People Share Formerly Acceptable Practices Now Considered Criminal In Today's Society
Let’s take a stroll down memory lane to explore some of these shifts in social norms.
A 28-year-old woman refused to pay with a check at a corner store, and the cashier looked at her like she’d asked for a thumb drive from 2003. In her head it was normal, in everyone else’s head it was suddenly suspicious, outdated, and weirdly criminal-adjacent.
That’s the theme people kept circling in the Reddit thread: stuff that used to slide by, like free SMS and minutes, leaving kids alone, saying the word “gay,” or even paying $40k like it was a comfortable life. Then the list turned messy, because some commenters compared it to real-world shocks, like Jimmy Savile and Gary Glitter, while others argued about what counts as “in reach,” what happens at strip clubs with clients, and whether pantsing was ever actually funny.
1. Paying with a check.
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This exploration of once-acceptable practices now deemed criminal highlights the fluid nature of social norms.
3. Jimmy Savile and Gary Glitter.
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4. Thumb drives for $50.
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The check refusal set the tone, and suddenly everyone started comparing it to free SMS and minutes like those were the same kind of “how did we ever allow that” moment.
Psychological studies show that societal norms significantly influence individual behavior, often dictating what is considered acceptable or taboo.
5. Leaving kids alone.
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6. The word "gay"
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Collective memory plays a significant role in shaping societal norms and values.
Research from the University of Chicago suggests that shared experiences and historical events can influence current attitudes toward various practices.
As society reflects on past behaviors, these reflections can lead to significant changes in what is deemed acceptable.
7. Being out of reach.
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8. Kids with no supervision.
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Then the thread jumped from thumb drives for $50 to leaving kids with no supervision, and the vibe went from quirky to “okay, we’re talking real consequences.”
Understanding the psychological motivations behind changing social norms can provide insights into how individuals can adapt to new realities.
Studies show that individuals who are more open to change tend to navigate societal shifts more successfully.
By fostering adaptability, individuals can learn to engage with evolving norms in a way that aligns with their values.
9. Going to someone's house unannounced.
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10. Visiting strip clubs with clients.
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Times change, and so do our standards. What was cool or acceptable to do 20 years ago might not fly today.
It's like how you used to be able to smoke in restaurants, let your kids wander around the neighborhood alone, or even be a fan of someone like Bill Cosby. But now, those things are big no-nos. It just shows how much things can shift over time, and maybe it's for the better.
It’s basically the same kind of blowup as the AITA debate over splitting dinner by orders, with disagreements ignored.
11. In the back of a pickup truck.
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12. Body shaming.
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13. Red hats.
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14. Ringtones.
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15. Smoking.
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16. Waiting for a call.
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17. $40k was enough for a living.
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18. Politicians changing their opinions.
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19. Mid-budget movies.
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20. Pantsing was funny.
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21. Smoking in restaurants.
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22. Spanking your kids.
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23. $6 per minute international calls.
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25. Sexism in the workplace.
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26. Midnight releases.
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When people brought up Jimmy Savile and Gary Glitter alongside red hats and body shaming, the conversation got darker, fast, like the past is catching up.
The exploration of changing social norms highlights the importance of continuous reflection on our behaviors. As illustrated in the article, actions once considered routine, such as certain forms of public behavior and online interactions, are now viewed through a lens of heightened awareness and sensitivity. By evaluating our past actions against the backdrop of evolving societal values, we not only acknowledge the progress we've made but also pave the way for a more ethical and empathetic community.
The scariest part is how quickly “normal” turns into evidence.
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