Redditor Shares Her Story Of Spending An Entire Day With A Broken Arm Because Her Mom Didn't Believe Her

A 9-year-old girl is forced to live an entire day with a broken arm because the people closest to her just refuse to believe her. And no, this is not one of those “maybe she fell weird” stories, it’s the kind where pain is right in front of everyone and still gets treated like a joke.

It all starts with a fight over a box of crackers between OP and her younger brother. He pushes her off the counter, she lands hard on her arm, and she immediately tells her mom it’s broken and that she needs a doctor. Her mom thinks she’s pretending, so OP spends the whole day not using her arm, until her mom finally snaps and takes her to the hospital.

Even then, the disbelief doesn’t stop, and the whole thing turns into a “prove it” nightmare.

OP was just 9 years old when she got into a fight with her younger brother over a box of crackers

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OP's brother pushed her off the counter, causing her to land on her arm

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OP calmly strolled up to her mom and told her that her arm was broken and that she needed to see a doctor

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OP walks up to her mom calmly after the counter incident, and that’s when the disbelief kicks in instead of the help.

Childhood experiences shape our emotional responses and coping strategies throughout life. Research highlights that children often develop maladaptive coping mechanisms when their emotional needs are dismissed or invalidated by caregivers. The way a parent responds to a child's distress can significantly influence the child's future emotional health. If a child learns that their pain isn't acknowledged, they may struggle with expressing vulnerability in adult relationships.

In OP's case, her mother's disbelief likely created a foundation of mistrust in her ability to communicate pain effectively. This experience can lead to long-term issues in self-advocacy and emotional regulation, as the child learns to suppress feelings instead of expressing them.

OP's mom didn't want to hear any of it, thinking that OP was just pretending

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After OP spent the entire day without using her arm, the mom finally snapped and took her to the hospital

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Even the nurse at the hospital didn't believe OP's arm was broken

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The mom refuses to take it seriously, so OP spends the entire day with a broken arm and zero chance to get it checked.

This is similar to the friend who needed help during a parrot emergency, but you refused.

A clinical psychologist specializing in childhood development notes that parental responses to a child's claims of distress can profoundly affect their self-esteem and trust levels. When children feel that their experiences are not validated, it can lead to feelings of worthlessness and inadequacy. Research published in the Journal of Abnormal Psychology indicates that these early experiences can contribute to anxiety disorders in adulthood, as they may carry a pervasive fear of not being believed or taken seriously.

It turned out that OP wasn't faking it and she did indeed break her arm

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A good toe stomp

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A learned high pain tolerance

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A prime example of neglectful parenting

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When OP finally ends up at the hospital, even the nurse doesn’t believe her, which is a special kind of awful.

By the time the truth comes out that her arm is actually broken, it feels less like a medical mystery and more like a parenting failure.</p>

This story may not fit the traditional definition of malicious compliance, but it does highlight the indomitable spirit of a determined child who was willing to withstand a broken arm just to prove a point. It's a tale of childhood resilience and, of course, the power of pizza in healing emotional wounds.

The comments on this thread were flooded with other Redditors sharing similar experiences, proving once again that life with kids is never boring.

Practical recommendations for parents include actively listening to their children's concerns and responding with empathy.

This story highlights the profound impact of familial belief and validation on a child's emotional well-being. The young protagonist, despite her excruciating pain and the obvious signs of injury, faced disbelief from her mother, which resulted in a day spent with a broken arm. This scenario underscores the importance of attentive parenting and the need for adults to recognize and respond to children's pain. Children, like OP, thrive in environments where they feel seen and heard. The narrative serves as a poignant reminder that dismissing a child's experiences can have lasting effects on their emotional development and sense of self-worth.

That family didn’t just miss a broken arm, they taught OP that being believed is optional.

For another family betrayal, read about refusing to share a stolen secret recipe.