The Internet Reacts To Boss’s Shocking Response After An Employee Got Hit By A Car

“If you have to teach people basic humanity, then something is really wrong.”

A boss who responds to a car accident with “When will she be back?” is not just cold, it’s career-limitingly brutal. And somehow, the internet still can’t look away.” Beth took her to the hospital to get checked out, while a colleague tried to break the news to the boss as gently as possible.

[ADVERTISEMENT]

Instead of asking about Stacey’s condition, the boss immediately pivoted to a pitch scheduled for that afternoon, and that’s when everyone’s eyebrows hit the ceiling.

[ADVERTISEMENT]

A toxic boss makes every workday feel like walking through a minefield.

A toxic boss makes every workday feel like walking through a minefield.master1305/Freepik (not the actual photo)
[ADVERTISEMENT]

Here’s how the drama unfolded. The boss learned about the accident from a colleague who explained, “Stacey got clipped by a car. It wasn’t going quickly, but she was pretty shaken up. Beth just took her to the hospital to be checked out.” 

Rather than expressing concern, the boss immediately responded, “When will she be back? We have a pitch this afternoon.”

Strategies for Improvement

By encouraging leaders to embrace vulnerability and learn from their mistakes, organizations can create a culture where employees feel safe and respected. Research promotes the idea that when leaders demonstrate a commitment to personal growth, it inspires others to follow suit, ultimately leading to positive change.

Crunching numbers while dodging drama—office life in full swing!

Crunching numbers while dodging drama—office life in full swing!Campaign Creators/Unsplash (not the actual photo)
[ADVERTISEMENT]

The moment Beth is headed to the hospital with Stacey, the boss is already asking for a return date like this is a missed meeting, not an injury.

As if that weren’t appalling enough, the boss rejected the colleague’s offer to step in, calling them a “worst-case scenario.” Only after some back-and-forth did the boss reluctantly agree to let them present. 

Meet the expert who’s decoding toxic bosses one tantrum at a time—Louise Carnachan

Meet the expert who’s decoding toxic bosses one tantrum at a time—Louise Carnachanlouisecarnachan

Leadership Insights

toxic leadership often stems from a lack of empathy and awareness. In his research, Grant argues that leaders who fail to show genuine concern for their employees' well-being create a culture of fear and mistrust.

He suggests that effective leadership is rooted in emotional intelligence and the ability to foster connections. As he states on his website, 'When leaders prioritize their employees' needs, they not only enhance morale but also improve overall productivity and creativity.'

Louise Carnachan, author of Work Jerks: How to Cope with Difficult Bosses and Colleagues, weighed in on the situation, calling it a textbook case of toxic leadership. The lack of empathy left her stunned, and she branded the boss’s response as “breathtakingly inhuman.”

Your ultimate survival guide to the office jungle—Work Jerks by Louise Carnachan

Your ultimate survival guide to the office jungle—Work Jerks by Louise Carnachangoogle books

The boss’s first response should have been, ‘Is she okay?’ instead of their preoccupation with a pitch,” Carnachan explained. 

The moment the internet collectively said, ‘Did that boss seriously just text that?’

The moment the internet collectively said, ‘Did that boss seriously just text that?’ben.askins

Proof that empathy isn’t a requirement on some résumés

Proof that empathy isn’t a requirement on some résumésBP Montage/fakewhats

When the colleague offers to step in, the boss shuts it down by calling it a “worst-case scenario,” because apparently empathy is optional.

It’s the same kind of classroom fallout as when a preschool teacher wondered whether to confront parents after a kid reeked of weed daily.

When faced with a traumatic event, such as an employee being hit by a car, leaders should respond with compassion and support.

Studies show that organizations that prioritize emotional well-being during crises cultivate a more resilient workforce. This approach not only helps employees feel valued but also encourages them to remain committed to the organization, fostering long-term success.

But the signs are often similar—dismissive attitudes, unpredictable tantrums, and a tendency to treat employees like interchangeable tools.

Breaking news: Boss becomes internet sensation for unlocking unimaginable levels of a**holery

@ben.askins This boss's response was completely unacceptable #Worstboss #Badboss #Toxiccompany #React ♬ original sound - Ben Askins

Even after the colleague pushes back, the boss only reluctantly agrees to let them present, as if Stacey’s crash is a scheduling inconvenience.

Sadly, bad bosses aren’t a rare species. A recent FlexJobs survey revealed that 87% of professionals have encountered at least one toxic manager in their careers. 

Toxic environments don’t just harm your health—they slowly chip away at your happiness and ability to maintain healthy relationships.

Toxic environments don’t just harm your health—they slowly chip away at your happiness and ability to maintain healthy relationships.Getty Images/Unsplash (not the actual photo)

So, what can you do if you find yourself under a bad boss’s reign?

Bad bosses aren’t just a workplace myth; they’re actually more common than you think.

Bad bosses aren’t just a workplace myth; they’re actually more common than you think.Carl Heyerdahl/Unsplash (not the actual photo)

Ultimately, know your limits. “Identify your bottom line and plan your exit strategy,” Carnachan advises. Toxic workplaces erode your well-being, and no job is worth your mental health.

Outrage over the boss’s text fueled a wave of relatable stories about surviving difficult managers.

Outrage over the boss’s text fueled a wave of relatable stories about surviving difficult managers.

By the time Louise Carnachan labels it “breathtakingly inhuman,” the internet is basically screaming that this pitch could wait, and Stacey cannot.

Creating a Supportive Environment

Something is definitely wrong

Something is definitely wrong

Zero empathy!

Zero empathy!

No one deserves a boss like this

No one deserves a boss like this

Good question

Good question

Remember, bad bosses don’t just harm employees—they poison entire teams, leading to low morale, high turnover, and lost productivity. 

If you’ve ever dealt with a boss like this, you’re not alone. And if you haven’t? Count yourself lucky. Just don’t forget to watch out for the warning signs.

In summary, the reactions to toxic leadership highlight the essential need for empathy in the workplace.

Nobody wants to work for a boss who treats a hospital trip like a calendar glitch.

For more spotlight drama, read how the pregnant friend asks if she should announce it at her bestie’s bachelorette.

More articles you might like