Is It Wrong to Gamble While in Debt?

A 28-year-old guy is slowly digging himself out of a 10k hole, and the weird part is, he’s doing it while still keeping a sportsbook tab open in the background. He’s been grinding since COVID ended, after a crappy job left him with student loans and a pile of credit card debt he had to use just to keep life running.

His situation is messy for a very specific reason: in one month, three kitchen appliances broke down and he had to replace them, so the “emergency” became credit card spending. Now he’s got a great salaried job, he’s paying down debt, and he’s even got a strict $800 monthly “fun money” budget that he treats like going out to eat or catching a movie, not like financial sabotage.

Then Chuck shows up at dinner and calls it irresponsible, and suddenly the whole “it’s just entertainment” argument has to survive real scrutiny.

I have about 10k in debt right now.

6k is student loans, 4k is from different credit cards I needed to use in an emergency (for instance: in the span of 1 month, I had 3 kitchen appliances break down and need to be replaced, which I paid for using a credit card). These debts occurred while I had a pretty crappy job that didn't pay much.

After COVID and things went back to "normal", I finally got a great paying salaried job in the field I got my degree in. The first thing I started to do with the extra money was pay down debts.

I was in a much bigger financial hole (around 30k) but after about 3 years, it is down to 10k. The student loans were the biggest hurdle, and if it weren't for those emergencies I had, I would be in a good place debt wise.

6k is a drop in the bucket compared to others. One thing that I enjoy doing is gambling.

I like to bet on sports, especially football, because it gives me a little bit of stake in the games I'm watching. I normally don't bet on other sports, I don't know too much about them.

Maybe I'll place a wager during the playoffs/finals, but generally I bet during football season. Every month, I put aside 800 dollars as my "fun/entertainment" money.

This is for entertainment things, such as going out to eat with friends, going to the movies, buying new clothes/electronics/games and... well, gambling.

Last year, my net result was -800 in gambling debts (I set a limit at the sportsbook for 600 dollars a month). Many months I never use all the 800 entertainment money and it just is used next month and so on.

I was out with some friends last night and I was checking a few of my bets on my phone. One friend asked how I did, I said I lost on UCLA/New Mexico.

One of my friends, "Chuck", mentioned that it is irresponsible of me to gamble while I still have a lot of debt. I told Chuck that this money is set aside for entertainment, and to me, gambling is fun and entertaining.

It is no different than spending it at a bar or restaurant or watching a movie, at least to me. Chuck said that drinks/food/movies you at least get something in return, gambling is just setting your money on fire and hoping you salvage some of it.

I told him I had it under control, and mentioned how I don't really see it that way. I'm enjoy gambling.

I enjoy watching teams I don't root for win me some money. He said something like "gambling is like a tax on the stupid" and I told him I didn't like being called stupid, but he responded with "then don't do stupid things like gamble."

This back and forth went on for a while, and it soured the entire night.

A friend mentioned that the vibe was off, and I blamed Chuck for making a big deal about my money, and he again called me stupid for wasting my money. So, AITA for gambling while in debt?

Edit: Last year I spent 3200 gambling, made 2400 back. I tend to only gamble during football season.

Just because I set a 600 dollar limit on my sportsbook doesn't mean I'm spending 600 dollars a month gambling.

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He’s not betting to chase losses, he’s betting inside a $800 monthly entertainment budget, even while the student loans and credit cards still sit there.</p>

That’s the part that makes Chuck’s comment sting, because OP is actively paying down debt and only used cards for those appliance emergencies.</p>

During football season, OP checks bets on his phone after a night out, and the UCLA/New Mexico loss becomes the instant proof Chuck thinks he needs.</p>

OP insists the sportsbook is just another line item for fun, like eating out, but the argument hangs in the air because the debt number is still too visible.</p>

We'd love to hear your take on this situation. Share your thoughts below.

He might be using the money for fun, but Chuck is making it feel like fun with consequences.

Before you decide whether to ask for help, see what happened when parents added guests and the couple asked to be reimbursed.