Airbnb Hosts Tell Tales Of Their Most Arrogant Visitors, Making You Rethink Hosting

Some Airbnb hosts rent out a spare room and call it a day, but one Redditor’s experience turned “simple guest” into full-on family drama.

In her telling, the complicated part was the entitlement. She expected normal guest behavior, but the situation felt less like strangers on vacation and more like people treating her apartment like their personal upgrade. And when she tried to draw boundaries, it only made the whole thing messier.

That’s how one “home stay” turned into a cautionary tale, and it sparked other hosts to share the arrogant stuff they’ve dealt with too.

The OP writes

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The OP rents a spare room in her apartment and has instant booking turned off

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Psychological research indicates that hosting visitors can evoke a range of emotions, from excitement to anxiety, especially when dealing with difficult guests.

When hosts feel disrespected or unappreciated, it can lead to feelings of resentment and frustration, ultimately affecting their overall hosting experience.

The OP felt like she was hosting family instead of a guest, and she didn’t really mind

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The OP was clear in her review that she offers a home stay and not a hotel

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The OP felt like she was hosting family instead of a guest, and that’s when the entitlement started to feel personal.

Other Airbnb hosts have been inspired by the post to share their terrifying guest experiences, with some even feeling pressured to never host again. We've gathered some of the most intriguing stories, so keep scrolling and check them out.

1) This Redditor hosted Australian kids in a shared home

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They wanted to see the horses

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Behavioral analysts suggest that the way guests behave can often reflect their own personal insecurities or entitlement issues.

They still enjoyed hosting them

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Pretty small and a bit smelly

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Other hosts chimed in with their own nightmares, including the Australian kids who wanted to see the horses and still managed to be “pretty small and a bit smelly.”

This feels like siblings fighting over selling their family home when emotions clash with practicality.

Coping with Difficult Guests

Developing coping strategies for dealing with arrogant guests can enhance the hosting experience.

Practicing assertiveness and remaining calm can enable hosts to maintain a positive atmosphere, even when faced with challenging behavior.

2) The only guest this Redditor ever went to the supermarket for

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3) This Redditor cannot believe the things hosts are expected to do

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Then came the guest who somehow made it the OP’s job to go to the supermarket, proving some people hear “spare room” and assume “personal assistant.”

The OP left this in the comments...

The review has been deleted along with my reply; however, I went through each of their points and, in summary, said, “Thanks, I will consider your suggestions; however, these are clearly not listed amenities.”I also mentioned that it’s important to note the extra things they received at no cost, which they had failed to mention, and I listed all of the extras.

4) From a Redditor who homeshares as well

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And the story continues...

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When guests feel entitled to special treatment, they often overlook the importance of mutual respect, which is vital in any social exchange.

Understanding this principle can help hosts navigate relationships with visitors more effectively.

5) So many guests take your kindness for granted

6) This Redditor had guests who were pushing boundaries

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And the clearest warning was the commenter who replied to an unfair review point-by-point, basically saying, “Those aren’t amenities,” while listing the extras the guest got for free.

The violation of social norms can lead to significant discomfort for both hosts and guests.

Hosts should be prepared to address breaches of etiquette to ensure a pleasant experience for all parties involved.

The Redditor is laying low now

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Hosting on platforms like Airbnb offers a unique blend of rewards and challenges that are vividly illustrated by the tales shared by hosts in the article. While the potential for income and the joy of sharing one’s space can be fulfilling, the stories of arrogant visitors highlight the need for hosts to possess not only practical skills but also a deep understanding of human behavior. The anecdotes remind us that navigating the complexities of guest interactions requires emotional intelligence and an ability to empathize with diverse personalities. This insight can empower hosts to create more enjoyable experiences for themselves and their guests, transforming potential conflicts into opportunities for connection.

We know that it's the host's responsibility to arrange the accommodations, but if something goes wrong, the host is automatically at fault.

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In addressing difficult guest behavior, it’s essential to focus on self-care and emotional regulation.

By prioritizing self-care, hosts can cultivate a more positive mindset, which can influence the dynamics of the hosting experience.

Nobody wants to be treated like a hotel employee in their own home.

If you think hosting “family” gets tense, see why she refused her competitive sister’s baby shower plans.