Man Calls Out GF For Always Neglecting Him But Doing Valentine For Friends

Valentine's Day is almost approaching, and while we want to show our partner our love and thoughtful presents, it's important to keep in mind that not every gift idea is a hit. Valentine's Day is a day to show love and affection to people who have a particular place in our hearts.

Giving thoughtful and considerate gifts is what matters most, even though exchanging gifts is a frequent custom. Knowing when to give gifts on Valentine's Day is equally crucial, but what happens when one partner isn't always gifting?

Well, that is what we see in today's story, and the OP just had to call his partner out. The OP tries to do little stuff for his girlfriend.

When OP sees something he thinks his girlfriend would like, he gets it, but his girlfriend doesn't reciprocate. The OP has chalked it up to different people doing things differently, but that thought wasn't meant to last.

Come Valentine's Day, and the OP got her her favorite candy along with some other stuff. The OP also mentioned that a few days prior to Valentine's Day, he saw her posts on social media where she was "out shopping for this person and that person's Valentine's presents."

This meant that she was getting stuff for two of her friends, but when OP presented his gifts to her, he got nothing in return. Sad, right? Read the full story below to find out what happens next.

The OP kicks off his story saying...

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"Funny you had time to get stuff for them though, why does it seem like I always come last".

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"What am I not supposed to have friends and just only hang around with you?"

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OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the AH:

Maybe I should have just let it go or brought it up later instead of acting childish and sorta having a temper tantrum.

Let's head into the comments section and find out what other Redditors have to say about the story

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The OP should just consider himself single

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She knows exactly what she did but just won't acknowledge it

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She doesn't sound like a good partner at all

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The OP revealed in the comments that he is 23 years old while his girlfriend is 21 years old. He also went further to say...

It's her first relationship that's lasted longer, maybe she thinks it's just the bf that's supposed to get gifts.

The OP is right in expecting some form of consideration

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The OP will probly always be an afterthought

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This Redditor just had to sing it like a song

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The OP should go find himself someone that values him

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Giving Valentine's Day gifts should be motivated by genuine sentiment, thoughtfulness, and consideration. You can make sure that your Valentine's Day celebration is a significant and unforgettable display of love and affection by choosing personalised gifts, being honest with your partner, and avoiding typical traps.

OP's girlfriend failed to appreciate her partner, and many Redditors saw her actions as being very manipulative. In the end, the OP was declared not the AH, and that's where we close the curtains.