Dude Brings Entire Family To Meet Unwilling Girlfriend Working As A Server, Leaving Her Extremely Annoyed
She met his family for the first time while serving them and others at the restaurant.
One Reddit user thought bringing his whole family to his girlfriend's workplace would smooth things over, but it only made the situation more awkward. She had already dodged meeting his parents, and he decided to turn a normal shift into an unexpected family introduction.
The girlfriend works as a server, and he kept pushing for her to meet his parents before she was ready. Then, while his family was in town, he showed up at her restaurant with everyone in tow, leaving her to handle the surprise while on the clock.
He says it all went well, but Reddit had a very different reaction. Read on.
When she said no, he should've listened.
FamGFServerA huge tip doesn't make it okay.
FamGFServerOP risked her job to make his family feel good.
FamGFServer
Really? Wow.
FamGFServer
When he posted his story online, he was probably hoping someone would acknowledge how wrong his girlfriend was to act like that. But that's not what happened.
Here are some of the best comments.
This commenter says he crossed a line.
Exactly.
FamGFServer
I'd be pissed too.
FamGFServer
OP blindsided her without giving her a heads-up about bringing his entire family over.
FamGFServer
OP must apologize.
FamGFServer
This is similar to a family dinner feud where someone served a non-vegan dish to their vegan sister.
LOL. I didn't mean to laugh, but so true.
FamGFServer
Yep, 100%.
FamGFServer
Yes, OP should've waited for her to be ready.
FamGFServer
Exactly.
FamGFServer
Solid facts, OP.
FamGFServer
That too, for the first time.
FamGFServer
OP wasn't thinking straight, for sure.
FamGFServer
I hope you read this, OP.
FamGFServer
OP shouldn't have conspired like this.
FamGFServer
It went well for OP, not for his girlfriend, who's probably humiliated.
FamGFServer
She was at her job, dude. You should've respected her right to privacy.
FamGFServer
LOL.
FamGFServer
Exactly.
FamGFServer
OP was wrong to do that.
FamGFServer
Exactly.
FamGFServer
LMAO.
FamGFServer
In the end, OP brought his entire family to the restaurant where his girlfriend worked, and that was never going to feel fair to her.
He may think the surprise went smoothly because she stayed composed at work, but that does not make it a good idea.
If she walks away from this, nobody should be shocked.
He really should have left her shift alone.
For another dinner disaster, see why this AITA poster asked friends to leave after an uninvited guest hijacked everything.