Luxury Hotel Fires Female Employee for Ensuring Their Drunk Female Guest Gets Back to Her Hotel Room Safely

Do the bigwigs even have a moral compass, or do they sacrifice it for the pay?

It's not uncommon for hotels, resorts, and spas to prevent their employees from fraternizing with guests. For the most part, it's for the safety of the guests, the employees, and, more importantly, the hotel.

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This rule's rigidity was tested in this Redditor's hotel, and the outcome was less than positive. OP (original poster) is a 22-year-old bartender at a hotel.

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She enjoys talking to guests when there aren't many patrons, and she was having such a day when she met a female guest. OP discovered that this particular guest was a 22-year-old teacher who was traveling by herself.

After her shift, OP decided to go to a nearby bar for a couple of drinks. At another bar, she saw the female guest she had spoken to earlier, clearly intoxicated.

The guest threw up all over the bar, and OP became worried for her. She knows that this part of town is sketchy, especially for a drunk woman who is alone.The next day, the lady texted OP to let her know that she was okay and to thank her. The teacher mentioned that she had been blackout drunk the previous night and could barely remember anything.

OP thought she had done a great job until her boss spoke to her. She was called to the office and subsequently fired for fraternizing with a guest.

OP explained what had happened and how she was just worried about the drunk guest's safety, but they still fired her

OP explained what had happened and how she was just worried about the drunk guest's safety, but they still fired herGold-Fudge-7042
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OP's full original post can be read below:

OP's full original post can be read below:Gold-Fudge-7042
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OP admits that she did walk the guest through the employee entrance, which was prohibited, and even if she wanted to sue for wrongful termination, she couldn't afford it.

OP admits that she did walk the guest through the employee entrance, which was prohibited, and even if she wanted to sue for wrongful termination, she couldn't afford it.Gold-Fudge-7042

OP was severely affected by the situation mentally, and she had to go to the hospital for it, but rest assured, she is now recovering.

OP was severely affected by the situation mentally, and she had to go to the hospital for it, but rest assured, she is now recovering.Gold-Fudge-7042

OP eventually named the hotel and shared the email she received from the company's HR.

OP eventually named the hotel and shared the email she received from the company's HR.Gold-Fudge-7042

You can read the email below:

You can read the email below:Gold-Fudge-7042

She also realized that it's probably for the best that she got out of that company early.

She also realized that it's probably for the best that she got out of that company early.Gold-Fudge-7042

From OP's post, it's safe to conclude that she does not want the job back.

From OP's post, it's safe to conclude that she does not want the job back.Reddoraptor

The sad fact is, while it is morally and ethically questionable, the hotel was protecting itself.

The sad fact is, while it is morally and ethically questionable, the hotel was protecting itself.the-traveling-weetz

What exactly are the parameters of this broad rule about fraternizing?

What exactly are the parameters of this broad rule about fraternizing?sufibufi

It's a case-by-case basis, but some hotels and resorts are quite strict about enforcing this rule.

It's a case-by-case basis, but some hotels and resorts are quite strict about enforcing this rule.the-traveling-weetz

Here's a probable scenario:

Here's a probable scenario:callmejenkins

In OP's case, she wasn't even on the clock.

In OP's case, she wasn't even on the clock.DracarysLou

It is likely that employees in OP's former job aren't allowed to mingle with guests outside of their professional duties, whether working or not.

It is likely that employees in OP's former job aren't allowed to mingle with guests outside of their professional duties, whether working or not.PinkTalkingDead

OP could also try contacting their union, if she's a part of one, to explore her options.

OP could also try contacting their union, if she's a part of one, to explore her options.Chewiesbro

The hotel would most likely settle out of court instead of letting things go that far.

The hotel would most likely settle out of court instead of letting things go that far.dagburnedidjit

The boss is the real jackass in this story.

The boss is the real jackass in this story.jessjamthelamb

Yep, OP should be proud at her next job interview.

Yep, OP should be proud at her next job interview.luisapet

She definitely did the moral thing and ensured a woman was safe.

She definitely did the moral thing and ensured a woman was safe.run_build

Hell, if that's your weakness, then it's no weakness at all.

Hell, if that's your weakness, then it's no weakness at all.SigmundFreud

OP's side of the story was dismissed, and a company that treats its employees this way is not an ideal company.

OP's side of the story was dismissed, and a company that treats its employees this way is not an ideal company.SymplyJay

Even if OP doesn't decide to sue or report the company, she should still document the course of events in writing to protect herself.

Even if OP doesn't decide to sue or report the company, she should still document the course of events in writing to protect herself.VeranoEte

The most important thing right now is OP's health and safety. She showed compassion for a virtual stranger, and it's now time to take care of herself.

The most important thing right now is OP's health and safety. She showed compassion for a virtual stranger, and it's now time to take care of herself.UptightSodomite

We can all agree that from a moral, ethical, and human standpoint, OP did nothing wrong. The hotel and its management may have a different opinion, but the truth is, OP will be better off without them.

As other Redditors have said, after OP recovers, she will hopefully realize how amazing she is. She ensured that a person got home safely at the cost of her own job, and now it's time for her to find a workplace that can appreciate that.

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