promote unrealistic romantic ideals that can skew young viewers' perceptions of love and relationships. The notion of 'love at first sight' featured in many beloved films sets a bar that is often unattainable in real life. This can lead to misconceptions about what healthy relationships truly entail.

Parents are encouraged to engage with their children about these narratives, using Disney films as a platform to discuss the importance of communication and mutual respect in relationships. By doing so, they can help foster a more nuanced understanding of love and partnership, steering young audiences towards a more realistic and balanced outlook on romance.

"The Little Mermaid - an underage girl with body issues is trafficked by an older woman and objectified by an older man."

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"The Lion King is my favorite movie about running away from your life's problems until you are old enough to kill your uncle."

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Cinderella

"Poor woman with no hope in sight meets a rich man, spends part of an evening dancing with him, neither of them has any idea who the other person really is, but when he finds her again, they are instantly married. Just when the real story and character development could take place, that's the end, of course, happily ever after.

Boys: your goal is to be a wealthy provider, and then you'll be happy because you'll have a pretty woman...

Girls: find a rich, charming man and he will take care of you, and you'll be happy for the rest of your life.

And neither are going to do well in relationships if they internalize this message."

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Cultural Reflections and Stereotypes

Inside Out

"I'm going to make a very controversial pick and say "Inside Out". But with a heavy caveat.

Only in regards to boys/men. The emotions of women, when shown, are complex and deep.

The male counterparts were gag jokes and stereotypes."

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The Hunchback of Notre Dame

"They had to repeatedly assure people the message of The Hunchback of Notre Dame was not, "Be grateful for the pretty girl's friendship and step aside for your handsome friend, because that's clearly the best you can hope for.""

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Wish

"I believe this movie would have worked better if they had tried to convey the message, "Not every wish should be granted". Instead, they went with the message, "There are no bad wishes, only bad genies".

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The kids turning on her, because Dad is “so fun,” makes it extra cruel, since she is the one buying the clothes, the food, and the stability.

Disney movies have long served as a gateway for children to explore complex emotions, yet the recent critiques highlight a troubling trend. The narratives often use humor and fantasy to gloss over deeper emotional issues, potentially depriving young viewers of the opportunity to engage with their feelings authentically. As these films are designed for impressionable audiences, it becomes crucial to encourage children to identify and articulate their emotions while watching. This approach not only fosters emotional intelligence but also transforms a seemingly simple viewing experience into a valuable lesson in personal growth. By integrating mindfulness practices, parents and guardians can guide children in reflecting on the messages behind the colorful animations, ensuring that the lessons learned extend beyond the screen.

"I'm not a fan of the end of Encanto, where the message seems to be forgive your narcissistic Abuela even though she made everyone miserable."

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"Though it was my favorite growing up, Sleeping Beauty should probably be on this list."

"Takeaway messages:

A) The gifts the fairies bestow upon infant Aurora are all superficial (until the last one). Being pretty > being smart, kind, healthy, etc.

B) It's a-okay for a dude to kiss an unconscious woman. In fact, it makes you a real man, a hero even."

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"Sleeping Beauty for making it seem like the princess’s only role is to be rescued by a prince, which can feel pretty outdated."

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Disney movies frequently present a sanitized version of reality, where conflicts are resolved in tidy conclusions. This narrative choice can mask the complexity of real-life consequences that characters should face for their actions. For example, the quick resolutions seen in many beloved films may leave young viewers with an unrealistic understanding of accountability.

Parents are encouraged to leverage these moments as teachable opportunities. By initiating discussions about the importance of accountability and the long-term effects of decisions, adults can guide children to grasp the intricate nature of morality and responsibility, steering them away from the simplistic notions often portrayed in these fairy tale endings.

It feels like the roommate who refused noisy pets over work-from-home noise boundaries.

"Does Rise of Skywalker count?"

"After Last Jedi set up a message of "It doesn't take being born special or being part of a certain bloodline to make a difference," Rise of Skywalker went, "LOL NEVERMIND, ONLY THE SUPER SPECIAL PEOPLE BORN INTO THE SUPER SPECIAL FAMILIES CAN BE COOL, AND PEOPLE WILL ONLY LISTEN TO THE FAMOUS CELEBRITIES IF YOU NEED HELP!!!"

God, what a sh**show of a movie."

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"A lot of them are bad, but I've always struggled with The Princess and the Frog"

"A lot of them are bad, but I've always struggled with The Princess and the Frog.... *Amazing* hardworking woman, so close to achieving her dreams, has to learn to....

Calm down on her badass work ethic to make room for a guy who hasn't worked a day in his life? I don't love it.

I *expect* the classics to be awful. It's more jarring when the main character is fully competent and prepared to make her dreams come true without a man."

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Pinocchio

"People think the message is "don’t lie," but Pinocchio is punished for lying when he’s actually telling the truth as he understood it. Meanwhile, people are luring children, then trafficking them as slaves after turning them into donkeys.

That guy doesn’t get punished, nor does the man who tries to abduct Pinocchio for his traveling puppet show. People won’t believe you, and the world is filled with criminals who will exploit you and get away with it.

That’s the message. Later, Pinocchio saves Geppetto from a fish, thereby proving his selflessness, and the blue fairy turns him real.

The message there is clear. The only way you’ll be rewarded is to obey your parents even if you have no clue how the world works, and don’t expect anyone to guide you, especially not a useless cricket."

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"Not really a message, but Parent Trap was just creepy to me."

"A couple is married, and the wife has twins. Then they get divorced soon after the births.

Each gets custody of one child and moves far apart from the other. Not only do the girls have zero contact with their other parent, but they aren’t even told they have an identical twin sister."

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Wreck It Ralph and Wreck It Ralph 2

"Individually, the messages of Wreck It Ralph and Wreck It Ralph 2 are fine. Together, it's incoherent.

Why does Ralph have to learn to accept his position in life, but Vanellope gets to live her dream in a different game? The two movies have diametrically opposing messages, and it drives me insane."

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Raya and the Last Dragon

"Everyone's going for the classics; here's a more recent one: Raya and the Last Dragon. You should have faith and trust everyone, even the woman who stabbed you in the back and has shown repeatedly that she cannot be trusted.

Raya was apparently "you have to learn to trust others," even though the movie has her being betrayed over and over again."

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After the scheme to dress up and sabotage her dates, the whole custody storyline stops being cute and starts reading like a threat wrapped in charm.

Discussing Difficult Themes

"Tinkerbell in Peter Pan, what a mean girl bully."

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Little Mermaid

"She left her family and her world and sacrificed too much for someone she didn't even know because he was handsome."

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"Beauty and the Beast. Stockholm Syndrome at its finest."

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"Wasn't Cars 2 the one where the disabled were the villains?"

"Yes, the "lemons" were demonized throughout the entire movie for using fossil fuel. Even though that's not their fault, that's just how their bodies work.

They didn't choose to be born (built?) as lemons."

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"Coco and Encanto tell you that your family will immediately and substantially change their negative behaviors if given logical information."

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"Hot take, but Encanto"

"People who are mistreating you are simply under pressure, misunderstood, and/or doing what they think is best for everyone. Redemption and forgiveness are always possible.

As someone who has lived for far too long around families like this, I can tell you that Abuela's character arc was completely unrealistic and unbelievable. If they replaced Abuela with Mother Gothel from Tangled, it would be such a better movie."

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By the time the judge calls it out and his courtroom speech screams instability, you can practically hear the audience asking what nobody ever told him to do: grow up and clean up.

Empowering Critical Thinking

Oliver and Company

"The best way to free yourself from money payments is not to learn how to handle money better but to kill your creditor. You just have to make it look circumstantial."

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Blank Check

"Taught me to spend all my money fast before the authorities take it back… the dumb and dumber philosophy."

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The Lion King

"Someone once pointed out that The Lion King is a very pro-monarchy authoritarian story, but in the original, the animation is so beautiful you can look past that. But in the remake, you’re forced to realize what the story is like."

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Chicken Little

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While Disney movies are celebrated and memorable for their magic and charm, a deeper look reveals some alarming messages. Fans have highlighted themes that, though subtle, raise concerns.

By revisiting these films with a critical, adult perspective, we can appreciate the stories while acknowledging areas where they may fall short.

As viewers mature, the initial allure of Disney films reveals a deeper layer of understanding regarding the messages they impart. The article highlights the significance of addressing these narratives with children to nurture their emotional intelligence and resilience. By discussing themes such as love, responsibility, and cultural representation, parents can transform movie nights into meaningful learning opportunities.

This approach not only encourages critical thinking but also enhances media literacy, equipping children to appreciate these cherished stories while critically examining the underlying messages, ultimately preparing them for the complexities of the world around them.

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